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maritzamom
Age: 38
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Partner: Devon (Husband)
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Hello Ladies!

Thanks for visiting my page. I love this website and have enjoyed reading about all of you and our pregnancies!!

I'm pregnant with twins (boy and girl) and my due date is March 16. My husband, Devon, and I have been trying for almost 5 years and have had a really tough road to walk. We did many infertility treatments and inseminations that were unsuccesful. We finally moved on to IVF and I got pregnant the first time. We were ecstatic and thought it was a done deal but then at the 6 week ultrasound we found no heartbeat and the little guy was not the size he should've been. It stopped developing early on. We were devastated but picked up the pieces and moved on. After our fourth round of IVF we were beginning to lose hope. All the daily injections and stress of it all were really getting to me but on our 5th try we finally got pregnant again!! We couldn't believe it and were, of course, so worried because of what happened the first time. After getting through those crucial 3 months we began to relax a little more. Yesterday I started my 20th week and everything has gone so well with the babies. We are truly enjoying ourselves and still can't believe we are having two babies. Then to top it off we get a boy and a girl. I have a ten year old son named Titan who will be 11 in December and he is so excited. He kept saying he wanted a brother and a sister and his wish came true!! He rubs my belly a lot since it has finally popped out and he kisses the babies goodnight every single night I tuck him in. We feel so spoiled now and we pray to God that things continue as well as they have been!



Wednesday, 31 Oct
Hello! I'm 20 weeks and 3 days today. I'm feeling really good overall but I'm wiped out by around 3-4pm! I wasn't very hungry at dinner which is usually the case but I made myself eat a small meal. Anyway, had a good day and those babies are really moving a lot. I think they're using my bladder as a trampolene!

Friday, 2 Nov
I woke up feeling good this morning. I even went to my Jazzercise class for a workout. I've modified a lot of the moves but I still get a good workout. Anyway, got home, took a shower and hung out with my husband, Devon, since he had today off. It was around noon and I was wiped out! Usually that doesn't happen until 3 or 4pm. I could barely keep my eyes open but tried to watch some Desperate Housewives espisodes we had taped. Picked up my son on his early day from school and came home to bed!! I couldn't take it anymore. I got a good nap but had to get up 3 times to pee during my 2 hour nap. I feel like I live in that restroom!! Ahhhhh! Felt better after the nap and now I'm just hanging out with my boys! Sweet dreams everybody!

Saturday, 3 Nov
Hey! Is everyone enjoying their weekend? I hope everyone is doing well. I didn't sleep very well lastnight but am feeling good today. Hubby is at work and Titan is playing with his friends so I'm a little bored because I got all my chores done yesterday. Anyway, I'm super excited because this Tuesday the 6th I go in for a check up and we get to see the twins again. I just love seeing them moving around on that screen. We also get to confirm, a second time, if they are a girl and a boy. Yipeee!! Hey, can some of you tell me how far along you were when people on the outside could start feeling the baby move. I'm 21 weeks today and my husband and son haven't been able to feel them kicking around yet even though I'm feeling a whole lot!!

Monday, 5 Nov
I got some good sleep! Yipeee! So I'm all ready to go workout this morning. After that, I'll be having an early lunch with Devon. Hmmm... We'll see what the babies are in the mood for. I can't wait for our ultrasound tomorrow morning! I want a second confirmation that we're having a boy and a girl!! I'll post more after the u/s.

Friday, 9 Nov
Yahooooooo! Tomorrow, Nov. 10, 2007, I will be 22 weeks!! It's going by so fast. Devon felt the babies for the first time yesterday! He was going nuts with excitement. There has been so much movement going on in my belly so I was frustrated that Devon and Titan couldn't feel them from the outside. Now I just have to get Titan to feel them at the right time!! We think it's our baby girl that Devon felt because on the last ultrasound she was on my left. Devon was melting all over the place and hasn't even met the little ones yet!! Anyway, I worked out today like a good girl but now I'm wiped out!

Monday, 19 Nov
Wow! I am feeling bigger than ever! It seems I'm out of breath most of the day even when I'm relaxing in bed. The babies' kicks and movements are stronger than ever too. Last night I was on my side and my arm was resting on the side of my belly when I felt a big knock on my arm. My arm instinctively popped up! It's just all so amazing to be feeling all of this. As of Saturday, Nov. 17, I am 23 weeks along!! In the past few days I've also been getting a lot of Braxton Hicks contractions. I had the most today. I pay attention to them carefully since I am at risk for pre-term labor but so far they have only been Braxton Hicks. Thank God things have been continuing on smoothly. With all the complications we had over the 5 or so years of trying to get pregnant we can't believe we've gotten this far. Giving up and letting all the failures of getting pregnant rule our life was not an option and we realize that even more now as we wait to meet these little miracles. Next ultrasound is on Dec. 4. Can't wait to see what they are doing in there and how much they've grown!! I'll keep you all posted!

