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merseyloo1
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Hi everyone and congrats to all of you mommies-to-be! I'm Veronica and I've been married to my husband Stan since October 7, 2006. We live in Indiana where we both grew up. Although Stan is 13 years older than me. He does Marketing for a living and I work in Payroll. This is our first baby so we are so excited but also nervous. Neither one of us know anything about babies so this should be an adventure. We normally spend our time riding motorcycles and hanging out with friends who's children are almost grown. This will definitely be a big change for us. I hope we can keep our sanity. :) Fortunately a couple we are very good friends with just had a baby in September so we are already learning a lot from them.
I wish you all the best of luck and hope we can all learn a lot from each other.


January 28, 2008

Well, I'm 31 weeks and I can safely say I'm feeling the pains of pregnancy. My freaking stomach is so sensitive. It's almost like I'm stretching so fast my skin can't keep up. It just hurts and aches with every move. Even clothes hurt sometimes. Thankfully no stretch marks have arrived yet. Also, my boy keeps punching my round ligament and it just feels like a knife is stabbing my side. I just can't seem to get relief from the pain and discomfort these past few days. I guess maybe this is just my body's way of getting me used to pain gradually. Ugh...


February 13, 2008

So we had our second birthing class tonight. This was the first one my husband went to. I hate to admit this but I think he might drive me crazy during labor. He's just not very attentive. And he was so figity in the class. He has to be out of town for the next two classes so my mom will go with me. As much as I want my husband to be my "coach" It's looking like my mom will most likely be more helpful. It's just not in the poor man's nature to deal well with these things. It's a little disappointing because I would love for him to be all about it. But I also know back when I was born, men were hardly involved at all.

On a cheery note, my showers are just around the corner. One on the 23rd and one on the 1st of March. I have to admit, I've been peeking at my registries! I can't wait! Next Dr. appt is Friday.


February 19, 2008

Alright, I'm going to use this page to vent my a$$ off. This must be my week to ride the emotional rollercoaster. My husband is not a sympathetic person at all and treats me as if I'm just as fit as I was before I was pregnant. Not once has he thought to help me more around the house or with grocery shopping or anything for that matter. He just left for 3 days and didn't change the bottle on the watercooler after I asked him at least 3 times to do it before he left. Now I have to go get some bottled water. I did laundry all weekend and he never once offered to carry the baskets up or down the stairs for me. I asked him if he could clean up after dinner last night since I was still doing laundry and paying bills and he just completely ignored that I even asked him. I've asked him to come with me when I do the grocery shopping because now days it wears me out. But no, he won't go with me and doesn't help carry them in when I get home. I don't think he's being this way on purpose, I really think he's just freaking clueless. I just want to knock some sense into him. I hope the baby takes a big crap on his laptop and throws up on his remote when he gets here. I know I sound awful but I'm just at that point today where nothing seems to be going right. Can't sleep, can't poop, insurance issues, dogs are on my nerves, sick of working, housekeeper quite with no notice and my husband is a slob, snow is moving in tonight and heartburn now attacks me nightly. AGGGHHH! Lord, please let this mood pass QUICK!


February 25, 2008

Thank goodness my terrible mood has passed. I'm just full of excitement these days. I've had my first shower with one more to go this Saturday. So strange seeing all of the baby items in my house. At times it seems like the time is going fast then at other times it seems like it's taking so long for him to get here. I'm just really excited to meet my baby boy. His movements are so pronounced now. I do have moments where I fear something will be wrong with him. Things like Downs Syndrome or various other things. I have no reason to be fearful but it is in the back of my mind at times.
Sleeping has become a chore these days which makes for a miserable day at work. And eating is no longer fun since I get so full so quickly and burp up everything for an hour afterward. Other than that I don't really have any major issues thank goodness. Just some common aches and pains. All in all I have to say I have enjoyed my pregnancy. I feel so blessed that things have gone so well. So many people, even close friends of mine, have had so much trouble and heartache with pregnancy. We are truly blessed. Just five weeks to go now. I hope they are as wonderful as the past weeks.




