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Friday, 16 Nov

Had my dr's appointment today, and everything looks good! She said the heartbeat was strong, which was a relief. Apparently I'm 'out' of ultrasounds, according to my insurance, so we won't be getting more unless we pay for it. Maybe we will just for reassurance. We want to be surprised about the baby's sex, so it wasn't a huge deal, but it seemed weird since everyone else who's around 18 weeks seems to be getting an ultrasound! I had some spotting early on, so I think that's why we had so many so early. The only thing about the appointment that is bugging me is that she said I may need to slow down the weight gain--apparently I'm an overachiever in that department. I held it together until she left and then I burst into tears like a baby. My husband thinks I'm nuts! I know it's vain to cry about gaining some weight, but it's hard enough to have no clothes that fit without my dr. telling me to lay off the Whoppers! But, I'm focusing on the fact that the baby is healthy and growing the way he/she should!

Saturday, 17 Nov

Well, we're moving today, and I have to say that my husband is an amazing guy! I feel really helpless since I'm not able to help with all the heavy stuff, but he is taking care of everything. He packed up almost our whole apartment, rented a truck, got some friends over and the had our stuff loaded up in about 30 minutes! I know it must be frustrating for him to have to take care of so much, and I'm so appreciative of what he's doing. As for the pregnancy, is it possible to start having morning sickness in the 2nd trimester? I had none in the 1st, but lately I've felt a little queasy in the mornings, and coughing or even just clearing my throat makes me gag. No vomiting yet, thank goodness, just a weird development!

Tuesday, 11 Dec

Hooray! We had our doctor's appointment yesterday and I didn't get another lecture about gaining too much weight! I slowed it down to only 2 lbs this past month, so I'm getting to a more normal overall weight gain. He measured my belly and we listened to the heartbeat and everything seems to be going great. He also said it was normal not to be feeling too much movement yet, since it's my first pregnancy. We asked him to refer us for a 'big' ultasound, and he said he would so hopefully the insurance will come through and ok it. We don't want to know the baby's sex, but we want to make sure all the correct body parts are there and the heart looks ok. I'm always so relieved after the doctor's appointment. Next month, it's time for the glucose test.

Tuesday, 18 Dec

Well, things have been going well so far! I am on a 3-week vacation from school, which is very much needed. We are just about done moving in to our new place (except for those little things that, honestly, will probably never get done. Know what I mean?). I'm feeling the baby move every day now, and my husband was able to feel him/her too. My tailbone has been sore when I sit, so I'm a bit worried about the long airplane trips I'll be taking over the next few weeks to visit family. I'll have to get up and walk around as much as possible, I guess. We have an ultrasound scheduled for early January, but we're not going to find out if it's a boy or girl. We just want to be sure all the proper parts are in place and the heart looks ok (my husband had a younger brother who died at age 2 from a heart problem, so this is important to us). I'm looking forward to the holidays! Though I have to admit, I'm hoping for some 'me' gifts--I've gotten a lot of baby gifts so far, which I love and appreciate. Maybe I'm being selfish, but it would be nice to get a few non-baby things just for me. Fingers crossed!

Wednesday, 2 Jan

What a busy couple of weeks! I live far away from my family, so I always spend the holiday season travelling to see everyone, but being pregnant made it a bit exhausting this year. First I flew to Chicago, then to DC, then my husband and I flew to Spain to visit my sister who is studying there all year. The US trips were all ok, but the Spain trip was extra-tiring. We have travelled quite a bit and usually like to see new cities by walking around a LOT, but I had trouble keeping up with my old habits this time. My feet and back would hurt after a few hours, and if I got too tired or hungry the pregnancy hormones would kick in--let `s just say there was at least one episode of weepiness on the subway. We dialed back the walking after we realized my new limits. And the people in Spain were so nice--everywhere I went people offered me their subway seat or to let me pop ahead of them in lines. Eating was a bit difficult because I swear the national food of Spain is cold ham, and I eventually gave up and ate it. I assume that Spanish women eat it during pregnancy and avoid listeriosis or whatever. Also, the attitudes there about drinking alcohol during pregnancy are much more relaxed--one waiter poured me a glass of sangria as he exclaimed, `For the baby! ` I admit, it was nice to not be in a culture that is not as fear-based about pregnancy as ours is, though I had little doubts creeping around my head sometimes. I had a half-glass of wine 2 or 3 times, which my doctor and my favorite book ( `Fearless Pregnancy `) both say are ok. I also had trouble sleeping, which I think was a combination of jet lag and regular pregnancy aches and pains. I return to my own home tomorrow and can `t wait to sleep in my own bed! I loved visiting my old home town and getting a dose of winter, but my husband and I have already decided that we are NOT travelling for the holidays next year--we will let everyone come to us. I assume the new baby will be a big draw in that department! Happy Holidays!

