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First I have to say that I would not be pregnant right now if it were not for God and all the people praying for me and our baby girl. We almost lost her on December 28th but by the grace of God she is still with us and is our miracle baby.

My pregnancy was doing really good but on December 20th (I was 20 weeks) I started to spot a very little bit. It was just a little tinge of blood when I wiped but hardly anything. Well, it only happened maybe once or twice a day and one day there was not a trace of blood at all. Since it was Christmas time and it was busy I just thought it would go away. I had been on my feet a lot and doing a lot of shopping and things to get ready for Christmas. On the day after Christmas, December 26th, it still had not changed at all. So I called the hospital because my ob/gyn was not in the office. They told me that it was normal but if I didn't want to wait until the next day to talk to my ob/gyn to come in and they would check me. I said I was ok that I would wait but about an hour later I started to bleed. It still wasn't a lot of blood but it was much more then just spotting. So I went to the hospital and by the time I got there I was bleeding a lot. They did an ultrasound and checked me. They said my cervix was starting to open and the baby was funneling down toward my cervix. So they kept me in the hospital and said I could only get up to go to the bathroom.

The next day, December 27th, the bleeding had slowed down a lot and my ob/gyn said that I had an incompetent cervix and he wanted to do a cerclage but would have to wait until the bleeding stopped. So, I was still on bed rest in the hospital.

December 28th, I got up and was getting ready to get into the shower. I blew my nose and had the wierdest feeling (down there) I have ever felt. I felt down there and it was the amniotic sac coming out. I could actually feel it with my hands. It freaked me out. So I called the nurse and got back in bed. It went back up but I could tell it was still down way to low. My ob/gyn came in to examine me and said that I was dilated to 4cm and that he could feel the babys foot. I was only 21 weeks at this time and he said if the baby was born now she would die because they won't even try to save them until 24 weeks. So he said he would do an emergency cerclage but there was only a 50 percent chance the baby would make it through the surgery and if she did only 20 percent chance she would make it to 24 weeks. I told him to do what ever he could. I later found out that the ob/gyn didn't really think I would make it the week but did what he could because I asked him to.

The surgery went well, but because of the trauma to my cervix it put me into labor. I was having very strong and close together contractions. They were awful. The nurse gave me a shot in the arm to try to get them to stop. That didn't work. So she gave me another shot. That didn't work. Then I was given a pain med in my IV. That didn't do anything for the pain and I have a very high tolerance for pain. So I was started on Magnesium Sulfate. That finally eased them up. They kept getting a little easier and easier as the day went on.

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By the next day, December 29th, I was only having maybe two or three contractions an hour. So at ten am they took me off the Mag. They gave me another ultrasound and said that I was no longer funneling as much and the cervix was starting to get longer. I am feeling a little better and finally got my shower I was getting ready to take on FridayJ.

Sunday, December 30th, I was only having contractions every few hours now. I am still bleeding a bit but the doc said that was normal. So, I got to go home on bed rest. By Wednesday, January 2nd, my bleeding had stopped and I had not had any contractions since the day I came home.

I went back to my ob/gyn on January 4th. I had an ultrasound and he said that everything looked great and he was very happy with how well everything was going. He wanted me to go to OSU medical center to have a high risk specialist look at me.

January 10th, I am now 23 weeks, I went to OSU and they did an ultrasound and said that everything looked great. They said my ob/gyn did a heroic cerclage. That the cervix was even longer, I think they said it measured 2.7 now but was also funneled to the stitch. When they did the ultrasound on the baby they were concerned because there was not very much amniotic fluid around the baby. I only measured 4 and they said I should have 15. So they put me in OSU hospital this time. They gave me a shot that night and then one the next day of steroids to help the babys lungs develop incase she had to be born soon. They still don't know what happened to the fluid. I had not leaked or anything. I was still not bleeding or cramping or anything. So on January 12th, they did another ultrasound and the fluid stayed the same. It was still at 4. I wanted to go home so bad. I was an hour away from Columbus so they really didn't want me to but I was miserable there. So I went home and they wanted me to come back that Tuesday for another ultrasound.

We went back Tuesday, January 14th to check the level and Praise the Lord it went up a little bit so now it is at 6. So we are going in the right directions. We go back Wednesday, January 23rd for another check. So please pray that the fluid level is back to normal or at least going the right way.

So that is my story so far. I have a lot of faith it is going to be ok. I have a lot of people praying and this little girl is a fighter. So I will keep this up dated and if you are in a similar situation or have been I would love to hear from you.

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January 23, 2008 - 25 weeks

Went to the doctor today for another ultrasound. The baby was doing great. She now weighs 1 pound and 13 ounces. My fluid level has gone up to 8 now. I go back next week for another check.

