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so i recently got married in sept with my 4 year boyfriend and about a week ago i find out im pregnant!now 6 weeks what a shock! i didnt even think it was a possibility since i had all period symptoms just like the first time.still dont know when it happened. i couldnt stop crying for about 4 days. i was so mad at my husband i blamed him of course. you see im 22 with a soon to be 3 year old this saturday and it was hard enough having her. i was enrolling back to university this january but i guess history repeats and i will again attend pregnant. I am now trying to get insurance after deciding im keeping it and it was super hard to try to have an abortion but paying for insurance is hard. i walked out of the place after my husband started crying. (first time ever i c him cry) I was very scared of having the same horrible pregnancy ihad before when i couldnt stop throwing up for 7 months and weighed 70lbs! luckily im feeling fine a lil naseous but once i eat im good. my mom is not very happy again and that is the main reason this has been really hard. maybe with her approval i could have been a little happy when i found out. sometimes i just wish god gave it to someone who really wanted it so many women trying to conceive but i guess things happen for a reason and he wants me to be 22 with 2 kids in a not so great relationship! but other than that im getting used to the idea and im actually researching more then i did the first time and today i saw my tiny bean baby 4 the first time as i needed to get proof of pregnancy for the insurance so it feels more real! im just a lil worried cuz i had been drinking on our honeymoon (though i got pregnant after) and had maybe 4 nights in total of heavy drinking.
NOV. 11TH 2007
so thanks to a wondeful magic pill my awful vomiting has eased thank god i dont want to be weiging 70lbs like i did the first time along with 7 months in the hospital so my due date is ironically the fathers birthday how crazy is dat!! i know its not exact my daughter was bron a day after her due date but just da fact is creepy
JANUARY 21
SO IM NOW AT MY MOMS SINCE LAST NIGHT I HAD TO GET AWAY FROM MY HOUSE I NEEDED A BREAK FROM HIM. I HAVE VERY LITTLE PATIENCE LATELY WHETHER ITS HORMONAL OR WHAT I CANT STAND HIM. DONT GET ME WRONG HE HELPS WITH OUR DAUGHTER A WHOLE LOT SO I COULD REST AND HE PICKS UP AROUND THE HOUSE BUT HIS CHOICE OF WORDS SOMETIMES ARE NOT THE GREATEST AND HE KEEPS ANNOYING ME WITH HIS NEEDS AND HOW HE NEEDS A HUG AND IS SO LONELY!! HA HA HE 4GETS IM THE PREGO AND ITS NOT ABOUT HIM FOR THE NEXT MONTHS ITS ABOUT ME SO I WARNED HIM I WAS LEAVING HE DECIDES TO KEEP HIS MOUTH RUNNING SO I GOT AWAY AND BOY IT FEELS GOOD THERES NOTHING LIKE UR MOTHER!
SO MY BABY WORRIES ME AS HE DOESNT MOVE MUCH I KNOW ITS A GOOD THING NOT HAVING THE PAINS I REMEMBER THE PAINS MY DAUGHTER WAS AN ENERGY BUNNY STILL IS EARLY ON BUT ITS JUST WEIRD. I FEEL PRESSURE AT TIMES BUT NOT CRAZY MOVEMENTS. HE JUST GETS ON MY LOWER SIDES AND BOTHERS ME THERE BUT DOESNT MOVE AROUND LETS HOPE HES JUST LAZY I GET MY U/S THIS THURSDAY AND DOCS APPT FRI. HOPEFULLY THE ABNORMALITY TEST IS ALL FINE EVERYTHING WORRIES ME LOL
About You
Name: Chabelz: 22..
Height: 5'3
Pre-pregnancy weight: 105lbs have lost 15 since
About The Father
Name: RAMIRO
Age: 23
Height: 5'8
About Your Pregnancy
Is this your first pregnancy: no
When did you find out you were pregnant: Oct 20 Was it planned: No
What was your first reaction: Total Shock.. Took 3 test all positve
Who was with you when you found out: the father
told: My mom the day aftef
How did your parents react: mad shocked
How far along are you: 18 weeks 3days
What was your first symptoms: Period symptoms (thats why i thought no way im not preg.. boobs hurt.. and i had cramps then the awful vomiting
What is your due date: June 20, 2008
Do you know the sex of the baby: a boy!
