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mommy2anangel has 113 days to go and is now in week 23
	Age: 27 Country: US Province/region: - City: - Partner: My Hubby Children: Yes, 1 Pregnant: Yes Due date: 16 Nov ,2008 Occupation: Graphic Designer
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Well, my name is Siely (pronounced... See-lay). I'm pregnant again, this time with twins. Im very happy, but its somewhat bitter-sweet. On December 19th, 2007, I delivered my precious baby girl Zargey (meaning.... baby heartbeat), she lived for only one hour and died in my arms. Her daddy was able to recite the Islamic prayer in her little ears, reminding her of her Lord. We had a beautiful funeral for her, 600 people attended. Later, she was layed to rest at the 5 Pilars Cemetery in Livermore, California. I miss my little angel very much. No matter how old your child is when you lose them.... its hard, the pain of a mother never goes away.

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devonp - 29.4 hours ago
Hello

How are you feeling these days? Is everything getting better for you?

Devon

Natos - 31.1 hours ago
That man is very rude and obnoxious! I wouldve been very angry as wel. Alhamdulillah dat u wear ur scarf even under stresful situations.
For what its worth my sister, no sacrifice or difficulty goes unnoticed or unrewarded by Allah.
Had i been close in distance i wouldve visited you. I would make dua 4 u my dear. Also remember me in yours.

Natos - 31.3 hours ago
As salamu alaikum. I was just thinking id drop in n give salamz and im seein the comments of others and realising that u are in some distressing times. Im sorry i didnt know before. My dear please hang in there. You r probably scared to death and wondering what the final outcome would be. I also am in a bit of a difficult situation but nothing close to what u r goin tru. May Allah make it easy 4 all of u and let everything work out 4 d best. 'Whoever trusts in Allah, then He (Allah) is sufficient for him'

devonp - Wednesday, 23 July
I read your post and I am so sorry that you have had such a rough time. You are a strong women to deal with everything. I will pray for you and your twin and I wish you luck.

ksr1170 - Tuesday, 22 July
My heart goes out to you and your family. I lost my angel baby last year at 28wks6days due to placental abruption. My problems started with a large SCH that became infected and caused my pre-term labor (including a funneling of my cervix). I was admitted for pre-term and given steroid shots, which I hope you are given as well when the time comes. My situation was different in that my baby had a good chance of survival had it not been for the infection. I'm glad that you are in the hospital and being monitored. I think at home you would go crazy worrying too much. So even with the annoying room mate and forgetful nurses remember the big picture and keep up your faith. You know first hand that stress can be harmful. I'll be thinking about you and saying a prayer. Good luck.

meltingice - Tuesday, 22 July
siely, I read your story. Wish you and your babies overcome the difficulty! You can do it!
I am just wondering, do you have any early symptoms of incompetent cervix during the pregnancy. I am worried because, this two days, I have been feeling pressure on my pelvic floor. I can feel light pain due to pressure on one side of it. it comes and goes. Have you had the same feeling before the incompetent cervix is detected? Thank you for sharing.

raychild - Tuesday, 22 July
My heart goes out to you and your babies and will keep you in my prayers. Be strong!

angelfromGod - Tuesday, 22 July
Salaam alaykum Siely. I read your story and my heart and prayers are with you and those babies. Inshallah, you all will make it to 28 weeks. There is but one God, whether you call him Allah or Jehovah. He is the Alpha and the Omega.. HE alone we worship and praise, HE alone we ask for help. So don't stop praying. Day and night, pray. Pray without ceasing and KNOW HE has your best interest at heart. I am so proud of you for sharing your story with us. I know it was difficult, but now that you've shared, it is our duty now to pray for you. I wish I can fast for you, as I wish these days I can fast for myself. But as it may be, we need to eat for our children. Eat, pray and be merry and try your best to be strong. Self-fulling Prophecy is so deep. CLAIM IT BELIEVE IT AND RECEIVE IT!!!.

luvlylillatina84 - Monday, 21 July
Your story brought me to tears...Im so sorry to hear that you are going through soooo much... I pray that you do make it to 28 weeks, and be strong! Think positve...You and both babies WILL make it! My heart goes out to you and your family in this trying time.