January 30, 2008 - 26 weeks

Back to the doc today for another ultrasound. They said the fluid level was back to normal!!! Yippie!!! PTL!!! It was at 13. They also checked my cerclage and said that there was no change since the last time they checked it on Jan. 10th. Which they said was good. So great news today!!!!! I don't have to go back now till Feb. 13th and they will do a growth check on the baby and do a Biophysical Profile.

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February 4, 2008 - 27 weeks

Went to my regular ob/gyn today and they are very happy with how everything is going. He called her my miracle baby because he said he didn't really want to do the cerclage and only did it because I asked him to and he really didn't think the baby was going to make it the first week but the power of prayer is an awesome thing! Cause here I am week 27!!

February 13, 2008 - 28 weeks

Had a Biophysical Profile done today. Everything looked great. The baby was doing very good. She now weighs 2 pounds and 10 ounces. After they were done checking everything on the ultrasound. The ultrasound tech let me have a quick 3D ultrasound. Needless to say little Kaylee was not co-operating. She had her foot and hands all in her face. We did finally get a picture where you could see one eye, her nose and her mouth. You can see her little piggies up by her face. It is so cute! Then they checked my cerclage and said my cervix is still short but that it keeps just hanging out there and nothing is changing. So that is really good too. I am still on bed rest but if that's what it takes that's ok with me. When the peri came in she said that everything was going great and that I would not need to come back to see her and was releasing me back to my ob/gyn!!! It was a great doc visit and it was so cute to see Kaylee in 3D and to know she is growing and doing so good. Never give up and never stop praying!! God is an Awesome!!

February 25, 2008 - 30 weeks

Went to ob/gyn today. Everything still doing great. Had an ultrasound and fluid level now up to 19. Baby weighed 3 pounds 10 ounces :)

March 10, 2008 - 32 weeks

Had another ultrasound done today. Baby was doing good. She weighs 4 pounds 4 ounces now. She's head down and the fluid level is still normal. The doctor checked my cervix and said that it was still closed and the stitch was holding good. He did say I had protein in my urine so I have to collect my urine for 24 hours (how fun is that) and take it to the hospital. When I take it in they will also draw blood. He said it was probably nothing because my blood pressure is still normal. He just wanted to be on the safe side.

March 17, 2008 - 33 weeks


Went back to the doc today. He said that my blood work and my urine came back normal and that nothing is wrong. He said I did not have protein in my urine. The baby's heartbeat was very good. Now I don't have to go back until April 11th when I should get my stitch taken out.



April 14, 2008 - 37 weeks
I had my cerclage removed today at 37 weeks. I was supposed to have it out last week at 36 weeks but was sick so I postponed it a week. I went in to my ob/gyn's office and they did an ultrasound to make sure baby was doing ok and her weight was good. She weighed 6.5 pounds and he said everything looked good. The stitch came right out. It didn't hurt at all. I'm not sure if he cut my cervix a bit or what but I started to bleed a lot. So he took long q-tip like things and put pressure on the spot that was bleeding. The speculum being put in and then what ever he was doing to get the bleeding to stop bothered me more then the stitch being taken out. It was never painful just uncomfortable. As soon as the cerclage was removed and he got the bleeding stopped he checked me and I was dilated to 3 cm. He said I could go over to the hospital and hang around for the day to see if anything was going to happen but I chose not to. He said I would probably deliver within the week. So that is my cerclage removel story. It was not as bad as I thought it was going to be at all.
April 21, 2008 - 38 weeks
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I made it through the week. No baby yet. I went to the doc today. He said I am now a good 4 cm dilated. I go back Monday and he said we will talk about a date to induce. I feel pretty good. I didn't realize how much I really felt the cerclage until it was out. I feel so much better. So we will see what next monday brings. I really hope I am dilated more. :)
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April 28, 2008 - 39 weeks!!!
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Went to my last ob visit today. I am dilated 5 cm. He wanted to induce me tomorrow but I wanted to wait until May 1st. I want a May baby. :) So we go in Thursday at 8 am
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MilMom2Be - Sunday, 4 May
Congrats, a beutiful little girl and a beautiful birth story!


Tanya 08 - Sunday, 4 May
aww congratulations luv no i havent had him yet im still waiting lol going to c midwife on tuesday and on thursday im going up to the hospital for a induction ill let you know wat happens x


Tanya 08 - Thursday, 1 May
ye im really scared i just wont have any needles near me no matter how much pain im in so how will they induce me do u think? i hope he comes over the weekend so im not at home on my own wen labour starts how long was you in labour for? and ye i know its worth it just to have him out and in my arms x


krissie - Wednesday, 30 April
Aww how exciting for you. Do you know if your having a boy or girl? My due date is May 5th. I'm having a little girl.


emma1230 - Wednesday, 30 April
hey there! My sister does it on photo shop. She is also a photographer, so she took the pictures, and put it all together with photoshop. I just uploaded it to photobucket so i could get the code, so i could leave the announcement as a comment. I hope I am making sense. Photo shop is really handy to make stuff like this. :) how are you doing?


aubreyd08 - Wednesday, 30 April
Blood pressure was bad today... but after IV fluids it seemed to even out a bit. I was +3 protein and tested negative for UTI. I'm hoping all is well... I only have 1 week 5 days until my induction date (gestation diabetes) and really don't want to have her tomorrow because of toxemia... i was told that i'd probably have to have c-section???


momma-in-may - Wednesday, 30 April
omg congrats! good luck tomorrow as well! our babies are gonna be here in NO time!


