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mariska
Age: 32
Country: NL
Province/region: Noord-Holland
City: Haarlem
Partner: Jeroen
Children: Yes, 2
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Due date: 09 0 ,0000
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Hello all, when writing this I am 26 weeks pregnant. At 21 weeks our baby’s ventricles measured 10.7 after which they sent us to a normal hospital (in the Netherlands these measurements/20-week ultrasounds are only done since January 2007 and so still quite new). this hospital measured the ventricles at 11.3mm (22 weeks) and we were sent to an Academic hospital in Amsterdam the same day as it did not look good at all. The same day we got another ultrasound and the ventricles were measured 10.6mm and 9.8mm second time. We had an amnio done and bloodtests done, all results were good, although they did discover by accident that in some of the cells the sex-chromosome is missing (which is nothing special in 95% of all cases). So we had to go for another ultrasound (24.3 week), everything looked fine except the vents were measured at 11.8 and then 10 minutes later at 11.3. We thought the worst as the measurements had increased. We had a follow up appointment the week after and the dr. told us it is mild abnormality and they consider the condition stable. Next week we will get confirmation of when our next ultrasound will be and they are thinking of doing an MRI at 30 weeks of which we are not convinced we should do. My first born son was never checked; he is now 4.5 years old and seems to be healthy.

UPDATE May 2008

We have our next u/s on 10 June 2008, by which I will be 29 weeks. I feel really nervous about it, but at the same time I realise there is not much we can do, other than sit and wait. I hope that, like it has done with many other babies, the measurements will come down. Keep you posted!

UPDATE June 2008

We went for our first ultrasound on 10 June 2008 in 5 weeks time (at 29 weeks). The vents are now measuring 12.4mm and the third ventricle is dilated too (4.2mm). Brain tissue and head all looks good and the baby is still well within the average range. Our dr. said that is too much fluid on the brain, that's why the third ventricle is visible too. I asked him if he considered this stable as it has not gone up much (measurments between 9.8mm - 11.8 up to present). He is not entirely convinced this is stable, but having said that he would have expected a lower measurement at 29 weeks. (less than our first measurment) that's why he is not convinced this should be consired as stable. So for now he thinks it can still go up or down. It could be due to a narrowing in the neck. As everything else looks good he was not worried. And we....we were relieved due to all the experiences on this board, combined with the fact the braintissue was all developing as it should do (as far as they can tell ofcourse). Our next u/s is 7 July 2008. The hospital still wants us to consider the MRI, but as we heard today you actually have to take medication to tranquilize the baby, we are not convinced if we should do it. As after birth it is way easier to do a scan, which the doctor confirmed. Our MRI is now scheduled for 20 June 2008, but we can still cancel. We had hoped the measurement would have dropped (who wouldn't) but stable (allthough not confirmed) will do for now. Keep you all posted!!!

We have cancelled the MRI which was scheduled for 20 June, our next hospital visit will be 7 July.

UPDATE July 2008

We went to hospital today (7/7/2008 - 33 weeks) and we got confirmation that everything seems to be stable. Baby is growing well and the ventricles were 12.2mm this time. The third still visible too, but the dr. says the too much fluid on the brain is the only 'thing' we can tell you and we just do not now if there will be an impact and if there would be, what it actually would be. Braintissue does not seem to be under pressure. We do not have to come in for follow up scans, they trust that our little one is stable. The head is still a little bigger but within the graph and the baby weighs almost 2200 grams (sorry do not know lbs). It has turned, yesssss!! So it seems no c-section necessary. The neurologist we spoke to last time definitely was not talking about our baby, so I will give hime a piece of mind when the baby is there (which my partner is looking forward to LOL) So we are happy and going to enjoy the rest of the remaining weeks. We also got a 3d picture and the baby looks really cute!! I only have one more week at work, so let the summer begin!! (it is raining at the moment :(() Thank you all for the support on this forum, could not have done this without you.

