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mandiJ
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Due date: 21 Oct ,2007
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This is me and Luke - I didn't know but i was actually pregnant here!! Only about 1 week.

Hi everyone! My name is Mandi and I am currently 30 weeks pregnant with my 2nd child. I have a daughter that is nearly 5 named Hailie and she just started school this year. I was only 19 when i had her and that was quite tough as even though her father and I were together, he didn't really want to be a part of it. So after a few months of putting up with him not helping, and not wanting to be involved as well as treating me like crap, I left him. It was very hard as I was scared I was going to be alone forever with a daughter. But firstly I had my family and some great friends that supported me the whole way. I met a beautiful man named Luke when Hailes was about 1 and it was the old cliche love at first sight. He is a great man that takes good care of me and Hailie and classifies her as his own. So for all you mums out there that are single or doing it tough - love does exist and I believe someone is out there for everyone you just have to allow yourself to be loved by the RIGHT person, dont settle for anything less than you are worth. Now Luke and I are having our first "biological" child together and I couldn't be happier.

This is my beautiful daughter Hailie

And below is Hailie in her Kindergarten uniform - So Cute!!!

And my gorgeous man MWAH! Xo Him & Hailie on Luke's Birthday

Pregnancy Survey:

About You

Name?:

Amanda

Age?:

24

Height?:

5ft 11

Pre-pregnancy weight?:

58kg

About The Father

Name?:

Luke

Age?:

23

Height?:

6ft 2

Are you still together?:

Yes Happily together

About Your Pregnancy

Is this your first pregnancy?:

Nope I have a little girl too

When did you find out you were pregnant?:

February 10

Was it planned?:

Yes

What was your first reaction?:

I couldn’t believe it had happened so fast!

Who was with you when you found out?:

Luke and Mum

Who was the first person you told?:

Luke

How did your parents react?:

They are over the moon!

How far along are you?:

30 weeks

What was your first symptom?:

Breasts very very sore

What is your due date?:

21 October 2007

Do you know the sex of the baby?:

.......................

If so, what is it?:

Have you picked out names?:

We have a few

If so, what are they?:

We like Tayah Dawn, Scarlett, Imogen, Alley, Holly, Hannah and Adele for Girls and we like Mason, Nate, Ethan, Bailey, Sherwin for boys

How much weight have you gained?:

Alot! I put on 15kg when i was 19wks

Do you have stretch marks?:

Yep on my boobs already (poor things)

Have you felt the baby move?:

Yep at about 14wks

Have you heard the heartbeat?:

Yes heard it on 29th May

About the birth

Will you keep the baby?:

DEFINITELY!

Home or hospital birth?:

Hospital

Natural or medicated birth?:

I’ll go natural for about an hour then I want the epidural – I don’t

Think there’s any reason to feel like superwoman!

Who will be in the delivery room with you?:

Just my partner Luke

Will you breastfeed?:

I don’t think so

Do you think you'll need a c-section?:

I really hope not

Will you cry when you hold the baby for the first time?:

Of course I will

What's the first thing you might say to him/her?:

I’ll prob be crying too much to speak!

Would you let someone videotape the birth?:

HELL NO!!

Are you excited about the birth, or scared?:

Terrified – I know what I’m in for this time!! Ha-ha.

I've spoken to a few ppl that are having trouble deciding on names with their partners for their new additions. I came up with these names if anyone wants to take a look:

Boys Names

Girls Names

Ashton

Abbey

Bailey

Ainsley

Brady

Alexandra (Alex - Alexis)

Bradyn

Alley

Brent

Alyssa

Brody

Amari

Beau

Amber

Charlie

Annabelle

Connor

Ava

Cooper

Bailey

Curtis

Bethany

Dean

Caitlin

Ethan

Candice

Flynn

Carmen

Harrison

Charlie

Hayden

Charlotte

Kody

Chloe

Jack

Claire

Jai

Dakota

Jay

Elizabeth

Jake

Ella

Justin

Emily

Jayden

Eva

Joey

Faith

Lachlan

Felicity

Lincoln

Georgia

Matthew

Grace

Mason

Hannah

Nathan

Holly

Nate

Imogen

Oscar

Isabella

Owen

Kaitlyn

Preston

Kara

Riley

Kathleen

Rory

Kyra

Ryan

Laylah

Seth

Madison

Sherwin

Makayla

Shawn

Matilda

Trent

Megan (Meaghan)

Tyler

Melody

Millie

Natalia

Olivia

Paige

Phoebe

Riley

Scarlett

Tamara

Tara

Taylah

Tiffany

This is bubby at 19wk scan!!

