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How's my baby doing...?

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I'm at five weeks, I had a little brownish spotting this yesterday morn, so I panicked and went to the doctors even though was not due in until Wed. They did an ultra sound and they still don't see the baby only the yolk sac and they said it has not grown in five days. They told me to stop taking progesterone and mc.

I think its to early to determine that, I'm feeling cramping here and there but nothing major. Has anyone gone through something like this?
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I think the doctor is right. I don't even feel preg anymore. No sore bb still tired but I think I'm emotionally drained.

I guess I should decide whether to D&C or should I do it naturally?
I want to try again. Any input girls?

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Feb. 19, 2008
Get a load of this... I just went to doc after a very emotional week, and pre-pairing myself to have nothing in the sac again but the yolk. That is until we heard a heart beet. YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEs! Its only 103 beets a minute and they want to get it up to 160 so they don't want me to get too excited but I can't help it. I thought it was going to be a BO and now there's atleast something there. I have to go back next week and make sure the heart is ok. They think I'm about six weeks according to the size of the little peanut. I'm so happy - even though we not out of the woods yet!

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Feb. 26 , 2008
Its been a true roller coaster ride from h*ck. Went to the doctor looking forward to seeing the baby's heart beat raise and see how much it grew after being told the week before it was B/O. They found -No heart beat. No fluttering to be seen on ultra sound and it barely grew a day even though its been a whole week. I waited for the doc to confirm what the tech saw. I was scheduled for D&C that afternoon and I am now recovering. I want to thank everyone for their support. I will back in a few months when we try again.

Happy Healthy Baby Dust to all!

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Monday; April 07, 2008 3:30 PM
41st Day After D&C and 33rd Day after Spotting stopped (03/06/08).

Day 1 of 1st AF after D&C:

Cramps! Nipple Pain, Light Flow.

Day 2 of 1st AF after D&C:

Bad M-Fudgen cramps! Lower Back Pain, Bloated, Tired, Med. Flow.

I still think about the MC and how far along I would have been
but the feeling does get better, but I doubt I will ever forget.
Still very emotional, my body still feels out of wack. DH can't
wait to for the two cycles to pass so we can try again. I'm
on the fence about it, I don't want to go through the same pain again.

Day 3 of AF

Lots of painful Cramping going on, Heavy Flow (change in the middle of the night), Nipple Sourness. Took 2 Motrin 600mg not helping pain.

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suzy-o - Wednesday, 16 April
I ended up having an infection after mine, and had to have a week off work.I spent most of it swearing and crying! But it got to the stage where we talked about wether we were going to have another or not-its now or never!

suzy-o - Monday, 14 April
Hi there
Had my D+C Feb 21st-it was ok-had my period last month no prob. Me n poartner have decided to try for a baby now!! Its exciting but i know uts prob going to take a while so trying not to get too excited! What about you?? How're you feeling at the moment?

Tess42 - Thursday, 6 Mar
My doctor told me there was nothing to worry about, but still... I just knew something was wrong. I went to the maternity ER and the ultrasound actually recorded the slowing down of my baby's heart and the moment it stopped. I thought my heart would never stop aching. I wasn't really 'trying' to get pregnant again -- in fact I was scared to, but I did anyway, in spite of being too old, overweight, etc. I was scared to say anything about the pregnancy -- and my husband and I didn't until we got past the 1st trimester. I have a six month old boy today. Good luck and God bless.

kamo - Monday, 3 Mar
Sorry to hear that! Never lose faith and believe that you will get to hold your bundle of joy when the time is right. God bless you.

1blessedmomma - Saturday, 1 Mar
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I lost a baby last year at 8 weeks so I understand how hard it is. On the other side of that however, I am 36 weeks right now and due to be induced on Mar. 19! Remember, 'all things work toward good for those that love the Lord.' Paula

laneybird - Thursday, 28 Feb
Bless your heart. You get you some rest and I wish you the best. I know this is a difficult time. Best of luck to you.

niseybear - Wednesday, 27 Feb
OH LUV! MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU! It's an AWFUL thing to lose a child at ANY point in pregnancy, BUT G-d is working something out for you so be patient. Try to hold your faith and just believe. I wish you all the best for the next time and be blessed.

suzy-o - Wednesday, 20 Feb
That is absolutely fantastic news!!!!! I'll keep everything crossed for you, but if theres a heartbeat then its gotta be good!!