Wednesday, 21 Nov
Went to a class yesterday that taught me how to identify signs of preterm labor. Doc and staff have been so good about making sure I know how to recognize warning signs. The sooner it's identified the faster we can get to stopping early delivery. I like how one of the doctor's assistant put it. She said we need to cook those babies in your tummy for as long as we can. Anyway, I'm feeling good and confident about what they taught me so I feel prepared! This morning Devon was off from work so we slept in and were lazy in bed for most of the morning. He felt both babies moving and kicking around so it was an exciting morning! A few days ago he had only felt the baby girl and not the baby boy but today it was both. I feel like I've been living in the bathroom today. The liquids go right through me!! Happy Thanksgiving to everyone out there!!

Saturday, 1 Dec
Yuck!!! Not feeling good from this darn cold I'm fighting. Haven't been able to sleep well either. It's tough to be out of breath from the big belly and then to not be able to breath from having a cold on top of that!! Doc said that Sudafed was safe so that's helped a little. I think after this weekend I'll feel more like myself. Oh yeah, 25 weeks today!!!!

Tuesday, 18 Dec
27 weeks and growing!! I feel like Titanic. I'm having all the regular discomforts of getting bigger and bigger in the belly but the most important thing is that the twins are fine! We finally picked names. The girlie girl is Danica and the boy is Derrek. We love how Derrek and Danica sound together. Next appointment coming up on Dec. 24 so I'll be updating soon. Hope all the Mommies are feeling well!

Thursday, 27 Dec
Derrek and Danica are doing well in my tummy! I got to see them at the appt. on Monday morning and everything is looking great. I did my 1 hour glucose test and it came back high so I have to now do the 3 hour one tomorrow morning to see if I have gestational diabetes or not. Hope not!! I didn `t have this problem with my first son but with twins and the fact that I `m older raises the risk. That could be why I `m so tired all the time but we `ll see how it goes. I `m not worried about it because I `ll adjust my diet or do whatever I have to do to control/fix it. So that `s what I `ll be doing for the first three hours of my morning tomorrow. Wish me luck! Today I `m 28 weeks + 5 days. Hope everyone is doing well out there and has a wonderful New Years!!

Monday, 14 Jan
Hey everyone! I `m at 31 weeks and still moving forward! I feel huge but the babies are doing well and moving so much! We sure had a wake up call on Friday night though. I was getting contractions Thursday and Friday but they got a lot more consistent with lots of pressure. I talked to someone at Labor and Delivery and they wanted me to come in for a stress test. They had me drink a lot of fluids to hydrate myself because they said I was having way more contractions than they would like to see. They were starting to talk about admitting me too. The good thing was that the babies heart rates were fine and they seemed to be doing well. I drank and drank but nothing changed so they started an IV to push fluids that way and thank God the contractions slowed down majorly! My cervix was checked and doc said it was intact so I got to go home with special instructions of course. No bed rest at this point but basically don `t do much at all and just take it easy and stay well hydrated. We need those babies to stay in my belly until atleast 34 weeks so we are crossing our fingers and I `m doing what I need to do. We checked into that hospital at 7pm and didn `t get released until 2am!!! Definite wake up call for us. Just wanted to share! My baby shower is coming up this Sunday the 20th which will be so fun! Can `t wait. TAke care ladies and enjoy the week.

Sunday, 27 Jan
Hey everyone! Hope all is well! I have to say, as for me, I `m creeping around like an old lady! Everything hurts but I `m so excited to be at 33 weeks today. I `m seeing doc once a week now and he said we just need to keep Derrek and Danica in my belly through this coming week and then they will be safe to deliver if I actually do go into labor. I have moments where I feel like labor is starting. Things are definitely happening and I can `t believe how close we are to meeting our little ones! I can `t be on my feet for too long but am hanging in there that `s for sure. Take care ladies!