Last check at hospital was 21 July (35 weeks), only to check growth, blood pressure etc. They told me not to worry about the head size or the head in general that will adjust itself when giving birth. So the ventriculomegaly was just skipped like it was no longer an issue. However, the doctor, saw her for the first time, did think my tummy was not growing fast enough. "Nothing to worry about and I may not have said anything if I had seen you before, but because I haven't, I do want you to go for a scan to check if the baby is growing fast enough.....". I was annoyed at first, but I will just go on 1 August. I do not think she is right anyways (I was affraid they were going to tell me my bump had grown too fast ;)). Keep you posted!!

Update August 2008

We went for an ultrasound today (1/8) to check the growth of the baby. They measured everything there was to measure and the baby was measuring 36+3 weeks, which is what I exactly am. The baby weighs 2950 grams (approx 6.5 pounds) which is almost as much as my son weighed when he was born (39+2 weeks). They had the look at the head and we got the impression that the fluid was not really visible any more and the ventricles looked a lot smaller. The head size which was 3 weeks a head is now measuring exactly the same as everything else. We have the feeling that this baby is doing really well and we really want to meet the little baby.

20 August 2008 (20-08-2008!!!) Baby Benjamin is born. Our little boy is born at 00.42 and he was doing great from the very first start. Benjamin and myself had to stay in hospital overnight en dad had to go home. They had several checks scheduled the next day and the outcome of those would be leading for the follow up actions (so we had no clue when we could go home....) They have checked his genitals extensively because of the 45X, 46XY mozaicism. Everything looks good, he is missing a tiny part of his foreskin, but everything else looks really good. We do have to come in 6 weeks so they can check his hormones. They made an scan of his head....which was the last test....it was nerv wrecking. After they did lots of images of his brain (poor thing) and looked at them in details (without telling us what they were looking at.....arghhhh) they told us "he just has a large ventricle system, not enlarged, therefore we consider him healthy and no follow ups are needed. We bursted into tears of relief. We are so happy that everything appears ok!!! I will keep this forum updated on his progression, so future moms may have something to hang on to. Thanks all and good luck to those who have not given birth yet!!! Big kiss for all of you on here :))

Update September 2008

Today (4 September 2008) we had a house visit of a nurse (standard practice in the Netherlands), who weighed Benjamin and had another look at him. He is growing as he should do and he does everything according to the book. She had not opened his file yet and the first comment she made (without really knowing how proud it made me feel) "what a perfect little boy and he has such a perfect shaped head".....So I told her the story and she was in disbelieve too. So everyting is still going as it should do :))

Update October 2008

Today (14 October 2008) Benjamin got his 2 months check. He is now 57 cm and weighs almost 4800 grams. His head circ. is 39,2 cm. All seems to be within the curves. He is doing everything he should do and was marked as "very strong" as he is very capable of lifting his head. Does not want to do it for long as it is still a bit heavy, I guess. We do need to watch the back of his head and make sure we turn his head when he is a sleep as he does not seem to do this himself, but again this has nothing to do with the ventriculomegaly. He seems to be a happy and healthy baby.

On 23 October 2008 we got the results back regarding the possible impact the 45X,46xy (discovered by coincidence) may have on Benjamin's hormone production. Apparently his male hormone production is perfect. So again another positive result. All the things they thought/discovered during my pregnancy seem to be ok. We are so happy and so is Benjamin, he is smiling more and more each day also his baby speech is improving everyday :))





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Cynthia1972 - 37.2 hours ago
Hoi Mariska,

Jaaaaa ik heb hem gehad en hij was goed! Ik ben superblij. Maar toch vind ik het ook nog steeds psychisch zwaar deze zwangerschap. Ik zal blij zijn als het april is.
Aanstaande vrijdag krijg ik nogmaals de 20 weken echo. Ik ben dan 22 weken zwanger. Ik heb dan exact dezelfde termijn als met Fleur met de echo in het VU. Dan kunnen ze het precies vergelijken. Ik kon er wel van uit gaan dat het nu niet alsnog gaat afwijken.

