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 | Age: 30 Country: UK Province/region: Lincolnshire City: Grimsby Partner: Steve Children: Pregnant: Trying to conceive Occupation: Management Secretary |
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Me and my adorable husband Steve have been trying to conceive since January 2007. After nearly a year of TTC we were sent for fertility tests and 3 days before we went to get the test results I found out I was pregnant. We were absolutely over the moon because we thought there was something wrong with one of us and this proved that there wasn't. We told everyone about the pregnancy as we were so excited and we made plans for the baby that we'd wanted so badly. It totally took over our lives and we couldn't have wished for anything more. 10 weeks later I had a miscarriage. It hit us really hard and I ended up on medication for anxiety for 3 months as I started suffering with panic attacks and was generally depressed.
Just as I was starting to feel like myself again in June 2008 I fell pregnant again, this time we were even more excited but we tried not to show it as we were scared that the same thing could happen again. On 31st July it DID happen again and I lost my 2nd baby at 5 weeks and 1 day.
So we are now trying to pick up the pieces and move on but it is so difficult. I keep thinking to myself, if I get pregnant for a third time am I going to have to go through this again? Am I doing something wrong to cause these miscarriages? Am I ever going to be able to carry full term? There are so many questions I want answers to but I probably won't ever get them.
I am trying to be positive and believe that we will be parents in the near future but I feel like I've waited such a long time and we've been through so much heartache that it feels like it's never going to happen.
I want to thank all of you lovely, wonderful, kind, caring ladies on this website who truly amaze me each and every day. Whoever invented this website deserves a medal because without it I wouldn't have coped as well as I have in the past. I received so many helpful messages both times I miscarried and they mean so much. I haven't replied to you all because I just get upset but I will be back to my normal TTC self in a few weeks and the positive Minkymoo/Helen will be back, I PROMISE.
Thank you ladies and take care, give yourselves a pat on the back for being so wonderful xxx
My Gorgeous Baby Jack xx
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carnation - Sunday, 31 August
just wanted to say thank you to everyone for all the kind thoughts and words. sorry that i have not had time to respond to each of you personally, but i am still very sick. (((hugs to all)))
mandy poo - Saturday, 30 August
hiya hunny a line is a line! im so excited for you both. the d/c could be anything so try not to worry to much. wait a couple of days(if you can lol) then do a digi test at least that will tell u in words. fingers still crossed for you both xx
jterrill08 - Saturday, 30 August
I am praying for you. You deserve to be happy.
debra haynes - Saturday, 30 August
Hey babe any news yet and are you still seeing blood,hope all is well and i can't wait to see those three words BFP!well have a wonderful weekend.
. bunches - Saturday, 30 August
Helen, you okay?
one day - Saturday, 30 August
Hi... I still have heartburn and discharge. I'm sleepy but then again I'm always sleepy!!! lol lower back pain but again I have that a lot too!! I don't know I took a test came out BFN but then again I'm still too early. A sure sign for me was when I wanted to rip my poor bb's off! they used to itch like crazy and that's not happening for me so AF is probably approaching later next week =( You're symptoms sound great though!!!
jambaby - Friday, 29 August
Hi just saw your poll question, you should read my blog...I just m/c may 23 and got preg on june 6 13 days later and I just got ot week 14, I am on progesterone supp 2x a day and seem to be doing good. Hang in there I know how devastating a m/c is and feels and it is just awful but...stay positive wishing u the best of luck
NicoleM - Friday, 29 August
If u have looked at my page I had 2 m/c's back to back, one in March of '07 then again in November also in '07! When I went to the Dr.s with my last m/c he told me with my next pregnancy call the office as soon as I find out and they will get me on Prometrium (progestrone)I was very early when I started it probably about 4 weeks! But I am now almost 32 weeks with a healthy baby girl! They had me on it through 12 weeks, which I was scared to death and it was the longest part of the pregnancy!! I wish the very best of luck to you and hubby!
baby-momma09 - Friday, 29 August
well the weekend is approaching and i was just wondering how everyone is doing. and if anyone else is in the path of this hurricane "Gustav." have a good weekend mommies and mommies to be. lots of baby dust to those in need.
wyattsmommy - Friday, 29 August
Well I hope you get your BFP soon, maybe you just had your Ovulation date wrong and you O'd a little later than what you thought? Either way I do hope you get your bfp!!
terry - Friday, 29 August
Thanks so much for your concern. I went to the Dr. yesturday because of the spotting. I told her about my back pain, she said it was normal. I was not very satisfied with her answer. But the baby is fine and I pray it stays that way! Keep us updated in your progress. I really hope you are pregnant already and if not then soon!!!!!
firstlittleangel - Friday, 29 August
I wish you the best of luck sweetie!! 3rd times a charm!!
~Alicia~ - Friday, 29 August
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bunches - Friday, 29 August
Cool, that's good news, I think i feared the worst there for a moment. Good luck with the digital test tonight, I really hope it shows on that for steve.. it should do. happy days
jenniel872000 - Friday, 29 August
Hello Everyone!
I am leaving to go to Maine until Monday! I hope evryone has a wonderful and fun Labor Day Weekend! Good Luck to everyone waiting for their BFP's!!!!! Talk to you Monday! Take Care of those bellies...ladies!
xoxo Jennie
emb17 - Friday, 29 August
I'm keeping all my fingers and toes crossed for you. but I have to agree, I normally remember every thing and know where every thing is etc... but whilst pregnant I can't even remember my own name let alone spell it,
lol... Take care Em x |
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11-10-2008 - Ovulation
01-8-2008 - It's All Over
01-8-2008 - Miscarriage
31-7-2008 - 5 Weeks
30-7-2008 - 4 Weeks 6 Days
29-7-2008 - 4 Weeks 5 Days
28-7-2008 - 4 Weeks 4 Days
27-7-2008 - 4 Weeks 3 Days
26-7-2008 - 4 Weeks 2 Days
25-7-2008 - Update 4 Weeks 1 Day
24-7-2008 - DIGITAL BFP! YIPPEE
24-7-2008 - Advice Please?
23-7-2008 - VERY FAINT BFP!!!!
23-7-2008 - 12 DPO - Symptoms
23-7-2008 - 12 DPO - HELP!
22-7-2008 - 11 DPO
21-7-2008 - 10 DPO
18-7-2008 - 7 DPO
17-7-2008 - 6 DPO
16-7-2008 - 5 DPO
15-7-2008 - 4 DPO
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