Diary

I am going to post my weekly diary on here, but in sections. I dont seem to have room for it all so i'll write a few wks and then take them out. I will have these saved though :)

Week 37:

Well I have a fair bit to fill in here. I was 36wks and 3days when I woke up with bad pains in my stomach. The pains started to become regular and they were 10mins apart so I went up to the hospital. They hooked me up to the monitor and saw I was having regular contractions. So at about 12pm I had an internal and they said I was only 1cm dilated. The contractions kept coming and were 2mins apart and very strong so they did another internal. I was only 1 ½ cm dilated then!! To cut a long story short, the contractions eventually wore off and I was given some pain relief and sleeping tablets and went home the next morning. I was so disappointed because I went through all of that pain for nothing! So I’m hoping that when it happens it will go very fast because I’ve already done all the hard work. Hmm yeah right! Well tomorrow I turn 38wks and even though I’ve loved being pregnant I am officially OVER THIS!!! I want this baby out I feel like a whale. The weather has been really warm and I feel sick and bloated. I’ve been walking everyday to try to get things moving but so far nothing. I only have 15days til my due date and I know that’s not much after all this time but those 15days feel like an eternity. I just want to meet our bub now. Hopefully this is my last entry! Haha.

Me at 31wks

These are some of the photos we got for Luke for Father's Day

Baby Shower Pics:

Me and Hailie, My cake, Hailie opening Pressies

Me opening Present, Me getting help!, My Presents!!!

67 % chance of having a boy

Hmmm Were they right or were they wrong???????????

You won't need to try any secret recipes to bring on labor. Have your emergency numbers ready. Don't wait until the last minute to get your nursery ready. We predict your baby will come 1-2 weeks early. Your baby will most likely be born in the morning. Justmommies predicts that your baby will weigh approximately 7.0 pounds and that your labor will be about 9 hours long.





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Ariel - Monday, 18 Jun
Imdoing okay i guess. considering that whole thing with adam. He decided that he was moving out of town with his new gf.. But i think thats rediculous they have only been together for 3 weeks!!!!


ReneaJ - Monday, 18 Jun
every week :(


Samara. - Monday, 18 Jun
Nope. No more bleeding. I've heard it all goes by really fast but I'm just praying not to fast lol.I want to be able to spend LOTS of time with my baby :D I'm excited about the 26th and finding out what it is :D Then I can throw the baby shower lol. I'm SO excited!


Noah926 - Monday, 18 Jun
mandiJ(Vip) - Monday, 18 Jun Hi ! Thanx for the encouragement. Hopefully that's me too ! ha ha. Well, part of it anyway... he he. ------------------------ Now WHAT was I talking bout here anyway ? lol. You said that you wouldn't mind them..that they hurt, etc. What were we talking bout cuz I totally forget now...lol.. Check what you said (I'm on your pg now, can't read it)


Hollie - Monday, 18 Jun
That would be helpful! I have no idea what to include! lol. Are you showing much yet?


ReneaJ - Monday, 18 Jun
thanks alot! jayden and i are not completely out of the woods yet but we are doing better!


Ashley970 - Monday, 18 Jun
I was bad too. I love pizza. Happy belated birthday to your daughter. It's always fun to celebrate birthdays. I plan on celebrating them even when I get older. I'll be saying what a privelage it is to have grown older and seen so much. This weekend was fun. I got a heat rash though so that kind of hurts. I don't like heat rashes. I spent some time with my family on Sunday and had a blast. Today I'm a little tired though I really shouldn't be.


teddi - Monday, 18 Jun
hey yeah i'm jealous of flat tummied girls too and it's time to go swimming over here and my stomach is not bikini material lol! anyways i've been soooo uncomfortable my lower belly feels like it's stretching, my ankles are swelling, I have braxton hicks and I feel like my littl girl is bouncing on my bladder i'm so done with pregnancy I want her here NOW lol hope you've been feeling better then me!


Hollie - Monday, 18 Jun
I dont really have a birth plan... I know I want an epidural! I want a pain free birth... well, as pain free as possible. lol. I dont know what to do for a birth plan, like Im not sure what to include in it.


Noah926 - Monday, 18 Jun
Hi ! Thanx for the encouragement. Hopefully that's me too ! ha ha. Well, part of it anyway... he he.


Ariel - Sunday, 17 Jun
Aww that picture of you and your husband is really cute!!!


..*Ruby*.. - Friday, 15 Jun
Im doing pretty good.. Im hangin n ther altho its 103 degrees over here! Its horible.. . Howkum dey say its bad 2lay on ur bak wen ur pregnant? Do u kno?