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buninovenx2 - Monday, 12 May
ok- so I now understand why it's so very hard to make time for things like the computer- i get so wrapped up in caring for and loving on adison that I even forget to eat!! She is really and angel baby though, sleeps 5-6hours at a time each night, hardly ever cries much and she is changing with each and every day that passes. We got to give her the 1st real bath last night considering her cord finally fell off on Friday so that was funny and afterwards she looked and me and daddy and made her first coo sound! how sweet! She will also smile at us every now and again- I just love and cherish each and every moment with her. I am recovering well from the c-section, it's just taking some time to really get back to myself- belly is still pretty sore some days. But, I'll be okay-she's totally worth it. Hubby is still doing wonderful with fatherhood and oh...good news, mother in law is going to keep her for us when I go back to work but the dr. i work for said that we could work it out that I can bring her with me 1-2 days a week for a while, until sick season hits that is! I'm so relieved knowing that she will still get to be with me a lot until she gets a bit older because I'm a little afraid that the in-laws will spoil her so rotten and hold her so much that I won't be able to stand her when she's at home! That's probably wrong of me to feel that way but I just can't help it, I am mommy and I know how to do things just right for her! Anyway, enough about me- glad to hear that your little angels are beginning to allow you to sleep and longer intervals. Are you breastfeeding or bottle? I can't remember if we ever discussed that. I'm bottlefeeding and she is doing very well with it, I nursed her a couple times but am just not personally comfortable enough with it and felt like the bottle was the way to go for me. Sometimes I feel guilty but at the same time- I know that what I'm comfortable with is probably best for her, plus she also gets to bond with daddy during feeding time! I'm like you though, I only get on here to keep in touch with you, it's just not as often as I would like! Keep in touch as much as you can though and once I get back to work I'll be on more often. I still have about 5 or 6 weeks left ! YAY! Take care and kiss the angel babies for me- tell them their friend in NC sends her love! Talk to ya soon! _Kerry


startingoverat37 - Wednesday, 7 May
How are you? Have you been able to keep up with the two? Double the fun! You are in my thoughts. Hope you are doing well...did you guys move in the new house yet?


buninovenx2 - Wednesday, 23 April
It was great to hear from you and I appreciate the congrats. Motherhood is such an amazing experience even the 2nd time around. I will definitely keep in touch and keep posting pictures as I get them! Her hair is quite a sight huh? My oldest daughter had a lot of hair but I think Adison has more, the funny thing is that it is so dark but the roots, her eyebrows and lashes are all blonde so I'm wondering if it's going to change soon? Who knows. Anyway, gonna post her birth story right quick and then spend some time with her, I hear her in the kitchen right now fussing with daddy. Talk to you soon!


buninovenx2 - Tuesday, 22 April
Howdy! Finally get a chance to get online...life has been rather busy the past few days considering that our baby girl made her grand entrance on Friday the 18th @ 7:51 am. She weighed in at 8lbs 13oz and was 20 inches long with a head full of dark hair! I went to the Dr. on Thurs. for the growth u/s and they estimated her weight @ 9lbs 1oz even @ 38 weeks 4 days. The concern wasn't really her weight though as much as her torso and shoulders measured 41 1/2 week size and with my history of 4th degree tear she felt it would be almost impossible for me to have her vagially without severe trauma to either me or baby. I quickly reassured her that I was fine with a c-section if that's what she felt was best. So we decided to go ahead with that so by Friday morning at 7:51am we had a beautiful baby girl! The c-section went smoothly and this angel girl is such a blessing- she is very worth every bit of pain or discomfort I've had to endure! So far everything has been pretty smooth, I'm feeling a little better every day and this baby is literally an angel. She had her days and nights mixed up a bit while we were in the hospital but now that we're home it's getting better. Last night went down @ 10, up @ 2, back down until 6am and then had been continuing her napping/waking spells pretty regularly all morning. I'm just so glad to finally have her in my arms! Love isn't even a big enough word to describe it! I'm glad to hear you're feeling better, I can only imagine how hard it is to be a new mommy and sick at the same time! Ok- I'm starting to wear down a little and need to go the bathroom so I'm going to go but I promise to post pics and a full birth story ASAP. I might even try to put a pic or two on right quick, lord knows I can't wait to show her off! I'll keep in touch, and talk to you soon! And by the way, you feel free to vent to me anytime, that's what I'm here for and thanks for listening all the times I had to do the same thing. Pregnancy may be over but our journey as mommies has just begun!