Have you picked out names?: Yes
If so, what are they: jaedan nathan
How much weight have you gained: none
Do you have stretch marks: No thank god
Have you felt the baby move: very little
Have you heard the heartbeat: yup very strong
About the birth
Will you keep the baby: Yes
Home or hospital birth: Hospital
Natural or medicated birth: hopefully natural and very well medicated those labor pains r no joke
Who will be in the delivery room with you: the father and 4 sure my mom
Will you breastfeed: ill try hopefully he doesnt want to i hate it
Do you think you'll need a c-section: HUGE FEAR!!!!
Will you cry when you hold the baby for the first time: maybe i dont think i did w/ my daughter i was happy it was over
What's the first thing you might say to him/her: ur out@!!!!
Would you let someone videotape the birth? yes i didnt the firt time
Are you excited about the birth, or scared: scared its gonna b a c-section
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mommalogan - Tuesday, 5 August
I had a c-section on June 30th and I was also very gassy afterward and I couldn't poop until 5 days later and the gas pains were so painful! Worse than the contractions! I feel better now, but what I did was drink a lot of water, eat a lot of fruit, walk, take gas relief pills, take colace which was a stol softner and that helped a lot. I also bled for a while. I just stpped bleeding on July 31st. You can bleed up to 6 weeks so don't worry unless its really heavy that you saking your pads then that's bad. Hope this helps.
raynbowmami - Monday, 16 June
Nope didn't have to wait the two weeks. Ryleigh had other plans.
. Fast is not the word. As soon as I can get through all these responses I'll post the birth story. Friday was one Wild day. 
madiraevin - Saturday, 14 June
I'M HAVING EARLY SIGNS OF LABOR!!! I'M SO EXCITED, BUT IN A LOT OF PAIN.... WENT TO L&D LAST NIGHT FOR 5 HOURS (2X THIS WEEK)CONTRACTIONS ARE VERY CONSISTENT, BUT NOT HARD ENOUGH. I'M OVER 3CM DILATED AND 80% EFFACED. MY DR IS A 'PLAY BY THE RULES' KINDA DOC AND WON'T INDUCE. EVEN THO I WAS PRETTY MUCH IN LABOR LAST NIGHT AND STILL FEELING IT TODAY. I'M NOW BLEEDING A LOT AND LOSING LOTS OF MUCUSY STUFF....THEY SAID THAT WAS NORMAL. CONTRACTIONS STILL AND HOLY COW!!!! BACK PAIN GALORE!!!!!
raynbowmami - Friday, 13 June
We'll see, she might just be messing with me. LOL
jaxwaqu - Friday, 13 June
good to know I'm not alone in hating my husband right now. Im just not feeling the support I need right now from him. Thank God for this site.
denee85 - Friday, 13 June
Good luck,hope everything goes smoothly for you:)
kandyseandbrandon - Thursday, 12 June
Thanks for the quick response!
madiraevin - Thursday, 12 June
evening primrose tablets are like a vitamin, at least that's where i found them. in the vitamin aisle at walgreens. i started by taking 5 in the morning and 5 in the afternoon (10 a day) and now i'm just taking 5 in the A.M. there's only like 100 capsules, so they went quick...