Monday, 14 Jan

Well, we had our most recent doctor `s appointment and everything still looks good! The heartbeat was strong, and I passed the 1-hour glucose test, so that `s a relief. My weight is still a bit high, but I think that ship has sailed. Later that week we had an ultrasound, which was fun. The baby is breech, with its legs straight up with its toes above its head. That doesn `t look comfy, but I guess it is. The tech couldn `t tell us much about the baby `s health, etc., but she did say that she could tell the gender. We still want to be surprised, but we had her write it down on a piece of paper in a sealed envelope in case we change our minds. Today we went looking at cribs and we think we have found one that we like. Now I need to get our registry up and running!

Thursday, 7 Feb

Things are still going well, and I `m trying to be grateful for such an uneventful pregnancy--even though I `m feeling more aches and pains lately. My hips hurt occasionally, but not so much that I can `t walk or anything. Sleeping is a bit of a project--I `m using 1 pillow under my head, 1 under my belly and 1 between my legs. I have to wake up and rearrange every time I want to turn over! My last dr `s appointment was normal--so far everything looks good and she wasn `t worried about the baby being breech a few weeks ago. She said we `ll check it out again in a few weeks. I found out I have an anterior-placed placenta, so that explains why I was one of the last people to feel movements! I `m feeling a lot now, which is fun. We had our first childbirth class, which was informative. I keep trying to remember that it `s a normal process that women have been going through since the beginning of humanity, and so chances are good that I will make it! I `m open to getting an epidural, so it `s nice to know that option will always be there. My main concerns right now are getting the nursery set up and making sure I have everything I need--diapers, wipes, etc.

Saturday, 23 Feb

Yay! Baby is head down, according to the doctor at yesterday `s appointment. Let `s hope she stays that way. Our childbirth prep classes were good, but I `m still nervous about breastfeeding. I think I need to keep reading about it and talking to people so that I know what to expect. I `ve been tired lately, but feeling pretty good in general. My hips hurt a bit while walking, sitting or sleeping--hmmmm...I guess that `s all the time then! But it `s still manageable. Trying to figure out when to stop working. I had figured I would work until my due date, but I think my doctor will put me on diability before that if I want--so I think I `ll go off a week early. Then if the baby comes early I `m ok, or I `ll get some time to rest before THE DAY!

Tuesday, 25 Mar

Had another doctor appointment today and another exam--not the most fun I `ve ever had, but not bad. I `ve been a `fingertip ` dilated for over a week now, and she said 60% effaced. That `s FINE with me--I `m not in a rush. I `d like to finish work and have a few days off before the baby comes! It `s a little stressful trying to get things at work tied up, but I guess whatever happens, happens!

Sunday, 30 Mar

so funny--my hubby went out to Toys R Us with all of our gift cards to get a crib mattress and a changing pad. Well, he came back with a crib mattress, a changing pad, and a new xbox 360 game--that smart store stocked them right near the check out and he couldn `t resist. To his credit, he got a game he thought I would like (and I do).




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Laura Ward - Wednesday, 5 November
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lalalidia - Thursday, 23 October
Hey you ! Haven't talked to you in sooo long!! How are you? How's the baby?!


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ladobruk - Saturday, 14 June
That’s great to hear. Shayla is doing well. Her fussiness has calmed dramatically over the past 1.5 weeks. That magic 6 week mark I guess. She has always slept well at night; thankfully, right now she sleeps from around 9-4:30-5:00 feeds and then goes back down till 7:30-8:30. I am finally getting some rest myself because even though she was sleeping such a long stretch, I still wasn’t and was waking pretty much every hour.
My troubles are getting her to sleep during the day. I have taken to placing her on her tummy in her playard in the living room where I can watch her which seems to work. The first day she slept almost 2 hours, but seems to have been a fluke because she is up after about 45 mins like clockwork now. However, she is going down in the afternoon which never happens and she is not as cranky in the evening so the 45 min naps are helping. I also still put her in the sling to make dinner and such so she gets another ½-45 mins there.
The things we do! Take care.


lalalidia - Thursday, 12 June
hey girl!

