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	Age: 17 Country: UK Province/region: - City: - Partner: Children: Pregnant: No Occupation: student
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Miscarried last week. Been in a lot of pain and bleeding. Dont no what really happened. Maybe it was because i didnt do the right things and carried on as normal. All the stress from school and this maybe brought it on. I dont know whether im happy or sad now but i do no that im going to be more careful from now on. Maybe i'll come ack on in about 6 years when im pregnant again and that time it will be planned.

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kytti - Saturday, 10 May
Babies really are miracles when you think about it and some people try all their lives and just don't seem to have one, which sometimes makes me feel guilty that it only took us 3 months to conceive. I am sure you will do the right thing and my thoughts will be with you. :)

danice - Saturday, 10 May
i would really say keep the baby i know is hard because your a student but you have no idea how wonderful it is to have a baby i got pregnant at 18 and i keept the baby shes so wonderful and im still going to college and as well my cousin is only 16 and she had her daughter and now shes pregnant again and she couldnt be happier i know is hard but please think about it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
whatever decision you may take is going to chamge your life..

fabeebabee - Saturday, 10 May
Nutmeg, I'm the one who posted my success story about being adopted in the questions and answers section. I read what you said about your boyfriend not wanting someone else to raise his kid. It seems a little crazy to me that he'd rather it be dead than be raised by someone who loves it and can take care of it. Sometimes men are just idiots (especially young men) and need to be ignored. This is your decision, not his. I know that sounds harsh, but it's true. Again, I'm not trying to sound like some pro-life Nazi. I am pro-choice. I just think you should ignore someone who says things that are that stupid. If you ever want to chat, feel free to send me a message. I'd love to answer any questions you might have about what it's like being adopted.

tabitha - Saturday, 10 May
it is compleatly up to you what you do, having a baby is a life changing decision and if you feel that it is not for you then mabie adoption is the way to go...there are many women out there that would really love to adopt and you could be the one who could give them a beautiful life...if not you will make a great mother and dont let anyone tell you different. xx

littledebbie99 - Saturday, 10 May
There are so many loving couples who can't have babies. Please don't waste a life.

God Bless,
-Debra-

agonzales - Saturday, 10 May
Thanks! Well I hope you make the right decision for yourself. Take care and good luck.

agonzales - Saturday, 10 May
Im 19 wks and Im very excited to find out what Im having on Monday. Hoping for a boy this time since I have 2 girls already.

toti - Saturday, 10 May
Trust me I understand what you are feeling. Just know that no one is every TRULY prepared to be a parent no matter how old they are, it just comes naturally and you learn as you go. You know it does not get easier as you get older either, LOL, this is my 2nd time around and I think I have more self doubt than the first time around, but this is completly normal as my hormones are the ones sometimes interfering with my brain :O)

Don't get me wrong you need to do what is right for you and that is the bottom line. You are the one in control of your choices you make or do not make.

All I can say is that if you end up having this child you will never regret it, you will love your baby with a love that is incomparable and no matter how many mistakes you make as you grow as a new mom your child will still love you no matter what. You will find that without even thinking about it, your life changes to adapt to your baby and you don't look back with regret. Being a Mother is the best, most challenging and rewarding thing that has ever happened to me and I would not trade it for the world.

Best of luck to you Nutmeg! :o)

skatrose - Saturday, 10 May
You definitely need to follow your heart on this one. But you also have to think about how many other people would love to have children but can't. Just because you decide to stay pregnant, doesn't mean you have to keep it if you decide the timing isn't right. It is essentially your choice, but that little baby inside you is growing every day. I wouldn't let anyone pressure you into anything. This is your choice, and your choice alone. Good luck and we'll all be praying for you

kytti - Saturday, 10 May
The best advice I can give you is follow your heart. If you feel now is not the best time for you just remember there are thousands of other families not so lucky and would be happy to adopt your little miracle. It is worth thinking about. I wish you the best of luck!

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