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nimzm2b
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My Birth Story

Hello, well Thomas George David Raynor finally arrived on Friday 25th July @ 09:33am.
He weighed 7Lbs 11oz, and he is the most gorgeous little boy that I have ever seen.

On Thursday 24th July I had some BH which were slightly painful, I took no notice of them but they got more and more painful. At around 02:30 am on the Friday I told my partner that I was having pain, he said that he would take me to the hospital, but I refused saying that I wasn't sure and that I wanted a cup of tea first then see how I felt. But then I had another contraction and then realized that they were too painful to just be BH's.
I phone the hospital and they told me to come in and remember to bring my maternity notes. We got Molly dressed and took her to her grandmothers. We got to the hospital at around 3:30am. The midwife took me into the delivery suite and asked for my notes, I then realized that I had left them at home so David had to go home to get them. They then examined me and told me that I was 6cm dilated. I demanded an epidural, so the nurse got the doctor to come and put one in. At 7:30am the nurses swaps shifts. The new nurse examined me again and told me that I was fully dilated, she also told me that she could feel an ear and what felt like some fingers. She got a doctor to double check. He agreed that the baby was trying to come down ear first! He was able to turn him into the right position but he wanted me to start pushing the baby out while he guided the head, because he was worried that the baby might try and turn again. The decided to use suction, but as he did it slipped off the babys head, so he decided to use forceps but he needed to cut me. Anyway when Thomas finally came out the doc needed to sew me up. As he was sewing I kept bleeding and with every stitch I bled more. He then noticed that there was a big blood vessel and that is why I bled so much. He managed to stop the bleeding and was able to sew me up. I had to stay in hospital overnight. But Thomas is most definitely worth all the pain and I love him so much, even if I have no vagina left, just what looks like road kill between my legs!!!!
Apart from being extremely sore and tender I am feeling good and I will post some more pictures and keep you all up dated soon. I LOVE MY LITTLE BOY








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phonics - Thursday, 28 August
I also hear you can swadle them and put them in a sling and walk around with them and they go to sleep.

If they don't stop crying run a vacuum or a hair dryer.


phonics - Thursday, 28 August
Have you tried swadling her, putting her to sleep, and then in z swing? I will say this. Mine would cry if she was not held and I held her all day for 7 weeks. Now she is going to daycare next week and I don't want her crying all day there so I decided to "train her". So we put her in her crib when we knew she was sleepy and let her cry herself to sleep. It took 35 minutes! She slept for an hour thenwoke up again. We fed her, changed her, and then put her back. 45 minutes later she was sleep (after crying of course). She slept for 2.5 hours andwoke up. We fed her, changd, her and put her back. This time no crying (she might have cried herlf out already for the day) and she went to sleep from 3am-77:45 am. I took her to the nursery today since it was my birthday and I had a spa day and she was great. I came back andshe was not crying. She has not cried since I have gotten her unless she wa hungry.

It is true. You cannot spoil an infant, but you can get them usedto something and then when they dont have it they are not happy.

LLET HER CRY. I know it is hard, but necessary for your sanity. I was so unhappy. So alone. My mom was getting on my nerves talking about my weight gain (I am a size 5) not big at all. Then my fiance' is starting his promoted job so he is already stressed and does not understand. I dont like to hear her cry, but i would rather her cry with me than anyone else.


dawniek - Tuesday, 26 August
Hi there! I've been on holiday over the bank hol so thats why i've not been intouch.
How's thomas? Any better in the day time? I've now stoped breastfeeding. Best thing i've done. He's loads more settled and sleeps longer. He taking 5oz. How much does thomas take?
I've got a fisherprice rainforest swing. It's the best. Always get stuff done when i put him in it. xxx


dawniek - Thursday, 21 August
Hi hun! It's the lake of sleep. It really turns you into a crazy person. I feel the same as you. I'm snaping all the time. I've lost my sence of humour. I'm like the walking dead. Just one full nights sleep would sort me out.

Sounds like thomas could have colic. I really hope he ant tho. They have that for about 10 weeks. Have you tryed gripe water or infecol,not sure on the spelling.

Feeding for me is getting better. We are giving a bottle at about 11ish and it seems to work. Gona start giving him the bottle in the day and breast at night.
Hope you start to feel better soon. xxxxx


lucy jordan - Thursday, 21 August
hi sis,
how is everyone doing,
im fine and baby is getting bigger,
i'll be down tomorrow at 12.00 to see
you, molly and handsome little man
see you soon
love you xxx


dawniek - Tuesday, 19 August
Hi there hun! He's still keeping me up all hours lol. Always thought newborns slept loads. He hardly sleeps. He stays awake for hours and hours. He's been asleep for 20 mins today. I'm well knackard.
Been to the doc's today cause his belly button looks infected. The doc took a swob. Just waiting for the results. He's come out in loads of spots on his face aswel. Got cream for them.

How's you doing? Are you enjoying been a mummy again? xxx


1sttimemommysumerlea - Monday, 18 August
Aww you poor thing..I hope you start feeling better soon!
Wow, 4 6 oz bottles? He's a big eater isnt he? haha!


amygirl22 - Saturday, 16 August
Hows things going w/ the new baby? I'm almost at the 100 day countdown! Cant believe how fast this has gone!!


