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smjones - Thursday, 19 June
you know what, If a doctor ever told me I coudn't get pregnant and then I did, I would keep it regardless. I never give it up anyways!! that is a life, screw the guy who feels betrayed. did he not understand that having sex could make a baby??? hello, its not rocket science! what if it happens again? how many kids will you give up for a man? sorry if I'm being rude! I just can't believe a man would ever ask you to do such an extreme thing as having an abortion or giving your baby up for adoption just to apese him!!

michelles - Thursday, 19 June
just read your post in week 25 and just wanted to let you know that I think he is the one being a 'selfish bitch' not you. Who is he thinking of through all this? not you and not the baby, just him. not all babies are planned but when they come it's a miracle and you are so lucky to have been given this especially since they always said that it would never happen to you. don't let him take away the joy or the miracle of this event. if he doesn't want to be a part of it then he doesn't have to. there are a lot of men out there who would love to be a daddy and would treat a child and their loved one with respect and love, not fear and anger. if he talks to you like that how will he treat the baby? this is your time to enjoy what's happening in your life, don't let him ruin that. i hope i haven't said anything that would offend you, i just wanted you to know how lucky you are for what happened and if he can't realize that then it's his loss. i know relationships are hard and unpredicable changes make them even harder but think about if he is the one you want to build a life with. he's kicking you out of the house while you are six months pregnant, he doesn't sound very supportive. you are actually not being selfish at all, by keeping this baby you are living a more difficult path than if you were to give it up. but it's a path that is so worth it, especially when you see your son for the first time. i hope everything works out for the best.

michelle

lindsaylee - Thursday, 19 June
wow.well by the looks of your page you are excited to have this little boy.If you want this child keep him.A child is such a wonderful gift .If it is a bad situation and he is kicking you out then I'd move out.It takes 2 to get pregnant and by the sound of this d-bag he doesn't deserve to have a baby.I haven't been in your shoes exactly but I have had my fair share of ass kickings from a boyfriend who used to run me down.It's not the same situation but sometimes you have to do what is best for yourself (and your child).It's probably not going to be easy but I know you can do it!

Cinxia - Thursday, 19 June
It’s your body, and your baby, if You want the baby, keep him, don't let him control you. Men come and go, and though I don't know your full situation, please think about it before you do anything rash.
The fact that he wants you to choose him over his own baby, I’m sorry sweetheart, but that’s pretty sad, and he’s a sorry excuse for a real man. Any man that kicks out his pregnant girlfriend is a selfish A-hole in my opinion, and no man is worth the price of losing your child.


shelley-rose - Thursday, 19 June
By the sound of it you are in a nasty situation. Do you really want to bring a child in to such a hostile environment. If I was you I would be putting my unborn childs needs first, get out of there and don't look back. You do not deserve to be treated like you have done something wrong, you have created a miracle! If he wants access to the child after that then its on your terms not his, don't let this childs life be ruined because he was not planned.

Sue23 - Thursday, 19 June
Wow just read ur msg i bet u feel lost dont u ur bf is abit harsh it takes 2 people 2 make a baby if u feel that ul b happy 2 bring ur baby up then be a mum n dont think about anyone else having some man say stuff like that are worth shit do what u feel is right im a single mum of one n one on theway its had but worth it

kerrienb - Thursday, 19 June
if thats his attitude then bo*****ks to him. im sure being a single mum is hard but this should be the happiest time of your life and he should be embracing it with u, tell him to get stuffed.

agonzales - Wednesday, 18 June
Read your post in week 25.. and I dont think your being selfish at all. If anything he is the one that is selfish. If you were told you arent able to conceive then how is it your fault. He shouldve been more cautious if he didnt want any kids. I say do what is right for you and if that means being a single mother then so be it. I was a single parent before and it was hard but I dont regret one bit of it. If he is treating you like that and kicking you out of the house for no reason then maybe yall should have a long talk about what he wants... you and baby or neither. Thats just what I think. Congrats, Good luck and take care!

rachel12401 - Wednesday, 18 June
sorry but in your case i think being a single mom would be the best just my opinion but i would not put up with that he sounds like he is controling and if he doesnt want ur baby than you raise the baby with out him...

angelfinx - Wednesday, 18 June
thank you!!

eza - Sunday, 15 June
Automatic update: eza added a new blog: Week 14 comes to and end!

niknak - Wednesday, 11 June
Automatic update: niknak added a new blog: One Flew Over the Cu-Cu\'s nest!

jcjd04 - Wednesday, 11 June
thanks and you do the same!!

eza - Sunday, 8 June


How have things been for you so far??
all the best!

mama moosie - Sunday, 1 June
Hi! Just thought I'd drop you a quick note and see how you're doing. Hope all is well!

carly4bump - Wednesday, 28 May
hiya, thanx for your comment, im finally finished lol.
im just to organised for my own gocd. ill make it drag in now its finished, lol im sure you will do an amazing job on ur nursery, it took me 3 months to get everything and place it all together.
best of luck with ur little one and once again thanx for the comment

mama moosie - Monday, 19 May
That's cool! I have him tattooed on my ankle! :) Hope all is going well with you!

mama moosie - Sunday, 18 May
Hi! Congrats on your pregnancy! I love your background/wallpaper...Eeyore's my favorite!!

agonzales - Friday, 16 May
Oh thanks!!

*Baby-Mine* - Thursday, 15 May
no problem! glad to help! good luck to you aswell!

*Baby-Mine* - Wednesday, 14 May
i hear bumper pads are fine, as long as they tie/ secure onto the rails.

aetyl - Wednesday, 14 May
Thank you so much for wishing me a HMD! My heart is about to burst with all the kind moms-to-be like yourself that wrote such nice notes.

Btw, the name you picked for your little boy is fantastic - it has a great ring to it! We are still struggling with our lists, but we'll find out the sex tomorrow so we'll be able to concentrate on 1 list.

Congratulations to you and your family and I hope you all is well!

daisymum2be - Sunday, 11 May
They cant really tell until at least 18wks or so though - how many weeks were you at the time? x

daisymum2be - Sunday, 11 May
 hey! i'd say girl but it's not really a clear picture! Didnt drink a gallon of water before your scan then, i'm guessing! lol When will you find out the sex? How's pregnancy going so far? x

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