14th April 2008 @ 05.20 am ,we lost our baby girl becoz of incompetent cervix on 23 w2d.My due date was supposed to be on 12 th august.my being pregnant was announced to my hubby on our 2nd marriage anniversary on 11th December 2007.that day(14th april)has been the worse day of my life so far..and yesterday after one month,i still feel the same pain,frustration and anger.Still i know i should move on,coz my baby will not come back and I am looking forward to meeting her sometime later in Heaven.She will be growing with God till we meet again.We miss you hell lots and you will always be cherish for the happiness you gave us.You will always be our sweetie
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roosa -
Monday, 29 September Dear friends, I just wanted to let you all know that I had my doctor appointment yesterday. It was rather disappointing. He didn't consider my cycles unusual even though they are unusual for me. I asked if there is anything that can be done to increase my fertility and he said he doesn't think I have fertility issues being I have been able to get pregnant... The only thing I got out of it and only because I kept pushing is an ultrasound referral just to make sure nothing bad is left in there. He was otherwise so non-caring and I left rather depressed. The hospital has even send him personal letters about what happened with me and our baby and about future treatments and he has never read a single one.
Okay, just had to vent!
Hope you are all well.
Love,
Karin debora -
Sunday, 28 September Happy Sunday, Ladies:
I am so sorry for the delay in writing. I am so busy with new interior design appointments! I hope to be really busy for the holidays.
September and October are some busy times for me! Anyway, I will keep all posted on any changes with me.
I am enjoying the time with my Love as we simply take each day easy.
And yes, I am getting so pumped with this weather! I wish I could express my renewed sense of creativity.
Smiles,
Debora ;-)
ktpregers -
Saturday, 27 September Yikes! you make me feel old at 32!! LOL
good luck and keep in touch! sugarcubesandcottoncandy -
Thursday, 25 September he should possibly just consider what might have happened to his family honor if it were discovered at any point in time that he wouldnt be able to father a child. i am sure you wouldnt have been as harsh with him.
i dont belive in saying things in anger. whats sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander as well. he promised to love you, honor you and hold you through sickness and health. and this is definitely not how he does it. anyways, this is something he will have to answer god for. i shall leave it at that.
it would be lovely to meet you when you come down to india. any plans of making it in the near future? debora -
Monday, 22 September Happy Monday!
Oh well, my cycle came. Just late. Never had this happened. I suppose my body is still adjusting. Anyway, I feel great and looking forward to a nice crisp Fall.
This is my favorite time of year!
Love,
Debora :-) temibaby -
Monday, 22 September Hey sweetie, I'm fine thanks!! How are things for you in the UK?? My baby is growing and thriving nicely :) Only nine more weeks to go!!
G'D bless you and fullfill your dreams,
Love Temi xxxx sugarcubesandcottoncandy -
Monday, 22 September she is fine. doing great infact. being a pain in the ass when its time to feed. but otherwise, she is fun. naughty and stuff.
He had no business getting angry with you to start with honey. it honestly wasnt your fault and if he couldnt see that shame on him. you needed a lot of tender love and care and always will, when that subject comes up. i would never forgive a man that spoke to me like that. I am as indian as they come and no.... chauvenism is not the accepted norm anymore.
who cares what people say. you are their bahu and they should be careful about what they say to you. anyways... i do hope you are happy.
and you remain in my prayers. dont worry dear. it will happen soon. in gods time, its always perfect. roosa -
Monday, 22 September Thanks Aruna for your post and sharing your thoughts. I think I might just go see a doctor so I can relax a bit more. As I've said though, we aren't full on TTC anymore as it was doing more harm than good. Thanks for the baby dust and prayers.
Love,
Karin roosa -
Sunday, 21 September Dear friends, I just wanted to update you and let you all know that this wasn't my month. Even though I have tried to be more relaxed about it all this month it is still hard not to be disappointed when there is nothing you want more than to be pregnant. I sure wonder if it will ever happen! I also wonder if I should see a doctor about my cycles. I have had 5 cycles since the loss and they have all been irregular (both in length and amount of bleeding). If anyone has any advice or experience, I would appreciate it. Should I see a doctor or just give it more time? Anyway, hope you are all well.
Love,
Karin sugarcubesandcottoncandy -
Sunday, 21 September there are more precious gifts we give our husbands dear. our faith and trust and our love. :)
i strongly urge you to read that book yet again "i'll hold you in heaven". it made a very big difference to how i handled my grief.
I disagree with you on the honor bit. a mothers love for her child is wayyyy bigger than a man's sense of pride at being able to father a child. and this is a sentiment that transcends borders. no matter which part of the world we are from, the child is a part of the mother that takes shape and comes out into the world. i am not belittling a mans contribution. but you simply cannot compare. i would understand his grief at losing a child. but i just dont comprehend his pride being hurt. in the event of the loss of a child and what it means to you as a woman, his pride is inconsequential.
donr berate yourself or beat yourself to death over this. before you know it, you will be holding one of gods most precious creations in your hand and life will seem perfect.
much love
Gayathri trying4baby3 -
Saturday, 20 September
ayesha -
Friday, 19 September hey i hope ur well, i read ur blog and it really moved me. I hope this move helps you. where in uk are u?
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