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kah1675 - 6 hours ago
hey amanda hope u r doing well.
the 4th was alright we went downtown and it started to rain so we just watched them from the car.
wow your little one is getting big...mine was 9oz when we went last Thursday. Still have not felt him kick..... waiting on that. Hope all is well. Kendra

kah1675 - Friday, 4 July

[Glitterfy.com - *Glitter Photos*] BRAYDEN

kah1675 - Thursday, 3 July
Tomorrow afternoon is the big day.
Cant wait

kah1675 - Sunday, 29 June
uuuggghhhh that bites......

It is never TOO late to change its all in your personal preference.

Hope you are staying cool in this heat.

My hips and organs are spreading and its no fun.

kah1675 - Friday, 27 June
Thank u sunshine
Uggghhhh what hours..... till midnight......
I can't seem to get a job around here for nothing.
So that's why I am babysitting my friends daughter this summer.
It's some money.
I've not really cried a lot over silly stuff lately.
I did about a month or 2 ago.
I'm glad I am not moody. I'm here if u need to vent don't worry....... we are in the same boat even if u are a little further along.
Do u see the dr's in greenville?

kah1675 - Friday, 27 June
Hey darlin,
Sorry to hear he's being a prick.
This baby is a blessing from GOD as all children are.
I never thought I could get pregnant. I had a miscarriage in 2005 at 6 weeks and had NO clue at all.
This time....I said lets try this week and see...neither of us thought it would actually happen, but it did and we were in total shock. We were already engaged.....so there was no point in moving anything up.
Hopefully he'll get over himself and grow up and be responsible or you need to do what's best for your and your son. I'd think knowing he was having a boy would make him fall in love......and be happy and excited

Keep me posted and if u need any words of inspiration or just a friend to talk to I'm here for u.
Kendra
p.s. thank you for the compliments

kah1675 - Friday, 27 June
What are u near in Greenville?
We are actually in Winterville due to the post office.
Off Firetower Rd. Didn't you just love that water issue.
How ridiculous......... and sad...but at least they warned us and we could get bottled water.

kah1675 - Friday, 27 June
All we want is healthy.
Did the father leave??
Glad the baby is well.
My husband ( we got married 3 weeks ago tomorrow)is diabetic.
If u need/want to talk I'm here.
Kendra

kah1675 - Friday, 27 June
LOL nope...... me too
We find out July 3rd.

Congrats on your little man. My guess is a boy too but we shall see.
Hope you are feeling well. :-)

kah1675 - Friday, 27 June
Hey from Greenville, NC too.
Love Eeyore!!!
Congrats.
I'm 17 weeks.

mama moosie - Sunday, 22 June
Hi hon. How are you doing? Have things calmed down at all? I just wanted to check in with you and make sure you're doing alright...

Cinxia - Thursday, 19 June
Glad to hear it!

*Baby-Mine* - Thursday, 19 June
sweetie, you are not being selfish. HE'S being selfish by only thinking of his wants and needs and not the 2 of you. if he was a man he's step up and do what he has to do to take care of you 2, not try to place the blame on you so YOU have to take care of the situation for him.
easier said than done, but i say get rid of HIM!! he sounds like a prick, and he may be the baby's "father" but he is NO "Daddy"!!!
i hope things work out for the best for YOU and the BABY, he just needs to grow up

kristenpaxton - Thursday, 19 June
I dont think you are being selfish at all. If you are ready and can handle having a baby thats your decision to make and if he doesnt like it id say leave him. Having a baby is the greatest blessing in life and i wouldnt give that up for anything or anyone. I hope things get better with your situation. Just remember that you and your son deserve better than what he is giving you right now. Maybe as the day gets closer he will "grow up" though. Thats what it took for my ex.

judi - Thursday, 19 June
I'd say give HIM up, not your precious baby. Adoption is a valuable option for a mother or parents who for some reason can't care for a baby, or really don't want it. But no-one can love your baby the way you can and do, and you are the best parent for him. His father? Maybe not...

This is the kind of stress you really don't need at this point, and if at all possible, give yourself some space. Move out? Kick him out? Right now, what you need is support, encouragement and caring. Definitely not his man's psychological abuse. Be strong. You can do this.

shia921 - Thursday, 19 June
There are couples out here who would give their life savings just to be able to bear a child. How dare he put that kind of stress on you and your baby. Stay prayerful, u and your baby will be fine.

haleyd226 - Thursday, 19 June
That must put you in hard situation, but you are carrying a child...he doesn't know what it's like and how bonded you get to it. He is the one being selfish....not you. You and your baby can make it and if he chooses to be in your life then great, but if not, it's his loss. Hang in there and keep your head up!

smjones - Thursday, 19 June
you know what, If a doctor ever told me I coudn't get pregnant and then I did, I would keep it regardless. I never give it up anyways!! that is a life, screw the guy who feels betrayed. did he not understand that having sex could make a baby??? hello, its not rocket science! what if it happens again? how many kids will you give up for a man? sorry if I'm being rude! I just can't believe a man would ever ask you to do such an extreme thing as having an abortion or giving your baby up for adoption just to apese him!!

michelles - Thursday, 19 June
just read your post in week 25 and just wanted to let you know that I think he is the one being a 'selfish bitch' not you. Who is he thinking of through all this? not you and not the baby, just him. not all babies are planned but when they come it's a miracle and you are so lucky to have been given this especially since they always said that it would never happen to you. don't let him take away the joy or the miracle of this event. if he doesn't want to be a part of it then he doesn't have to. there are a lot of men out there who would love to be a daddy and would treat a child and their loved one with respect and love, not fear and anger. if he talks to you like that how will he treat the baby? this is your time to enjoy what's happening in your life, don't let him ruin that. i hope i haven't said anything that would offend you, i just wanted you to know how lucky you are for what happened and if he can't realize that then it's his loss. i know relationships are hard and unpredicable changes make them even harder but think about if he is the one you want to build a life with. he's kicking you out of the house while you are six months pregnant, he doesn't sound very supportive. you are actually not being selfish at all, by keeping this baby you are living a more difficult path than if you were to give it up. but it's a path that is so worth it, especially when you see your son for the first time. i hope everything works out for the best.

michelle

lindsaylee - Thursday, 19 June
wow.well by the looks of your page you are excited to have this little boy.If you want this child keep him.A child is such a wonderful gift .If it is a bad situation and he is kicking you out then I'd move out.It takes 2 to get pregnant and by the sound of this d-bag he doesn't deserve to have a baby.I haven't been in your shoes exactly but I have had my fair share of ass kickings from a boyfriend who used to run me down.It's not the same situation but sometimes you have to do what is best for yourself (and your child).It's probably not going to be easy but I know you can do it!

Cinxia - Thursday, 19 June
It’s your body, and your baby, if You want the baby, keep him, don't let him control you. Men come and go, and though I don't know your full situation, please think about it before you do anything rash.
The fact that he wants you to choose him over his own baby, I’m sorry sweetheart, but that’s pretty sad, and he’s a sorry excuse for a real man. Any man that kicks out his pregnant girlfriend is a selfish A-hole in my opinion, and no man is worth the price of losing your child.

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