Im Melissa were Expecting our first baby this november and cant waite. We found out that were going to be having a little girl. The deal was if it was a girl i would be allowed to pick the name if it was a boy my boyfriend would pick the name. Well I won, so i picked Bentley. Im not married and don't plan on getting married for a bit. They say that the first year of marriage is the hardest, so we dont want to throw a baby in the mix. I know someday we will though, especially since I love him so much. For now the focus is on our little girl. Im hoping to get to talk to other people on this website who is sharing the same experience as i am. Its kind of a scary process its nice to know that your not always alone that other people are going through the same things as I am.