Hoe gaat het met jou en de kleine?

Groetjes Cynthia


Ali-s - Monday, 1 December
Hi Mariska

Glad to hear all is well with you and the wee one. Dawson is doing great, he is so cheeky and when you try and tell him off, he gives us this great big smile and you end up laughing with him. This morning I tried to change his nappy on a lovely fleecy blanket that my couin bought for him and within a split second he pee'd the blanket so I was joking with him and telling him that was naughty and he just was giggling away. The boy gets away with murder in this house!
Are you organised with Christmas for the boys? Dawson's is in, we didn't go too daft on presents for him as he's not gonna know whats going on this year and Nathan is getting a Nintendo Wii and money for clothes so we're sorted thank god!
Anyhoo glad all is well with the wee man and will speak to you soon. Promise to update new photo's of Dawson soon with that cheeky smile of his.

All our love Ally and Dawson xx


krogers07 - Monday, 1 December
I am not sure if he is teething or not. Different people tell me diferent things. It is pretty early especially since hubby and I didnt teeth till 10 months and a year. How is sleep going? We are consitently (give or take a bit) at every 3 hours. He slept better when he was lettler lol Dont know what to do. I know he can go longer


Ali-s - Wednesday, 19 November
 Too too cute for words! Hope you and Benjamin are doing well? Dawson is getting big and funny, will post more up to date photo's soon. Ally and Dawson xxx


krogers07 - Wednesday, 19 November
Hey how is everything going? Parker is teething and the last 2 night have been no fun at all!! :-( Everything else is going good though. Hows your little guy doing?


krissynj - Tuesday, 11 November
:) Thanks! I'm getting so heavy and it's so uncomfortable!

Your son is so adorable!!!! He's doing fine right?


KRogers07 - Thursday, 6 November
7-8 hours thats great!!! Must be so nice. We only did one night at 8 hours a few days ago. He usually does around 5 hours or so. We are getting there. lol All is well here. He weighs 13 lbs. 5 ozs so he is growing good and steady. He has been laughing like crazy lately to. Rolls to one side and started to play with his toys. Ilove it. Every little thing he does.


KRogers07 - Monday, 3 November
Hey how are you guys doing?


cjengo - Monday, 3 November
We haven't scheduled the MRI yet, but he goes back to Cooks in December. He was super social today and very bright eyed. He is doing everything he is suppose to be so I just hope he continues on that path. I think his brain compensated for everything.


nordic - Sunday, 2 November
So glad all your tests have come back with good results. Nye just rolled over yesterday and is continuing to do really well. I still keep checking on everyone on the forum, it becomes a bit addictive to see how every case turns out. Hopefully there will be more mums as lucky as we have been


karim - Wednesday, 29 October
Thanks mariska. Its reassuring to hear stories like yours.


lin - Sunday, 26 October
thank you!


cjengo - Friday, 24 October
That is awesome!!! we still have to get Jude's MRI but I am really dreading that.


cjengo - Monday, 20 October
Hey there. My own health seems to be much better since I had him. I just realized I have been feeling pretty good the last few days and I discovered I have been forgetting to take the steroid. I think I may just stay off it and pray my platelets stay up. The financial market is scary. I just had a talk with my daughter the other day about the great depression. Although, Texas seems to be lucky because the drilling by Shale Barnett gas has kept our house values up. Our health care system SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!! We need something more affordable so bad. We have CHIPS though the state of Tx but you have to make under a certain amt to qualify. Well honestly it costs so much to live that you have to make that amount to make it. So it's a catch 22. I hope you are well! Oh and yes there are new pics up.


