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My name is Sabrina, aka, Sabrina Rai. thats only for business though, you are welcome to just call me Sabrina. My wes calls me his Brina, and we have 2 beautiful children, 4 and 2, and we are expecting our 3rd this november. This is a very scary, exciting, and nerve racking experience for us. We had decided after our son and the complications I had and the risk it was that we were settled with the two we had, but I believe God had different plans and here we are pregnant with the 3rd. I cried for days and Wes has been my rock, comforting all my fears and giving me faith. I am a carrier for hemophilia so when the dr said we may be having another boy, i broke into tears and Wes was there to hold my hand and tell me Joshua was fine so have faith it will be fine again, we go July 3rd to find out for sure if it is a boy or a girl, i had this feeling it was a girl, but maybe im wrong. If its a boy I will be just as happy I am just trying to have faith that everything will be fine and as long as our baby is healthy, we will be happy, and if the baby is not healthy, we are prepared and know what has to be done to take care of our son. Wes and his family have been there to support us and we are having a great time becoming closer and learning more about eachother, the last few years have been tough but we are stronger and closer now than when we met and thats all that matters, there comes a time when you grow up and realize what means the most to you and for Wes and I, its our children and eachother. Now I know I cant speak for him but if he shows it and I feel it I would say we both agree. Things are going to be fine and even though its hard now I know the reward is a beautiful baby and a miracle of life.

July 3, 2008

Found out today, its a BOY! this is of course more worry and more caution to be taken but I feel confident in my dr and I feel most confident in Wes, everything will be fine, now we just have to figure out a name? any suggestions anyone? we like James and we like Evan but arent crazy about them together, so hmm, what to do? We are happy and looking forward to another bouncing baby boy. Keep us in your prayers and keep checking for updates.

August 1, 2008 - 25 weeks

earlier this week I lost my grandmother and things have been difficult. My next dr's appointment is August 20th and I get to do the glucose test, oh yay! I hate that test and i have gotten sick the last two times i have done it, that will be week 28 and i believe after that appointment I will then be going every 2 weeks and I am hoping to have the 4d ultrasound done, I do feel like another ultrasound should be done, to make sure the baby is head down and make for certain it is a boy, I feel certain it is a boy but honestly I just want to see him again. I am hoping things calm down a bit, and i can begin to relax.

August 21, 2008 - 28 weeks

Well, we have spread my grandmothers ashes and my dad took things really hard, but for the first time in years I feel like he actually acknowledged me. My brother is expecting a little girl in December, right behind me. I had my glucose test yesterday, it wasnt as bad as i thought it would be, until today, today I am drained, and grouchy, oh well, just a part of it all i suppose. We are still trying to decide on a name and I cant seem to figure it out in the slightest, everytime i think i like a name I change it again, I have a feeling I will be in the hospital looking at my son in the face and still wondering what to name him. I guess i should just let Wes decide on the name, he seems to have his head screwed on straight, where as mine is here but the wires that are suppose to connect my brain to my spine seem to be detatched for the most part.

September 12, 2008 - 31 weeks

A few weeks have passed and it seems things are beginning to slow down. One of my best friends had her baby last week and she is beautiful, just like her mommy, and it is getting me excited and nervous about my new addition. Wes and I and his entire family, came to the Outer banks of NC, It really is beautiful and a completly new experience, eventhough I have had to take it easy, orders from the doctor, I have enjoyed my time with my family and children, we got some great pics and Its only two more days til we leave. im having contractions and some swelling in my hands and feet, im hoping i dont go too early. we shall see. just another month and half and he will be here so im just trying to stay busy.

September 20, 2008 - 32 weeks

Yeah, I would deffinatly say things have slowed down, this week just dragged by and it seems as though I cant get enough done. Thank goodness things have started to cool off just a bit, Autumn is one of my favorite times a year, its not too hot and not too cold and the leaves change, the colors are magnificent and the smells that fill the air are crisp and warm at the same time. I just love it. I am trying to plan the baby shower now with we's sis-in-law and then my mom is doing a double shower for my brother and I, his daughter is due the month after me. I guess im just tired because as far as mood goes, I am completly lacking in any emotion, im just here and if im not upset and crying Im just floating around and not really feeling like doing anything., anybody else experience this? well today is a down day and im just bored, so feel free to comment and I hope all the ladies are doing well and the days arent too long for all.

~Dates and Numbers~

Your 1st trimester: February 08, 2008 to May 08, 2008. (0 - 12 weeks)
Your 2nd trimester: May 09, 2008 to August 21, 2008. (13 - 27 weeks)
Your 3rd trimester: August 22, 2008 to November 14, 2008. (28 - 40 weeks)

Month 1~ Weeks 1-4 (COMPLETED)

Month 2~ Weeks 5-8 (COMPLETED)

Month 3~ Weeks 9-13 (COMPLETED)

Month 4~ Weeks 14-17 (COMPLETED)

Month 5~ Weeks 18-21 (COMPLETED)

Month 6~ Weeks 22-26 (COMPLETED)

Month 7-~ Weeks 27-30 (COMPLETED)

Month 8~ Weeks 31-35 (IN PROGRESS)

Month 9~ Weeks 36-40

Baby's Fun Birthday Facts

Your baby's birthstone will be Yellow Topaz (Fidelity) Your baby's Astrological Sign will be Scorpio Your baby's Flower is Chrysanthemum or Chrysanthemum (Dark Blue, Red and Yellow) Your baby will be born in the Chinese Year of The Rat This time next year your baby will be 31 Weeks Old! Your baby will start kindergarten in 2014, be old enough to drive a car in 2024, finish high school in 2027, and will graduate from college with the class of 2031, give or take a year. Can you imagine?