laneybird - Wednesday, 20 Feb
Yay for you!! Good luck! Keep us posted

kamo - Tuesday, 19 Feb
YAHOO!!!! I am very releived to hear that! It sounds like you are too. I'm glad no BO. You should feel good about the heartbeats and don't let the doc take that moment away from you. With my m/c, I never even got to see or hear a heartbeat. I'm so happy for you! I know everything will be okay. Take care of yourself and keep praying. Keep me posted on your appointment next week. I go for mines next Wednesday.

kamo - Monday, 18 Feb
Hey, how are things going? Is everything okay?

suzy-o - Thursday, 14 Feb
I have also read a ew times that this is unlikely to happen again-we're just unfortunate that its happened this time-theres no reason to think we would be this unlucky again.

laneybird - Thursday, 14 Feb
The first time I became pregnant I had this at 6-7 weeks... the brown spotting. I went to the dr right away and they saw no baby. The next day I started the heavier bleeding and cramping. I miscarried, letting nature take its course. My dr had my blood drawn every couple of days to be sure that my hormone levels were going down.
I personally hope that its too early for them to determine this with you and that everything will be alright. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Good luck to you.

jpcm - Wednesday, 13 Feb
Hi, I just saw your posts in plus size section...I am a size 22 nonpreg, size 24 preg mom of an 18 month old that weighs 16 pounds. She is completely healthy and my dr says there isn't as much to weigh as everyone leads on. He actually says some women with more weight can handle preg easier. My doctor is very encouraging. About a d&c or natural mc...I have mc'd twice and the first one my preg had gone to 12 wks but baby stopped at 7 & half wks, diff dr did a d&c...second mc I was only 5 wks and I had started spotting that went on to heavy bleeding and cramping. My new dr, same one i used for daughter and this preg, told me it was best to allow natural mc due to having a previous d&c, he did not recommend multiple d&cs. That being said I have also learned alot of us machines as well as they are supposed to work, can not get a good enough picture at 5 weeks...at 5 wks the only thing that should be visible is sac and/or what my dr called a fetal pole...even these can be missed if you don't get just right angle. For cramping I have cramped with both my last preg and this one, honeslty felt like menstral cramps...it's how I knew I was preg, I was cramping for a week and no cycle. Being you are so early the dr does not have to schedule a D&C until they and you are sure!!! If dr insists I would see another dr. Ask dr to perform HCG tests.

kamo - Wednesday, 13 Feb
Oh, wow. I agree, I think it is still too early. If you just wait it out nature will set it's course regardless on the outcome. In the meantime just take care of yourself.

damaurigirl07 - Tuesday, 12 Feb
Hey! Do not get a D&C. I had to go for HCG testing and ultrasounds 4 times before we saw my baby. I was 6 weeks and 6 days the first time we were able to see my lil' boy. They thought I had a blighted ovum. I'm 18 weeks now, going on 19! Some places say that you don't even see the baby until 7 or 8 weeks. You could have a tilted uterus or anything.
Just wait it out. Even if you do miscarry, atleast you won't have to think everyday that you may have killed a healthy fetus. God bless and take care! Also, cramping is common in the first trimester. Just think positive! Go to this link: www.misdiagnosedmiscarriage.com

tarakm - Tuesday, 12 Feb
Hi I am sorry to hear that but I think that it is to early to make that decision, I had a lot of u/s b/c of bleeding and at 6 weeks they didnt see anything And here I am 21 weeks pregnant with a healthy little girl! Don't give up yet, I would wait until at least 8 weeks and then ask for another u/s! Best of Luck to you

2ndbabybump - Monday, 11 Feb
lol i know it is a nerve racking experience! but its well worth it! im pregnant with my 2nd, put all the m/s headaches etc etc aside im lovn every minute of it! if u eva have any questions feel free to ask! take care n good luck!

2ndbabybump - Monday, 11 Feb
congrats on ur pregnancy all the best!!

kamo - Sunday, 10 Feb
No, I haven't done a US yet. I haven't even gone to the doc yet. Because I have a 23 day cycle I was able to get a BFP at 3 weeks, so I'm sure according to the doc they will say I will turn 4 weeks this Wednesday, which is still very early. Since my m/c in July I've been taking prenatal vitamins, so I'm in no rush to see the doc. However, another part of me really wants to get an US to make sure everything is fine. I pray that we all have safe and healthy pregnancies! When do you go back to the doc?

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