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gonzjan - 13.5 hours ago
Hi,
Thanks fo the advice. I needed to hear that. I dont want to step on the teachers toes and sometimes that Is what I feel like I do. I will have to stand back and let them do their job as long as they are treating my daughter well. My daughter says she is bored with all the work. The school does not test them if they might be advanced. I just hope and pray she gets a great teacher next year. Take care. :)

riknlee - Sunday, 11 May
great mums think alike. xx

riknlee - Sunday, 11 May
happy mothers day xx

foxie-mommie - Thursday, 8 May
Hi! Some days are better than others as you know. Pregnant women, small babies, maternity clothes, tv, etc, anything can trigger the emotions. It's hard but it has been amazing to see how caring women can be to reach out to total strangers with support.

Thank you so much!!

gonzjan - Thursday, 8 May
That was so funny. I wish my daughter had a nice teacher like you. You sound so compassionate. My daughter is in kindergarten and this was her first real experience with school. I just had my second baby and my daughter brought in a picture of her new baby sister. My daughter told me her teacher just left the picture on her desk and didnt show the other children. My duaghter was so dissapointed. I even told my daughter to show the picture to the kids. Oh well, I just hope first grade will be better. :)

MOMMI~NICOLE - Tuesday, 6 May
LMAO!!!! That was the best story, THANKS for sharing, how cute, I must pass along....
Bless~

riknlee - Monday, 5 May
the game show was more like a comedy show. Improvisation games between two teams hosted by HG nelson. it was really funny. i had a huge weekend. your business sounds interesting. Do the children still see their father at all? Mine dont see theirs - his choice 4 years ago. My hubby and I were also friends before we got together. Actually he was married to my best friend and she left him. he was devastated and I was helping him through it and helping him to work out why by talking to her. In the end we just got together and it has worked. WE planted 4 native plants in honour of our baby and only 2 have survived, but it just means we didnt look after them in all that heat. We will never forget him but got to see our new baby on Friday and all seems well in there. He is very active and kicks a lot when he is awake. 21 1/2 weeks now and feeling huge. Ps what sort of car do you have? I have a Calais which is only a 5 seater and my hubby has a very small company car and we are thinking of what sort of vehicle to get. Mind you we dont go out much as a family. the girls walk to school and I work from home so we really wouldnt need it very much except for the times when we obviously go out, I guess we will have to take two cars until that time

misz-cashis-oct08 - Sunday, 4 May
aww dont worry! its okayy. everything happens for a reason i promise. and ur baby is in heaven with God having the best time ever in paradise. we are the ones suffering here. u kno? its okay. dont worry.thanks for the message. it means alot to me. i will deff keep in touch and u dont be a stranger!! =] <3

riknlee - Friday, 2 May
THE game show was fun. I will have to tell you about it but it is 12.30 and I am tired now. What sort of business do you have. you can tell me just generic - you dont have to give the business name or anything. How sweet about Abby. I didnt know, I thought you hadnt had any kids together. how long have you guys been together? How old were the kids when you got together? goodnight Debbie, I am going to Auskick then the footy then babysitting so very busy but leave a message if you can x

riknlee - Friday, 2 May
Hi Debbie, If you stopped bleeding so soon, I am not sure why it took me so long to get over. oh well, it doesnt matter really. Is Graham Abby's father? I think you told me that jessie was your first together. Crying is good therapy. WE are going out tonight to a game show so I had better get a move on. Just wanted to write something about the ultrasound first on my blog (hate that word) take care have a great weekend

riknlee - Wednesday, 30 April
Hey there. How long has it been stopped? I thought I had stopped but then it was back the next day. still it was nice to have a break from it. What they told us was try when you are ready but i had these homeopathics to take and i wanted to get hubby as healhty as possible so he started taking multivitamins and kelp to help him eliminate toxins and stuff, then I had an ear infection - on anti biotics so couldnt try. Try when you are ready. it will take a lot of courage no matter when you do try I guess. But congratulations if it has finally stopped. You feel like your body has gone back to normal. I have been looking into playing online scrabble as I was getting bored, no one was messaging me, i have taken to answering polls and questions and commenting on other's pages, just for a distraction.
How are the kids and you and hubby doihg? Is time helping at all?