Samara. - Friday, 15 Jun
Everything is going good! Me and my boyfriend are just getting really excited! Although we're nervous because we're so young and really don't know what to expect lol. Well congragulations to you too! And you have a beautiful daughter by the way :)


Ashley970 - Friday, 15 Jun
That's so sad that your kitten was stolen. That's terrible. I'm trying to give Cocoa (my cat) as much attention as I can but in a different form. He's a lap cat and I'm trying to get him used to laying next to me instead of on my lap. He's just such a great cat. I know exactly what you mean about the dangers of this world. I hate that I will have to educate my daughter on evil people (molesters, kidnappers, rapists). It scares me. This world is full of twisted people. I live in a small town. But even this small town has seen it's ugly people. It's scary....new topic. How are you? I was bad and ate a pepperoni and pineapple pizza yesterday. It was so good. I think the pineapple got Melia a little hyper cause she was moving quite a bit. How's your family doing? Got any special plans this weekend?


teddi - Friday, 15 Jun
i'm glad it's going fast for you & i'm also glad your enjoying being pregnant. I kinda enjoy it but not really...i miss my flat tummy & I really want the baby here so I can hold her.. it's all a mix but I would rather have her here then be pregnant lol...i cannot wait until we are all like 40 weeks i'll be so excited!


Hollie - Friday, 15 Jun
No, Im actually way more nervous about taking care of him after the birth, and being able to pay for everything he needs. For some reason the labor isnt even on my mind. How about you, does the thought of labor make you nervous? Atleast you know what to expect, from when you had your daughter. I'll be lost. lol


..*Ruby*.. - Thursday, 14 Jun
hey! how hwve u ben doing?


Pris - Thursday, 14 Jun
Yeah I had my baby on April 25th...I put up some pics on my page in the phots section


Amandaelli84 - Thursday, 14 Jun
I'm actually not scared. I just hope that this time around is as easy as the last. I actually found out on Valentines Day! Best time to find out. Very surprised, but also very excited.


Ashley970 - Thursday, 14 Jun
Ah money. That's the only thing that worries me. Being a single parent doesn't worry me. I will do the best that I can and hope she turns out great. I know that I won't be able to protect her from the world but I will try to prepare her for it as much as I can. I'm worried about my cat getting too jealous and too depressed. I know it's just a cat but he's been my companion for some 3 years. :)


Bek 30 - Thursday, 14 Jun
Hey Mandi, wow Pamela Anderson, I do feel sorry for you. I know our men love it, but they just don't understand, they may be big, but damn they r full. I reckon you just keep updating ure bras as u need them and once bub's is born wear a loose one, seen as though we have to wear them 24/7 u sure don't want one that is going to dig into ure back or under ure boobs, u need a good nights sleep, so loose would be the way to go, thats if they make big maternity bras. I tell ya I really don't wamt to be any bigger then the 20c I am in now.... I am really feeling for u, take care and I'll talk to you soon.


hollie - Thursday, 14 Jun
It was going by fast at first, but now I'm getting anxious. lol. Time always seems to drag by when youre anxious about something. lol. Looking back, it seems like it's gone by so quickly, but when i think about the present, and all the waiting, it seems to be taking forever!! How about you? Is it draging by for you as well?


hollie - Thursday, 14 Jun
Awe, haha, that's why I wanted them to tell me at my u/s. I'd have caved too. The suspense would kill me. lol. We're doing well. I got the results for my gluecose test today, and everythings good. I'm just waiting. I havent had any problems, and I'm hoping it stays that way!!


hollie - Wednesday, 13 Jun
Hey, How are you feeling? Do you know the sex or are you still not going to find out?


AmandaAndChase - Wednesday, 13 Jun
hey, i am sorry to hear about u not being able to get much sleep and ur boobs r still sore, hopefully soon for u that will dissappear and not be a problem anymore...oh yeah i know what u mean with the leg cramps, i dont get legs cramps but i get really bad hip cramps and when i sleep and roll over to the other side it cracks...owie:) but yeah the babys dropped:/ lol eek and its not gonnabe long now... i have my mom and aunt and cusin kristen going into the room with me, my cusin kristen is gonna be my coach because she is a pre-mature baby nurse... so she know how to do it, and stuff... But since the baby doesnt have a dad, i get to cut the babys cord:)i cant wait... but yeah i was just checking up on u and i hope other than those little annoying things that everything is SUPER, and stays on the good path:) ttyl bye:)


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Hailie (2007, 06, 11) Luke & Hailie (2007, 06, 11) Luke (2007, 06, 11) Baby Shower (2007, 08, 16) My Presents (2007, 08, 16) Hailie  (2007, 06, 11) Me and Luke (2007, 06, 11) Bubby (2007, 06, 11) My Baby Shower Cake (2007, 08, 16) Hailie at School (2007, 06, 11) Hailie at School (2007, 06, 11) Me and Hailie at my baby shower (2007, 08, 16)

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