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mom2boy - Wednesday, 2 July
Today was the worst day of my life I didn't make it through my shift. I cried in the bathroom stall I called the daycare over and over. He wouldn't eat from a bottle he wouldn't nap. They called me and told me they couldn't keep holding him because there are other babies there and asked me when I was going to come pick him up. I think I need to quit.


hoosiermommy - Wednesday, 25 June
Hi - thanks for your message! Always nice to chat with another Indiana mommy... our boys are around the same age, too! How's your little guy doing? Sleeping through the night yet?? :)


littletonmommy - Friday, 20 June
Ahhh your parents should be a good back up if you are starting to go nutty! Tell hubby to get home quick...


mommyinthesky - Friday, 20 June
I'm sorry that things flooded. The overwhelming feeling with work too is something I am dreading. Today I felt like I did everything alone even though my husband is in town. He spent all of 5 mintues with Jacob today. This evening he went golfing while I did Jacob's routine and put him to bed while his kid stayed on the couch. No matter what the moms are the ones stuck with the baby when it comes right down to it. Felt like crying several times lately, but have been unable to. Very unusual for me. I usually have no problem crying. It is getting overwhelming. I finally got the medical bills taken care of yesterday. It's taken 3 months to get them straightened out. Anyway, I feel like I'm losing myself somewhat too and that I will fade away completely one of these days and turn into "Jacob's mom." My husband was talking about how every summer it's the same thing and it's always bad and we always fight. But next summer I have a plan. I am going to take vacation time and take Jacob with me to visit all of my friends that I don't get to visit as often anymore. Next June, we will just go away for the month. Going from place to place. When his son is gone, we'll return.


littletonmommy - Thursday, 19 June
I understand how you feel. I work all day and take care of Teagan all night. I do feel isolated and alone sometimes doing this. It doesn't help that I am nursing because that means others can't help me. Do you have any friends or family that can help you while hubby is gone?


mom2boy - Tuesday, 17 June
I can't believe your hubby won't let you stay home. Tell him you can cook and clean for him, there are huge benefits for a family where the mom stays home. My husband told me that if I wanted to stay home I could but I feel obligated to go back to work for several reasons. 1. I would feel bad if I told my work I was coming back from the beginning and then last minute say "never mind" 2. I am the most senior tech and I only have to work 3 shifts 10 hours each all during week days, which is unheard of in my field. 3. I would miss all my co-workers and last but not least 4. I carry our insurance since my husband is self employed. We would have to get private insurance and that would be expensive...but possibly worth it. I am at least going back to give it a try. If I cannot handle it we will go from there. Even that is hard though I feel like if I go back for a month and then decide to stay home that is a waste of a month that I could have been spending with Jamison.


mom2boy - Tuesday, 17 June
Thanks for your comment, it is nice to know that I am not the only one having a hard time with it. Do you feel that they can take care of your baby ok in daycare? When he is crying do they tend to him. What about naps. Jamison needs to be swaddled, bounced and patted. Also he wakes up about 20 minutes into his naps, I sit by him so when he wakes I can immediately get him to go back to sleep. Will they do this there? I doubt it they have too many kids. How will he nap without all this help? If he doesn't nap he is totally pissy all day, I don't t think they could handle an angry Jamison.


erins1121 - Tuesday, 17 June
Hey!!!!! hows everything?? i see you took him to the mall! thats so great! it does get annoying w the whole feeding and diaper change thing. i am out w him EVERY single day alone. i am so used to it. i just dont like when he is in the back crying bc theres nothing i can do about it!