pintpot - Monday, 21 July
Hey, its sounds like your having a rough time of it and I wish you all the best and will keep my fingers crossed for you, will they give you steriod injections at 24 weeks to strenghten the babies lungs just incase? Your hosptial sounds very bad and not looking after your best needs, they should be giving you the best care avail and helping you relax not stressing you out which I'm sure is not good for the babies. Is there anyone you can complain too? In the UK we have a service called PALS if we have any issues with our health care providers. Good luck and hope you can make it further than 28 weeks.

opalu - Monday, 21 July
aloo siely,

i read your story several months ago and was devastated to read your latest post. i will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. do not allow all of the external circumstances get the best of you. believe your babies will make it to 28 weeks, inshallah.
....majdah

emmaflower987 - Monday, 21 July
My prayers are with you and your babies!!!! Have you talked to your dr about how the nurses are treating you??? I cannot believe they forgot to give you your meds... im not sure what your finincial situation or how your insurance is BUT is there any why you could get into another hospital??? Anyways, i hope everything works out for you and if you ever need to talk just remember that i am here for ya!!!

1sttimerjld - Monday, 21 July
my prayers are with you and your little ones...

kirvia - Monday, 21 July
Hi Siely,I read your story.I am so saddened by the fact that you have to be going through all that pain and anxiety.please be strong you will get to 28weeks .i empathize with you because i too had a baby that died last year the only difference is that i didn't see my baby alive so i know exactly what you are going through.i wish you all the very best with this pregnancy.

christina08baby - Sunday, 20 July
Hi, I wanted to give everyone an update on my work situation. I reported to work today at 8am my scheduled time and at 3pm 1 hr before my shift ends my boss came and called me into her office to sign the warning paperwork pertaining to the 3 days I called off in July 2 of which I had a medical excuse for. I told her that I refuse to sign the paperwork because I have medical documentation and 1 non medical excused call off is not considered excessive for 1 month. She told me I had to sign it anyway even if I did not agree and that I could write a comment on the paper and I said no, not without my legal councel rewiewing this document. I picked the paper off the table to look at It and she tried to snatch it from me stating that I was not allowed to have a copy unless I signed it. I still refused. She told me that I will be insubordinate but I still held my ground. I walked out of the office and resumed my duties until 4pm. I ultimately decided not to give in to this because I discussed this with my dad and sterpmother and they advised me that I do have rights even as a part time employee and that what they are trying to do is NOT legal. I also got alot of responses from all of you. So, I guess we'll find out what happens with me this week. Yes, I do need the money but I am not going to let anyone take my rights away, so thats why I decided to stand my ground. Oh yeah, they cancelled the zoo trip and she didn't even tell me to come to work and when I brought that up she got defensive and said she had already found coverage. Anyway, I hope everyones pregnancy is going well and I want to thank everyone who responded to my post needing advice.

christina08baby - Thursday, 17 July
Ladies, I have a big problem please check out the comment I wrote in the 21 weeks section today and give me your advice. I don't know what to do.

christina08baby - Tuesday, 15 July
I just wanted to give everyone an update: I talked with alot of you abot my terrible appt with my midwife ( she was real nasty to me) last Tues and that the u/s report stated that they weren't able to get a good look at my babys entire head, so of course I worried that something was wrong with my babys head. I had my u/s this morning and everything is good (his head is completely normal) I was worrying myself for no reason. Also, my midwife wasn't so nasty to me today; I mentioned to her about the sharp pains in my cervix and she told me not to worry unless I was having strong contraction like pains. She offered to check me but said that checking sometimes causes more problems and irritates the cervix, so I did not get checked. I only worry about preterm labor because I was dilated 1 1/2 cm and contracting at 22 weeks with my first son; I was given medication and Iv fliuds and the labor did not progress. Anyhow, now that my u/s has proven my baby to be healthy I can finally quit stressing. I was just told to take it easy and not overdue myself as far as walking and activities are concerned. Thank you for listening to my complaints.lol. I was just stressing about the head issue way too much.

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