buninovenx2 - Monday, 14 April
Howdy! Yes, I'm still here and still pregnant!! I have like 11 days to go now but my growth U/S is coming up this Thurs. so that Dr. can decide where to go from here. I swear after the way I felt this weekend, I'm going to just beg her to do something at my appt., I don't care if she puts me in and does a c-section @ this point, I'm just ready to feel like me again. Went to the Dr. this past Friday and am measuring right on with belly size, 2 cm dilated and 50% effaced so my body is definitely making progress. This is simply amazing and exciting to me considering with my 1st, i couldn't get past 1 cm even when they were doing the induction process so I'm super excited to be coming along on my own. Any progress is better than none @ this point. So, Friday night I was super excited and decided that walking would be the best idea so I took off- up and down the driveway for right at an hour as hard as I could go. It felt really good at the time but I think I may have overdone it a little bit cause I didn't sleep at all Friday night- slept most of the day Saturday, never even left the house, barely got up except for to go to the bathroom. Also rested yesterday but ended up getting up and going when my parents called to tell us they got a new puppy and wanted us to go shopping and have dinner, so we did. I came home last night, decided to pack a few last things for the hospital and went to bed, slept pretty good- got up and came to work at 8am this morning. (This is a rarity for me anymore so YAY!) I feel much better today than I have felt in a few days so that's a definite plus. I feel today like I might just be able to hang in there a bit longer. I keep reminding myself that once this is all said and done I will look back and "miss it" so I don't want to rush the experience. I'm having weird emotions about it I guess because one minute I'm done with it and the next I'm coping and accepting it all. Who knows, welcome to pregnancy I guess. I just remember how much a baby changes your life so I'm trying to enjoy the last little bit of time I have as a mother of one who is just about old enough to take care of herself for the most part! Thanks for all the thoughts and prayers, I will definitely keep you informed! Hope everything is going well for you as you settle in to a routine with your new angel babies! Give them a kiss for me and I will talk to you soon!


buninovenx2 - Tuesday, 8 April
Hey! Great to hear from you, I know your life has suddenly become super busy as mine will soon enough so don't feel bad for not being able to keep in touch quite as much! I completely understand! To be honest with you, the further along I get the less I want to "keep in touch" with anybody, especially by phone. If it's not the computer or text messaging I don't really have the urge to talk for some odd reason. Who knows, guess I'm just weird right now. I've made it to 37 weeks 3 days as of today and as of last Tues. @ 36 weeks I was dilated to 1cm already. (Which I know doesn't mean a whole lot but makes me feel better because I know my body is at least attempting to prepare for this big event!) I look at it like, that's 1 less cm I have to do once labor really begins! I go back to the dr. this Friday and am hoping to be making a little progress because I have truly reached that uncomfortable point where I just feel crampy in my pelvis, muscles are exhausted, extreme heartburn and joints achy/swollen. They have me scheduled for a growth U/S next Thurs. the 17th and if she is big enough (which I have no doubt about) they are thinking they'll go ahead and induce me pretty quick @ 39 weeks to prevent her from ravaging my body like my first one did. They say since I had such a hard delivery and tear with my 1st (forceps & vacuum extractor) they don't want her to get so big that I can't at least attempt to have her vaginally and naturally like I want. We'll have to just see though, day by day for me right now! Things are going pretty good, I've really tried to start scaling back here at work and the girls seem to be picking up the slack without to many problems. I've been doing a ton of walking, hoping that will help things along a little bit and I've done the whole nesting thing last week. I finally got to the point 2 weeks ago with the house work that I hired a lady to come in every other week and do the major cleaning (floors and bathrooms, etc.) and this has really helped to ease my mind and allow me to relax a bit. I feel like I'm not so pushed to keep everything done anymore and don't feel guilty when I need to lay down and rest. I'm really glad to hear things are going well for you and your new additions even though it sounds super exhausting! I know they are beautiful blessings and I bet you could just sit and stare at them for hours on end!! Well, I've got to attempt to concentrate on work for a few hours today which is becoming increasingly harder to do! I'll try to keep in touch and keep you posted as much as I can and you do the same! I miss ya! Say some prayers for me as I reach the end of this journey! Talk to ya soon!