Hot-Mom- - Thursday, 12 June
I started taking the primrose oil 1 week ago and went from nothing to 1 cm and 50% in less than a week. I take 3 (500 mg) tabs each day orally and 1 vaginally at night. Seems to be working tho. Also taking black cohosh which is suppose to make any contractions u are having stronger. I take 2 of those orally each day. Hope this helps!
denee85 - Thursday, 12 June
I posted a response to your question in the 39 week forum...I meant to say you can take 2 EPO orally and 2 Vaginally...I took them with my first baby and I progressed pretty well...This time around I think I'm gonna have to up my dose a little or just let my little guy take his ol' sweet time!
madiraevin - Thursday, 12 June
have you tried taking evening primrose oil tablets? i went to the dr last monday and my cervix was still 4 and hard!!! i started taking the tablets the day after (6-10 a day) and as of yesterday i am now 3cm dilated and 50% effaced. they don't bring on labor, but they help to soften your cervix. also, i walk a lot. so obviously something i'm doing is working!!!
also, the midwife said that she could feel baby's head.... good luck! heathert - Wednesday, 11 June
I thought they usually told you to walk to progress your labor, strange. Good luck and hopefully soon.
x..lindz..x - Tuesday, 10 June
Ooh.. thanks =] eeee i can't wait for baby to be hereee!
raynbowmami - Tuesday, 10 June
Well now he's saying we do need a motor for the AC even though it's working. I'm confused. I just hope it holds up over the next 2 weeks while my sisters are here.
boyOboy - Tuesday, 10 June
Unfortunately no. Maybe i'm not doing it right. I haven't done it as much as they say to though. They say to do it every 2-4 hours and I maybe do it once or twice a day.
x..lindz..x - Tuesday, 10 June
I'm gonna go for the epidural, needles don't bother me that much..I'm just a bit wary about it because my sister had an epidural with her 2nd, and they left her holding the baby for about 4 hours and she was desperate to sleep, and they were too busy to put him down for her, as she couldn't move due to numbness :O
I hope the level of care is better at the hospital I'm going to.. :o x..lindz..x - Monday, 9 June
Good luck =] My sisters waiting on news too, cause she's gonna get a train to see me when im in labour :D My best friends mobile decided to break aswell, just my luck. You having a hospital birth then? Pain relief or not? :) I think I'm gonna go for an epidural, my pain threshold is very low :[ hope things speed up soon!
baby3Terri - Monday, 9 June
I say if doc say go get check out... then listen to hima dn get checked out.
better to be safe thatn sorry.
raebabe - Monday, 9 June
Yeah, I basically told myself that real labor will come and smack me in the face! No questions asked!! Haha. I was just hoping that was it. I knew I wasn't feeling enough pain to be in real labor. After that day I have been so upset that I have not had this baby yet :( Our time will come....eventually!
raebabe - Monday, 9 June
I would wait it out if I were you... I had the same exact thing last week one night AND I was having contractions that were 2-3 minutes apart. I thought for sure it was time. They went away after about an hour. I had an appt the next day and nothing has changed! I'm pretty much going to wait it out until my water breaks for I have MAD contractions 2-3 minutes apart for more than an hour. Listen to your body.....if you think something is wrong then call or go in. Good luck and I hope it's your time!!!
shk0910 - Monday, 9 June
My daughter is very curious too. She tries to sneak in when he's going and she laughs and laughs. I just simply explain that boys and girls are made differently. I use the correct termonology for our body parts and tell her why daddy pees different than mommy. She just makes a funny face and goes on about her business.
yari - Monday, 9 June
Hi, I have a 5 year old who has 2 older brothers. I have no idea how to answer your question lol. She did the same thing and would say how she needs to stand to pee, I just kept stating that girls and boys pee differently, and she needs to sit. Never went into any tantrum or anything she was just always wanting to do it a different way. We don't leave doors open in our house though, even the kids close but don't lock...she learned it from oh so openminded daycare =)
spifftiff88 - Tuesday, 3 June
I have been having cramps practically all day now for the past few days and shooting pains in the vag area, and sometimes the BUTT, it really hurts and is uncomfortable, I just assume it's normal, not sure what it is?
madiraevin - Tuesday, 3 June
well, good luck!
froggy - Tuesday, 3 June
i would just call my doc. mine told me not to worry untill contractions are 3-5min apart for 2 hours, or my water breaks.
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