Peach - Monday, 16 June
Congratulations on making it out to the mall!! It can be hard to get out of the house. For the first time, I took my daughter out to Target by myself. It can seem like such a big milestone to me...it may seem silly, but I think it's good when we mommies can take our babies out into the world (for our sake and their's)!


cris99 - Monday, 16 June
Hi, I read your post and I understand how you feel about the mall thing. The first time I did it with my son to have pictures taken I was so overwhelmed with the stroller and bottles and diaper changes..I vowed never to do it again! lol But, going out in general got eaiser, especially since now he's almost on a little schedule of his own. And no matter where we go, if at all possible I try to make sure he eats right before we leave that way at least I can sort of time when he'll be hungry again and sort of map out my errands that way. So it does get eaisier! Good Luck!


Binkybobo - Saturday, 14 June
YOU HAVE TO UPLOAD THE PHOTOS TO PHOTOBUCKET.COM AND GET A CODE MADE:)


1blessedmomma - Saturday, 14 June
 Awww!!


mommyinthesky - Saturday, 14 June
Garrett has such a cute smile and I still love those eyebrows! I haven't been able to capture a picture of Jacob smiling yet. Just one where he had gas at like 1 week, but it wasn't a real smile. I like that seat you have for him. I've seen those, but I didn't think they could sit in something like that so young, it supports his head? I'm gonna look for one like that. I'm one week into the stepson visit. I've had to leave the house 2 days in a row. My husband took him to work the first 3 days, but then he "needed the house to himself to relax," so out I went with the baby while he played that stupid XBox Live thing for 2 days straight. Next week he will be going back to work with my husband. Thank goodness my mom and dad live here. They said even if they are out and about and not at home, that I can just go hang out there. At least there is a place for the baby and I to rest. Can't wait until he goes home.


jenn1022 - Saturday, 14 June
you have to go to a site like photobucket upload your picture and then they will give you a link that you can copy and paste it to this page.


mom2boy - Saturday, 14 June
 Jamison sits just like that in his chair too!


mom2boy - Saturday, 14 June
 You are brave, I have rafted the Green River but it is nothing like this. In fact I brought my dog along.


erins1121 - Thursday, 12 June
oh no!!!!!!!!!!! i wanna see!!! damn comp..wake stan up!! :P


erins1121 - Thursday, 12 June
HAHAHHAHAHAH! I AM JIGGLY AS HELL TOO BUT WHATEV!! and SOO WEIRD BC I ALSO HAVE THAT DAMN DARK LINE! whats up w that????????


mom2boy - Wednesday, 11 June
I finally got him to take a meal but it took a lot of work. I found a nipple that didn't drip at all when I held it upside down with water in it. The other nipples I tried he just kept choking so I think that might have been part of it. Also I could tell he was trying but couldn't quite figure it out so I would shove the entire nipple in his mouth thinking it helped but it only made it worse. If I just get him to open his mouth a bit and I put the nipple on his tongue so he can feel it he starts sucking and then I gently put the rest in his mouth as he sucks it in. Today bottles are all he is getting (except before bedtime) to make sure he will take them. That was such a scare.


mom2boy - Tuesday, 10 June
Yes, he looks all wobbly it is so cute.


mom2boy - Tuesday, 10 June
I know I have been cuddling Jamison all day too. I have hardly put him down. Oh and to make matters worse I took the band aide of one leg and he screamed all over again like he got more shots. I felt horrible.


sickasadog - Monday, 9 June
hey girl, he is toooooo cute! love the photo!!!! things are much better down here. hayden is now alert and responsive. he was a pain before with whiny, gassy, refluxy baby. I am glad he is turning around since he has to go to day care in a couple weeks.


simplyme - Tuesday, 3 June
Hi there hun, dont worry you arent the only one feeling resentful to your other half...I am also feeling like that, i just dont think men get that we get tired too. I am also working full time and i also take baby with me to work and i am soooo tired by the time i get home i just want to hand her over but my SO tells me he is tired from working. So go figure although i have let him have it a few times and told him that she is his daughter as well and he needs to pull his weight and help me. So your not alone.


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