we're doing good! summer's coming up. Bellinda is out of school next thurs. she has kindergarten graduations on tuesday. i can't wait! it'll be so cute.

ava is getting nice and plump. she has shots tomorrow. poor kid! sleeping has been getting better. nursing is still bad, and to top it off she's colicky. haha

how are u ?! how's the baby?


ladobruk - Tuesday, 10 June
Hi, how are you doing? How is your son? I recall you mentioning he was pretty fussy. How is that going now? Shayla has fussy days too, it seems to be a day on day off for us. It is strange.


crabscanfly - Friday, 30 May
Yeah same with me, after they controled the bleeding after having faith, with 4 dif medications my bleeding went down to hardly anything to, and then 3 weeks after it hit me with having huge clots and gushing blood, filling a pad sometimes within 10 minutes, the nurses were retards here, they sent me home the sunday before i got the d&c done and said there was no need for a D&c and it was all normal. Its like like i hang out in the emergancy room at 130 am in the morning for fun, then when i went for the D&c The one nurse was up there that turned me down the first time, and was like "Oh there was something wrong". Iam hoping all of its stops i was passing huge clots for a week, i couldnt go out anywhere, it was that bad, so im hoping what iam having now is my period and not something more then that, I would ask the doctor about that because i know with retained placenta it kills the milk supply. i would really see about that, I hope all good well for u.
I know its well worth it for the baby in the end, but its so scary.


crabscanfly - Friday, 30 May
Hi, Nice to see that there is another person out there that has dealt with the same issue. Iam not breast feeding, iam formula feeding, Iam still having the same issue after having the D&C, accept they have me on birth control to try and stop the bleeding, right now iam on the green pills so i think what iam having now is my period i hope, thats what i like to think i so i dont worry so much, but i had my D&c april 16th, 3 weeks after having my baby due to huge blood clots and heavy bleeding. and when i first started the birth control. i would still have spotting and lots of brown snotty discharge, and the doctor said to have my period first then to see what happens, so i guess if it dont stop then i dont no, and if this conitues i think they will do another ultrasound to see, and i think if there is something else stuck in there, i think im gonna try and sue or something, im tramatized over this now, and i dont want anymore children because of this crap, And when doctors here just keep saying it should be gone in a week, and continue saying that, and my baby is a little over 2 months now, she was born march 18th and its been this long, its getting to the point that iam getting depressed over all this and i just want it all solved, did you just have a d&c done?


beautifulbebe - Monday, 26 May
Thanks! Anthony is doing better. He is sleeping on his mommy's lap, all peaceful! You have a beautiful baby!


breezee - Wednesday, 14 May
I really need to go buy that book, I have heard nothing but good stuff about it.
I swaddle too, but sometimes it severely pisses her off, it just depends on her mood, she does seem pretty happy when I lay her on my chest. My MIL is coming into town Thursday, I can't wait to have someone to give Maddi to. My Hubby has 0 patience so everytime he takes her he just starts yelling at her to stop crying so I end up taking her back and my Mom has been sick and hasn't been able to help, so it's pretty much just been me, I think that's been the hardest part, well, coupled with the exhaustion anyway. I think it's getting better though, I am learning lots of little tricks to calm her at least momentarily anyway, tonight I am going to give her a bath and see if that helps.
Take care, let me know if you have try any miracle tricks.


lalalidia - Tuesday, 13 May
I felt so bad about Bellinda going to school, that I kept waking up this morning from 5 onwards fretting we'd over sleep again! Brain burp or not, it's SOO frustrating! I don't know how you do it. I'd KILL myself if I had to teach kids Bellinda's age. It's like she's testing the waters to see how far she can push me with her attitude. She was such a good and dare I say obedient child before she started school. I'm sure a lot of parents say that about their kids. But Bellinda really was. Well mannered, and did what she was told immediately.

I know how you feel about rock hard boobs. I do my last pumping at 11 or 12. And then go all night without pumping. And by the morning comes . They've leaked all over the place and feel horrible. Speaking of leaking. What kind of pads do u use? I was using the madela pads, but because their lined with plastic. It traps too much moisture, and make my boobs itch. Plus i've heard if your boobs are constantly wet they might even get fungus?! But I like them because they're large and they have a sticky in the back that keeps it in place. But I'm also using I believe their gerber pads. They are great at absorbing, and are not lined so they don't make me itch, but they're not big enough and have no sticky.. Man you can't win. haha

I'm glad to hear that your placenta situation is resolved! Man that must have been scary! Did it hurt at all?