Ali-s - Saturday, 18 October
Hi Mariska
Sorry for the delay in replying, I struggle to find two minutes in the day to get online and see where everyone is at!
Dawson is fine, he has a reflux problem just now where he keeps puking little possets of sick up which is causing him to have heartburn but he seems to be doing better this week, they say it is something that he will grow out of so here's hoping.He is around 9lbs now so starting to get chubby cheeks.
Your wee lad looks so cute in your profile photo, It seems like a lifetime away now that we were pregnant and sending messages of support to each other and now here we are with our little ones trying to put the worry behind us and it's sad to read the main forum and read of all these new mum's in the same boat at us, worried sick and having a tough pregnancy.
We have been blessed with our little boys who are thriving and doing just fine.
Hope this message finds you and your family well?
Ally xx
PS; We still have the builders in :((


Cynthia1972 - Wednesday, 15 October
Hoi Mariska,

Wat een leuke foto zeg! Goed te horen dat het zo goed met hem gaat. Ben je er allemaal al wat geruster op?

De uitslag van de combinatietest was goed. Kans van 1:1900. Dus voor mij geen verdere onderzoeken behalve dan natuurlijk de 20 weken echo. Nog 5 weken geduld... Met 16 weken krijg ik ook nog een echo omdat ik die zelf graag wilde. Eigenlijk is het niet nodig omdat ze dan toch nog niet kunnen zien of er een verwijding van de hersenkamers is. Maar toch, het geeft me het idee dat ik de ontwikkeling beter kan volgen.
Ik moet wel zeggen dat de spanning ontzettend toeneemt hoor. Alles komt weer terug. Maar ja, dat is ook logisch. Moet mijn hoofd koel zien te houden.

Groetjes Cynthia


KRogers07 - Wednesday, 15 October
I cant tell yet who he looks like maybe a little of both. He has reddish hair which I was a total red head when I was born and looks like he will keep his blue eyes like dad but we will see.


cjengo - Wednesday, 15 October
Yes I just put a new pic up, and a very funny blog. My daughter has hit that pre teen attitude and it's driving me nutso. I am not sure who will win the election, but my thoughts are it will be McCain. Honestly, I really like both men, and I think they are both qualified. Therefore, I had to cast a vote against either of them. Democrats in our country have a history of raising taxes though. Although, poor Pres. Bush just hasn't done that great of a job and he is republican. Then again the guy was hit with the worst national disaster (9/11) in history. What a horrible day that was, and scary too! I really believe that this downfall of our economy traces back to that day. My husband lost his freight business due to 9/11 and is still paying for it. Your baby's picture is just so adorable. I love the little hat on his head!!! Remind me have they done another MRI? They want to do one on Jude at three months. My husband loves to travel...he has been to Paris, Spain, England, Switzerland, etc. I told him when we travel Europe again and we should ring you up for a quick visit!


turtlemom - Tuesday, 14 October
 I love this pic!


KRogers07 - Tuesday, 14 October
He is getting so big! And what a cutie!


KRogers07 - Tuesday, 14 October
Yea we havent tried the cry it out yet. We will when he gets to be around 3 months. He got his first cold this week so I have been letting him sleep in his bouncer. I think he sleeps a lot better that way. I rock him till he is just asleep and put him down. Most nights my hubby and I repeat that process a few times but eventually he stays asleep. :-) Time is def the only answer. lol


karim - Monday, 13 October
Oh my goodness, your son is beautiful! It's probably still hard to imagine how difficult of a time you had hearing the vent news from you doctors.

I will keep my head up and use you and others as my faith that everything will be ok.

Thanks so much for sharing your story!


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Photos
me at 28+ weeks (2008, 08, 11) This is me at 31+ weeks! (2008, 07, 02) benjamin only a few hours old (2008, 08, 20) Benjamin @ home (2008, 08, 20) mom bathing Benjamin (2008, 08, 26) Benjamin and dad - 13 September 2008 (2008, 09, 17) Benjamin`s older brothers (left: Raphael - right: Jeeves) (2008, 10, 13) Benjamin smiling (2008, 10, 13) Benjamin 10 october 2008 (7+ weeks old) (2008, 10, 13) Benjamin 2 1/2 months old (2008, 11, 27)

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