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mayasmom
Age: 36
Country: US
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Partner: THE BEST husband
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I participated on this site my entire pregnancy...my baby is now 4 months old. I took a break after I returned to work, but I find myself wanting to participate again, and I think I can squeeze it in on lunch breaks and such.

My little story:

I will have been married one year on June 30th. My husband is the love of my life...my absolute soul mate, and well worth the wait to find him. He was a Catholic priest for eighteen years before we met, and I was a single parent for six. After experiencing so many years of loneliness, we really appreciate the life we have together far more than I am able to articulate here. He is my best friend, and I treasure every moment with him. Not to suggest all has been smooth sailing! We've had some serious challenges, with him leaving ministry, a difficult pregnancy, the premature birth of our son, and an extended newborn phase that prevented us from sleeping far longer than parents of full term babies!

My 8 year old daughter was my reason for being for many years. When I got pregnant with her, I was single, had just returned from working as a Peace Corps volunteer in the Eastern Caribbean for two years and wasn't quite sure what direction my life was going. She motivated me to go back to graduate school, learn transcendental meditation, cut relationships that weren't in my best interest, and in general, take better care of myself. Our years of just the two of us were challenging, but I wouldn't trade them for anything. Everything happens for a reason. So now I'm a married mother of two beautiful, healthy children, living in my dream home, a 130 year old farm house, and surrounded by loving family (well, ok, on my side...I do have some challenging inlaws) and friends, and working at a job I love. I never thought I could feel this happy and fulfilled. Life is good!





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collsbaby - Thursday, 26 June
 Your hubby looks just like Ewin McGregor!!! Handsome indeed! :-) We are lucky girls, eh?


girlwitstyle - Wednesday, 25 June
Hi!
The camera is called the Diana, it's the Mint Green one. It's a little tricky to load film in it, that is the only drawback so far. I have another Toy camera called a Holga, which is cheaper than that...that one I find the film easier to load. These are plastic cheap cameras so expect them a) not to last long and b) to have flaws and c) the results can be hit or miss. After using digital for many years, it's somewhat refreshing to play around with these cameras as the results can be fun!
If you know Flickr, search for Diana and Holga groups to show you what great pictures you can take!
Thanks for the compliment about the clothing. I've been designing childrens clothes for 13 years. i started off at Limited Too, was head designer at Ralph Lauren kids, design director at Gap....so many people have told me to do my own line, but it's expensive and I have a mortgage to pay!
Hope your husband has fun with the camera! The film you need to buy is 120 film. I go to local camera stores and ask for expired film, it looks better even! They usually give it to me for free as nobody will buy it.




karenc - Wednesday, 25 June
oh, good, i'm so glad you're feeling better. the way you're planning to handle it is incredibly mature, particularly in light of all the emotion tied up in breastfeeding and pumping, etc. good for you for a.) doing the right thing for ian, and b.) doing the right thing for yourself.


flgrl - Wednesday, 25 June
oh thats just crap! send an email out to everyone stating you are offended by their coffee mugs sitting out and they should be put into a paper cup


newmomcop - Wednesday, 25 June
no problem at all...its just a big ol mess and very frustrating...i dont think she should have to choose between parents either and its not fair to her at all...but we ask her and she will tell abby right in front of us and then she gets upset b/c she cant do something and we get the blame...she wants to blame us...i mean she bought the child a cell phone..which im so against as seeing a 10 year old has no business with one..just my opinion.. and then told us to call abby's cell phone if we needed something and of course my husband is like, no ill call you....i could go on forever just b/c we have had issues from day one and it seems like its never going to end...every time we say things are dying down and maybe life can get to normal we get slapped in the face....


jennyoaces - Wednesday, 25 June
i can't beleive you're working in child welfare with women and this is an issue! that's outrageous!


karenc - Tuesday, 24 June
thank you, too, for your feedback on my coworker smoking issue. i'm still not sure what i'll do, but getting perspectives from you and the other moms was SO helpful.


babyjayden - Tuesday, 24 June
Screw that! You are doing whats best for your baby and you have a right to leave them out!! If I were you I would not worry and keep doing what your doing!!!! Good for you on doing what is the best for your baby! Have a wonderful day and don't worry about those rude people!


angier - Tuesday, 24 June
Awww do not feel bad...if i were you i think i would just confront them in a professional manner...and let them know that they have really hurt your feelings and that it would have been much easier had they just let you know other than embarressing you by telling the whole office, but if you ask my opinion i would through a stapeler ar their heads, because they cleary arent mothers, any mother would understand !!! but dont you dare feel embarressed, your a wonderful mom and i guess they just dont understand what being a mother is all about....next time they are eating lunch make sure they chew with their mouth closed or i would tell them please keep your mouth closed i dont want to see your food while im eating !!! Keep your head up !!!