I'm doing alright. Just tired. Ava is getting SO big. And believe it or not, she's gonna be 5 weeks this Thursday and her cord stump still hasn't fallen off! It's so sad everytime I dress her and she's bustin out of her NB sized outfits, and she's so rotund! I can't believe she' gettin so big so fast! But then I see her stump and it makes me feel a little better. haha Like shes still "new". haha

How's Mathew? Oh btw. I LOVE that name!


lalalidia - Monday, 12 May
Hey girl.

I hear ya about knowing what is making them cry. NOTHING seems to be wrong but it's just non stop screaming. I really don't remember it being this bad with bellinda. Speaking of patience. Ha! Yea rite. I have none. I feel bad, but Bellinda just gets screamed at all day. Your a teacher. Do u find that at times the kids just get SUPER dumb for no reason? Bellinda gets like that. Or like I tell her to stop doing one thing, and she says ok and turns around and just does it again. I'm ready to kill her.

Is your milk not coming in? My milk seems like there's just not enough. on a good day . I can pump 4oz. but that hasn't happened in a while. i sit down every 2-3 hours, and get maybe an oz out at each pump. So frustrating. It's actually time for me to pump again, and I'm just dreading it.

How's your retained placenta issue doing? Are you feeling better? Your husband is right. Be grateful for a healthy baby. A crying baby but none the less healthy. And be thankful for the 6 hours of sleep !! I 'm up every hour during the night and now she's crying all day!! Last night was so bad, I failed to get up in time and Bellinda missed another day of school. They're gonna send the truancy police on me. I swear.


breezee - Sunday, 11 May
Thanks, you should post some pics of Matthew! I think your right about the gas too, I think Maddi suffers from it quite often, it's the only crappy part about breastfeeding, I swear I have to watch what I eat more than ever now. Maddi has gotten better the last few days though, she doesn't seem to fuss as much some days, or maybe I am just learning to deal with it better??? Either way, they're adorable aren't they??
Take care, Bree


Trinabear18 - Friday, 9 May
no he'll be one month on the 17th. my guy now sleeps day and night with good hopes.


lalalidia - Friday, 9 May
So you had a little boy?!!! What did you name him?? Oh congratulations!

Sorry to hear that labor sucked. My labor the first time around sucked too. That's why this time I wanted no part of it.

I've heard of the retained placenta. I've had minimal bleeding since I left the hospital, but 4 weeks into it. I'm still bleeding. And my poor Ava's cord has still not fallen off yet. So frustrating. I Hate giving her sponge baths.

I am so tired. I knew having 2 kids would be hard. I had no idea it would be THIS hard. I mean Bellinda helps . She feeds the baby when I'm busy, and helps me grab stuff I need . But She has her own needs too. And it's all day " mommy mommy mommy " I've done nothing but snap at her for the last 4 weeks. IT sucks . I feel bad, but I'm so exhausted that my nerves are just done. And my husband. God help him. I know he's trying to help, but it's just not enough. He waits till both the girls have totally cracked me to jump into action.

How's the baby sleeping? Mine is only starting to sleep just a little bit more at nights, but during the day all she does is CRY. My arms are so sore from holding her.

Hahaha So when you say " My husband is SOOO happy " are u being sarcastic?? haha WHat is he getting you for mother's day? Do u know ? Are u excited for ur first mother's day?!

xoxo
Lidia


breezee - Thursday, 8 May
That's scary, the doctor was supposed to closely examine the placenta when it came out to make sure nothing was left behind, mine examined mine for a good 25 minutes. How is everything else?

I am trying to find ways to make Maddi stop crying, I think I'll try the blow dryer thing. She seems to want to eat every hour but I was told by the pediatrician that I am overfeeding her so I am stuck between the two, cry or feed??


Trinabear18 - Tuesday, 6 May
Things are great and time is passing quickly. My little guy will soon be 1 month old. I usually sleep when he sleeps. He is good at sleeping. I have to wake him up sometimes to eat!


lalalidia - Tuesday, 6 May
ohmygod!!! hi !!

haha Yea I'm exhausted too. I can barely keep my eyes open as we speak!! how are things? How was the labor? How's the baby?!! I've been dying to hear from you !!


Trinabear18 - Monday, 5 May
How's everything going?


lalalidia - Monday, 5 May
hey!!! How did it go?!! Thinking of ya!


ladobruk - Tuesday, 22 April
Congratulations! I am glad everything went well.


aine - Monday, 21 April
hey congratulations ... cant wait to c your pics and hear yur birth story ...well done x


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