buninovenx2 - Monday, 3 Mar
HEY! I am SO happy to hear from you and even more excited that all is well with you and the babies! (Even though it sounds like you've really had a tough road) And guess what...you're babies were born on my birthday!! I am also a Feb. 1st baby so, YAY! I have really been saying lots of extra prayers for you and as soon as you get a chance I hope that you'll put some pics of the baby on here so I can see the precious little boogers! I bet they are both little angels! As far as the swelling and extra pain you've been in, hang in there, I know for a fact that it will take a good amount of time for your body to readjust after such a 'shock' and I mean that literally, preeclampsia is a form of shock for your body and the swelling that it causes can go deeper than what is visible by your naked eye. It can really get into your joints and muscles causing the type of pain that you've been describing. I know the doctors have already told you this but be SURE you are drinking tons of water everyday, that will help tremendously! As far as things go for me, I can't complain. I am certainly beginning to have the onset of excessive tiredness again but I am still working like a dog too because of ongoing issues at work. There was a small incident on my b'day and then again a couple of weeks later with some bleeding which ended up making me have to go for some extra checks at the doctor but so far everything has been holding steady and docs have told me that one way or another I have to start taking it easy or they will put me on bedrest which I DO NOT WANT! So I'm trying my darndest to do as I'm told but I'm telling you, I don't get much help or sympathy at work because there are 3 of us in the office that are pregnant but I'm due like 5-6 weeks before both of the others so maybe they'll start to sympathize once they get where I'm at, to bad that does me no good right now. Not to mention, I'm not a whiner so I just walk around here with my mouth shut and do my job without letting anyone know when it gets to be too much and that is my fault! Enough about work though, the ultrasound was so much fun and was my gift to hubby for his birthday a week ago since he says he can't wait to see her, it is so amazing and she looks JUST LIKE HIM I think! So, things are going well and absolutely flying by, I simply can't believe it, I've had one baby shower so far and have two more to go! How Exciting! Ok- well back to work I go, great to hear from you and keep in touch, I've missed ya! Talk to you soon!
~Kerry


startingoverat37 - Monday, 3 Mar
Congratulations! I am so happy for you. I am really ready for Erins descent! I am still very sick and I am very ready to have the nausea go away. I can not stand all this nausea any longer. I am beginning the induction at 7pm March 13th. Thnaks for letting me know all is well. I am happy you have the kids home with you! :)


startingoverat37 - Monday, 3 Mar
Oh my gosh you are online. I check on you a few times a day to see if you are on. You have not been on in FOREVER...Tell me whats happening?! The angels are born??? I will wait to hear from you!


buninovenx2 - Saturday, 16 Feb
Hi! Wanted to check in on you and let you know that I hope you and babies are doing well! I see you haven't been on in quite some time but I'm going to attempt not to worry!! I posted some belly pics from about a week ago if you get a chance to check them out! Feeling okay here, went for a pregnancy massage today...YAY. Well, my hubby is waiting on me so I must hurry but will write more later! Talk to ya soon I hope!


startingoverat37 - Monday, 4 Feb
Well whats the update with you? Are you still incubating? How are you doing? How are the babes? Let me know. Tisha


startingoverat37 - Sunday, 27 Jan
Are you having any contractions? Or is it just that twins come earilier usally? Are you ready for double trouble :)? I always wanted twins but obviously God knows I could not handle it. Bummed me out though when I realized there was only one. I thought wouldn't it be cool if I had twins as this is the last pregnancy and then there would be 2 for the price of 1. Playmates.
So your house won't be complete til March. Man! Thats tough! Would have been nice not doing a huge move with lil ones. You will have to get alot of help. You take it easy and let others help you out. Did you have a shower? That would be interesting buying double everything. I hope you are doing well I see you aren't on a ton. Good luck this next week...let me know the progress and when they are born.
I am still nausious everyday. I have been going through severe depression recently- being so tired of the nausea, feeling very isolated from pepole since I am so sick I do not go anywhere really, the gloomy weather here in Washington, and just plain and simply tired of pregnancy! Erin Kelly is breech. The doctor is going to try to turn her through my stomach in 2 weeks. OUCH! I think I would rather the c section. Well you take care of yourself.


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My Boys! (2007, 10, 29) 20 weeks pregnant with twins! (2007, 10, 29) Maui 2007 (2007, 10, 29) The Twins are Home!! (2008, 03, 10) Baby Girl (2007, 11, 03) Baby Boy (2007, 11, 03) Feeding Time! (2008, 03, 10) Wedum Twins (2007, 11, 03) Mommy & Derrek (2008, 04, 27) Daddy & Cuties (2008, 04, 27) Derrek & Danica (2008, 04, 27)

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Derrek (2008) Danica (2008) Titan (1996)

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