karenc - Tuesday, 24 June
i am so sorry that happened. but you know, people can be so ignorant. i would just put the parts in a paper bag, as suggested below and, when you're feeling less emotional, let HR and perhaps those women know how hurt you were. i understand that not everyone accepts breastfeeding for what it is, and i have to respect those opinions b/c i believe in freedom of choices. however, i also believe in sisterhood among women, cheesy as that sounds, and those coworkers have let you down when they should have been supporting you. all that said, you know yourself and your workplace best, so if you choose to just let it go and move on, then rock on sister!


lil-ole-me - Tuesday, 24 June
Just put your ziploc bag in a brown paper lunch sack - no one will know the difference!


luvbeingamom - Tuesday, 24 June
Yea i would have fit until they told me! I am not exactly the quiet type!! It is like when people ask you to bf in the bathroom, i always tell them "if they don't like me bf here (where ever here is) then they can go in the bathroom and eat their dinner" haha. People are just crazy!


mommytofive - Tuesday, 24 June
I am sooooooo mad at who ever wrote that email to you!!!!!! YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO LEAVE YOUR PUMP TO DRY RIGHT WHERE IT IS!!!! YOU ARE PROTECTED BY LAW!!!!! YOU SHOULD PUMP YOUR MILK IN THE BREAK ROOM IN FRONT OF EVERYONE. THEY HAVE NO NONE ZILCH RIGHT TO ASK YOU TO DO THAT!!!!! IT IS NOT LIKE THEY ARE DRIPPING WITH BREAST MILK... THEY ARE JUST SITTING THERE DRYING!!! IF I WERE YOU I WOULD RESPOND TO THE EMAIL AND SAY " THANK YOU.....BUT NO THANK YOU." the paper towel could contaminate the parts and then you are back to square one again. aaahhhhhhggggghhhhhh..... I HATE IGNORANT PEOPLE!!!!!!!


usagi - Tuesday, 24 June
Giggle A LITTLE you say? I see those big smiley photos on your page! Ian is soooo cute!!!


1blessedmomma - Monday, 23 June
Thanks. He's such a sweetie.


dannie - Monday, 23 June
To post a picture go to photobucket.com and follow the directions. You have to first sign up and then will be able to upload photos. When you have uploaded your picture and adjusted it the way you want and hit apply, there will be an html code under the picture, you just copy and paste it under comments. Good Luck!


mummykris - Monday, 23 June
Thanks for the reply. I guess every baby is different and I keep forgetting that. A friend of mine told me that the squishy teethers didn't work for them, but the washcloths did! So I will give it shot. Here's hoping Ian doesn't get too fussy.


momoffive - Monday, 23 June
oh, I just read your post about finding out you were pregnant. How exciting. I remember when we found out we were pregnant with our first. My husband and I are both christians and had not been living very godly lives. We had been trying for a year and the night I took the test I had been feeling really crummy. I had taken a test a week before and it was negative but decided to try once more since I usually got my cycle shortly after all of the other negative tests. It was 11 at night and I went in to take the test and my husband got down on his knees for the first time in years and prayed and promised God if he gave us a baby, just one baby, he would make sure that we raised it to know and love him. Sure enough the test was posotive. We were jumping up and down and screaming and laughing and crying and called everyone we knew immediatly at 11 at night :-) Not one of them minded. If we only knew what we were in for back then!!! I still can't believe there was a point in our lives that we thought we'd never be parents. We really are blessed with all of these little ones. I sometimes forget how badly I wanted them when I am overwhelmed. They really are my greatest joy though.


momoffive - Monday, 23 June
Oh I hated being pregnant too. I hated it the second and third time and (the first one was new and exciting) and when I realized I was going to have to do it again I was so upset. It turned out to be an amazing pregnancy. The best one by far. I am so glad for my little Sammy. He's wonderful and I miss him so much the brief times I leave him. God of course new what he was doing.


marygn - Monday, 23 June
hi there, i feel ya on the finding it so hard to get the time to get on here anymore, and i only have one child, and a part time job!! hows ian? how r u? hows the fam?well i was just checking on u, hope all is well!xoxoxoxo


momoffive - Sunday, 22 June
Hi, I just read your post about your friend finding out that she's pregnatn. It reminded me of when I got pregnatn with my 3 year old son. He was my 3rd baby, you would think I'd of known by then. I felt pregnant so went and got a dollar store test (didn't wnat to waste the money on an expensive one if I wasn't) My baby sister had a couple of friends that had used them so I called and asked her "If a friend" took one and it didn't show up posotive for a few minutes was it still accurate...She got so excited and screamed into the phone "your pregnant!" I hadn't even told my husband the thought had crossed my mind so I denied it (very poorly) and quickly called to tell him I was going to get a good test but thought I might be before someone else told him :-) My sister has bragged for 3 years now that she knew before him.


juniperberry - Friday, 20 June
Thank you for your supportive response It's 4.38am here, I'm on my own and I don't have a car. I'm just watching her for a couple of hours. Hope you and your beautiful baby are well and happyyyyy (((hugs)))


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