Tanya 08 - Wednesday, 30 April
ye hopefully i will be wat do they break your waters with? and wat is a pictocin? sorry i dont know a right lot do i lol im just scared thats all hope everything goes ok for you? xx


krissie - Wednesday, 30 April
So I went to my doctor today and I asked Him if he would tell me how dilated I am. I was told they only check that when they do the GBS test at 37/38 weeks, and if there is something wrong they keep checking but because everthing was good they wont check me. So I dont really have much info. I also dont really like my doctor, he's a bit of a weirdo.


Tanya 08 - Tuesday, 29 April
well i dont know if ive dilated coz i dont go c the midwife till next tuesday then ill be 1 day over due so i ant a clue lol did the doc tell you wat they guna do to you wen they induce you? iv gota go for a induction if he hasnt come by next thursday and no i havent had any other signs just contractions last night and him moving around in my pelvis which is very uncomftable x


Tanya 08 - Tuesday, 29 April
hiya how are you? we are due on the same date lol iv been getting contractions all last night hopefully my boy will be ere soon how bwt you have u ad any labour signs? xxxxx


lilmamma - Tuesday, 29 April
hi, i am so curious, what does it feel like to be dilated at 5cm? are you having any contractions or does it just feel like normal? i am 39 wks as well but feel nothing so i am so curious...

good luck, i read your story, so glad things worked out for you and your baby is going to be happy and healthy :)


krissie - Friday, 25 April
Thanks alot for all your help. I will let you know what happens.


krissie - Friday, 25 April
My due date is May 6th and my last apt. was april 22. I wish I knew what I was suppose to feel. In the last couple of days I have been feeling vaginal pain, almost like a burning/ripping feeling. Without any real contraction. Do you think that would be the feeling of dilating? I dont see my doctor again until the 29th.


krissie - Thursday, 24 April
Thanks for your comment my doctor hasn't checked anything like that, but I will ask him next time I see him. It's my first so i'm pretty clueless about everything, I just put all my trust in my doctors. I don't really know what to ask. But I will ask him. Thanks


DanaLee - Wednesday, 23 April
hey thanks for your response, its so good to hear from women who have given birth without pain meds, its so uncommon these days.. its just seems right that it should be experienced fully.. you arent sick, you dont need medication, youre giving birth!


Carmione - Wednesday, 23 April
Thank you for the words of encouragement! I'm at week 25 and praying daily... :)


warwickbaby - Wednesday, 23 April
Just stopping by to see how you are doing?


mom3boys2out1in - Monday, 21 April
wow that is one amazing story, god blessed you well with your lil one, i cant wait to see a photo of her


aine - Monday, 21 April
hey u have some story to tell your wee angel .... well done.....and good luck with the birth xx


branbug - Thursday, 17 April
Hi. Just wanted to reply to your question about the mucus plug. I knwo a lil late. But yes your mucus plug can build back up again once you've lost it..especially loosing it that early on.


warwickbaby - Monday, 14 April
It means that is right at the birth canal. It is kind of like when they talk about what station your cervix is at.....


socalgal - Saturday, 12 April
Hi There, I was on strict bed rest for four weeks, then I began adding some relaxing activities. It is very hard so you have to go very gradual. I never drove or went anywhere alone. I would do short little things--lunch with my husband, a one hour church service, eventually a movie where I could sprawl out of needed. . . now I am about 12 weeks into my bedrest (8 weeks not strict) and I can do a lot. I still generally lay down the vast majority of the time. You just have to listen to your body and gradually build up your strength. Sometimes I overdo it, and stay in bed for 3 days, then I start trying again to build up. Just let your body be the guide. Good luck!


braenel - Saturday, 12 April
Wow! What an inspiring story. The power of God. Thank you for sharing. How is everything?


warwickbaby - Friday, 11 April
Well, back from the DR and everything is okay except my cervix is VERY low! And since I have a history of preterm labor with my youngest, I have to start progesterone shots once a week.... UGH!!! They are hoping that will keep me from going into labor until I am atleast 36 weeks along! Although I will do anything to make sure this babe comes when she is ready! My first one is on Monday and then weekly thereafter....




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