1sttimemommysumerlea - Friday, 15 August
Im really sorry your having such a hard time with your knee! I hope the dr figures out how to fix it soon!
I am coping with the nights better than the day's to be honest! He is really good during the night and will sleep up to 4 hours at a time...but during the day he stays awake ALLLLLL day and will fuss if I dont pick him up or put him on my boob every hour! It gets hard bc I cant get anything done around my house or anything else!


1sttimemommysumerlea - Thursday, 14 August
Your little guy is so cute!!
Thats good that you were able to avoid the c section too..and after reading your birth story I can totally agree about the pain and feeling like you have no vagina left! haha!
Its getting better now though..
things are going pretty well, just feeding every two hours or so during the day and every 3 or so during the night...loving motherhood so far! So how is it adjusting to having 2 kids instead of one now?


MommyWonder - Thursday, 14 August
I've had a few people make mention of "when we have another one" and I am annoyed. I'm still healing as well (baby is 2 weeks old now) and can't imagine being pregnant for another 9/10 months of my life. I just want to enjoy being a first-time mommy.


1sttimemommysumerlea - Wednesday, 13 August
Congrats on your baby! I havent been on here in forever but I finally have my little guy's birth story up!


megcantwaitforherfirst - Sunday, 10 August
last night my little one took 2 hrs to go down at around 12 i was getting soooo stressed out i was crying right along with her haha finally my husband got her settled which made me cry more because im her mom she should be comfored by me ugh bad night exhausted today... they may have put soemthing in my IV for the epidural i had a lot of tubes in me with being induced and i waited wayyy long to get my epidural and wasnt in a great frame of mind at that time haha and i love when cailey is in bed with me i sleep 100 times better since i can feel her breath haha


dawniek - Sunday, 10 August
he,he! think the rum sounds like a good idea lol. I'm getting desprate. xxxx


dawniek - Sunday, 10 August
pix are now up on my profile page. xxxxxxxx


dawniek - Sunday, 10 August
Yep know how you feel. Had such an hard night last night. Feeding every hour. He just don't sleep. He sleeps about 6 hours in 24 hours. He's been awake all day so far. I've fed him,bathed him and changed him today. I really don't understand why he don't sleep. He must be knackard,i am. I'm loosing it. Too knackared to do anything,just want to sleep!!!!! Wonder if he's an hungrier baby like your thomas. We gave him a bottle at 2am but he only slept for 2 hours and he soon wanted boobie lol. xxxxx


megcantwaitforherfirst - Sunday, 10 August
they didnt put anything in my hand for the epidural it was all in my back i had ivs in my hand for fluids and pitocin but not epidural the thing i hated about epidural was they forgot to turn it off till a while after so i couldnt feel my legs for a long time so i couldnt even walk the whole first day... nights are going okay every 3 hrs i get up to feed her i realllly miss my days of sleeping all night and half the day but she does okay i always put her in bed with me after her 4 am feeding and we snuggle and sleep till like 8 i know co bedding isnt good but she and i both enjoy it so i will do it for now hows your nights


megcantwaitforherfirst - Saturday, 9 August
i had a 2nd degree tear and i had an epidural after 17 hrs of pitocin induced labor lol it was a 19 hr labor in total i have no clue why i waited sooo long


dawniek - Saturday, 9 August
Hi hun! I don't understand my little man. He's awake most of the day/night. Your lucky you have a sleeper. I don't have time to skratch my arse at the mo lol. My other half is a great help. He gave him a bottle last night and i went to bed and got a good 6 hours,bliss!!!

I feel ok in genaral apart from feeling sooooooooo knackard. Thank god for make up or i would look like dawn of the dead. I've got stretchmarks aswel,gutted! Hopefully they will fade in time. It's only been a few weeks so don't be too down about the way you look. I'm sure a few more weeks and we will be yummy mummys! Gona put pix up soon. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx


megcantwaitforherfirst - Saturday, 9 August
thank you im feeling pretty good minus my crotch area still kinda hurts but thats the joy of delivering an almost 9 lb baby how are you feeling and hows your little one doing your baby is sooo handsome


dawniek - Friday, 8 August
I'm finding it dame hard to cope. I feel like i'm loosing the will to live some days. Soooo knackard. We have started to give him a bottle on a night. He goes about 4 hours which is great. Might do the mix feeding like you are doing.
xxxxx


oldie44 - Friday, 8 August
I am not very tired. I am actually lucky that my husband agreed to let me sleep at night on the second floor, away from the baby, because I cannot relax next to him, every sound he makes makes me jump and check on him. We made an agreement with my husband that I take care of the baby during the day and he- during the night. It works great!
Fortunately, my previous child is 6 year old, goes to day care for all day from 8-6:30 pm and is self sufficient at home.


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Photos
Bare belly pic, 23 weeks (2008, 03, 26) She loves Music! (2008, 03, 26) Me and my absolutely beautiful daughter Molly (2008, 03, 26) Exactly 23 weeks (2008, 03, 26) Mollys Fly (2008, 05, 16) 30 weeks belly picture (2008, 05, 16) 10 weeks to go!! (2008, 05, 16) My 2 day old prince Thomas (2008, 07, 27) Sleeping (2008, 07, 27) Thomas (2008, 07, 27)

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