foxie-mommie - Tuesday, 29 April
Physically I'm ok, mentally i'm drained. I think I would have been better had I not seen the baby kicking around and the heart beating and then one week later nothing...... The last doctor I got another opinion from was so sweet. They gave me some great pictures of my baby to keep and I can see his/her little legs, head, and arms. So precious... I think things like this just take time, you know? I feel like I cant cry because no one understands so I just cry to myself... Anyhow, Thank you.

foxie-mommie - Tuesday, 29 April
Physically I'm ok, mentally i'm drained. I think I would have been better had I not seen the baby kicking around and the heart beating and then one week later nothing...... The last doctor I got another opinion from was so sweet. They gave me some great pictures of my baby to keep and I can see his/her little legs, head, and arms. So precious... I think things like this just take time, you know? I feel like I cant cry because no one understands so I just cry to myself... Anyhow, Thank you.

misz-cashis-oct08 - Monday, 28 April
ps:

eww i know. i cant believe some of the messages that people were leaving me. i relle honestly could nottt believe it. i didnt expect neone to be so0 cruel at a time like that. i guess its hard to understand when they havent been thru it. but they shouldnt say mean things. ughh some people...

misz-cashis-oct08 - Monday, 28 April
thanks for the message. u are someone who can relle relate to what im going thru and not just trying to. i appreciate what u say, i relle do and it makes me feel much less alone to know there ppl out there who went thru and are going thru the same thing i am now. and i deff like the fact that u have healthy children! deff gives me hope. ohh and angel was born on april 17 at..well since i was put under..i only can guess it around 6. pm. tty so0n x0

riknlee - Sunday, 27 April
Hi Debbie,
I am glad to hear from you. I have no idea what I ended up having. I had two internal tablets and then oral ones every 8 hours. A round is 5 lots of tablets and nothing was happening after the fifth lot so they started me on the round again by two internal and that really got things going. Contractions became stronger and I really didn’t expect them to be painful at all. I didn’t know what to do – how to cope with them, so they were about to give me pethidine when my waters broke in this massive splash on the floor. I was still dressed in undies and pants. I felt something fall into my undies which I thought was him so I called the nurses. They had a look in my undies and saw just the bag. I kept saying ‘he’s there’ and they were telling me to lie down but I said I couldn’t so they took my pants off and sat me on the bed. I said that I thought I might do a wee or something if I pushed so they put a bed pan under me and I sat on it. They told me to push but I didn’t feel I had anything to push. They I sort of felt pressure and he came- he was so tiny and so perfect looking. I should have picked him up then and there but I just stared at him. I couldn’t believe I had ended the pregnancy and that it was over. When they cut the cord he jumped and I said that the poor baby is still alive but someone told me it was just a reflex. I didn’t see him breathing or anything. I sat back down on the bed and then padded me up – eventually the placenta came out and was taken away to be examined. I was starving as they had me not eating in case I needed to have any pieces of placenta removed in an operation. I was immediately hungry and relieved. The shot of pethidine was taken away as I didn’t have it in the end. They brought Cassidy back all wrapped in a blanket with an enormous hat on. I held him and he was still warm but soon lost his warmth and went cold. We didn’t unwrap him, we just held him. When we were sure we had paid our respects, he was taken away. He was just a body, no life, no personality. They took photos and put them in our file. A few days later I got my hubby to pick them up. I am really not sure what they gave me but it wasn’t RU486.
If you would rather communicate via email that is fine. I don’t want to upset you but I am here if you want to talk. I hope every day gets better – every day brings you closer to potentially conceiving again when the body is ready – if that is what you want.
That’s weird about the placental remains coming out. They should have checked it thoroughly to make sure they had it all. Thank god you didn’t get an infection and need a d and c! The body is wonderful isn’t it?
Well thanks again for writing. It was good to hear from you.
take care.




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