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so i recently got married in sept with my 4 year boyfriend and about a week ago i find out im pregnant!now 6 weeks what a shock! i didnt even think it was a possibility since i had all period symptoms just like the first time.still dont know when it happened. i couldnt stop crying for about 4 days. i was so mad at my husband i blamed him of course. you see im 22 with a soon to be 3 year old this saturday and it was hard enough having her. i was enrolling back to university this january but i guess history repeats and i will again attend pregnant. I am now trying to get insurance after deciding im keeping it and it was super hard to try to have an abortion but paying for insurance is hard. i walked out of the place after my husband started crying. (first time ever i c him cry) I was very scared of having the same horrible pregnancy ihad before when i couldnt stop throwing up for 7 months and weighed 70lbs! luckily im feeling fine a lil naseous but once i eat im good. my mom is not very happy again and that is the main reason this has been really hard. maybe with her approval i could have been a little happy when i found out. sometimes i just wish god gave it to someone who really wanted it so many women trying to conceive but i guess things happen for a reason and he wants me to be 22 with 2 kids in a not so great relationship! but other than that im getting used to the idea and im actually researching more then i did the first time and today i saw my tiny bean baby 4 the first time as i needed to get proof of pregnancy for the insurance so it feels more real! im just a lil worried cuz i had been drinking on our honeymoon (though i got pregnant after) and had maybe 4 nights in total of heavy drinking.

NOV. 11TH 2007

so thanks to a wondeful magic pill my awful vomiting has eased thank god i dont want to be weiging 70lbs like i did the first time along with 7 months in the hospital so my due date is ironically the fathers birthday how crazy is dat!! i know its not exact my daughter was bron a day after her due date but just da fact is creepy

JANUARY 21

SO IM NOW AT MY MOMS SINCE LAST NIGHT I HAD TO GET AWAY FROM MY HOUSE I NEEDED A BREAK FROM HIM. I HAVE VERY LITTLE PATIENCE LATELY WHETHER ITS HORMONAL OR WHAT I CANT STAND HIM. DONT GET ME WRONG HE HELPS WITH OUR DAUGHTER A WHOLE LOT SO I COULD REST AND HE PICKS UP AROUND THE HOUSE BUT HIS CHOICE OF WORDS SOMETIMES ARE NOT THE GREATEST AND HE KEEPS ANNOYING ME WITH HIS NEEDS AND HOW HE NEEDS A HUG AND IS SO LONELY!! HA HA HE 4GETS IM THE PREGO AND ITS NOT ABOUT HIM FOR THE NEXT MONTHS ITS ABOUT ME SO I WARNED HIM I WAS LEAVING HE DECIDES TO KEEP HIS MOUTH RUNNING SO I GOT AWAY AND BOY IT FEELS GOOD THERES NOTHING LIKE UR MOTHER!

SO MY BABY WORRIES ME AS HE DOESNT MOVE MUCH I KNOW ITS A GOOD THING NOT HAVING THE PAINS I REMEMBER THE PAINS MY DAUGHTER WAS AN ENERGY BUNNY STILL IS EARLY ON BUT ITS JUST WEIRD. I FEEL PRESSURE AT TIMES BUT NOT CRAZY MOVEMENTS. HE JUST GETS ON MY LOWER SIDES AND BOTHERS ME THERE BUT DOESNT MOVE AROUND LETS HOPE HES JUST LAZY I GET MY U/S THIS THURSDAY AND DOCS APPT FRI. HOPEFULLY THE ABNORMALITY TEST IS ALL FINE EVERYTHING WORRIES ME LOL

About You
Name: Chabelz
: 22..
Height: 5'3
Pre-pregnancy weight: 105lbs have lost 15 since

About The Father
Name: RAMIRO
Age: 23
Height: 5'8

About Your Pregnancy
Is this your first pregnancy: no
When did you find out you were pregnant: Oct 20
Was it planned: No
What was your first reaction: Total Shock.. Took 3 test all positve
Who was with you when you found out: the father

told: My mom the day aftef
How did your parents react: mad shocked

How far along are you: 18 weeks 3days
What was your first symptoms: Period symptoms (thats why i thought no way im not preg.. boobs hurt.. and i had cramps then the awful vomiting
What is your due date: June 20, 2008
Do you know the sex of the baby: a boy!

Have you picked out names?: Yes
If so, what are they: jaedan nathan
How much weight have you gained: none
Do you have stretch marks: No thank god
Have you felt the baby move: very little
Have you heard the heartbeat: yup very strong

About the birth
Will you keep the baby: Yes
Home or hospital birth: Hospital
Natural or medicated birth: hopefully natural and very well medicated those labor pains r no joke
Who will be in the delivery room with you: the father and 4 sure my mom
Will you breastfeed: ill try hopefully he doesnt want to i hate it
Do you think you'll need a c-section: HUGE FEAR!!!!

Will you cry when you hold the baby for the first time: maybe i dont think i did w/ my daughter i was happy it was over
What's the first thing you might say to him/her: ur out@!!!!
Would you let someone videotape the birth? yes i didnt the firt time
Are you excited about the birth, or scared: scared its gonna b a c-section



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spifftiff88 - Tuesday, 3 June
I have been having cramps practically all day now for the past few days and shooting pains in the vag area, and sometimes the BUTT, it really hurts and is uncomfortable, I just assume it's normal, not sure what it is?


madiraevin - Tuesday, 3 June
well, good luck!


froggy - Tuesday, 3 June
i would just call my doc. mine told me not to worry untill contractions are 3-5min apart for 2 hours, or my water breaks.


simpers17 - Tuesday, 3 June
Have you been checked lately? I was checked last wed and friday moring I went to the potty and a thick brownish blob came out. It was my mucas plug. And the next few potty times it lightened up and was a clear stringy blob. Just like the pic. My doc said sometimes after you are checked it can cause you to lose your mp. But as long as you are not having contractions close together and your water didn't break or you are not bleeding constantly you are okay. The process of labor is starting. Congrats baby will be here soon.


madiraevin - Tuesday, 3 June
i would call the dr. sometimes losing your plug can mean that you're minutes, hours, or days away from birth. you never know....maybe this is the beginning of your little miracle?


Leahsoon2bemom - Friday, 2 May
Yeah, its very confusing. I have read that it's round ligament stretching but then if you have more tha 4 of these period like cramps in a hour contact your health care provider. I am having insurance problems right now, just really agervated with this whole thing. I am very ready to be a mom and not be pregnant!


jess84 - Friday, 25 April
hi, read about the problem down there you were tlaking about. Ive had 2 since this pregnancy and its so annoying, the discharge and itching. Urghhh something that my doc said to do once in a while etleast once a week to prevent irritation or more problems coming back is to eat yogurt. just a suggestion...


MommyJewels - Saturday, 23 Feb
I'm sorry! Hang in there...I'm here if you ever want to talk. I got married in September as well. Luckily our photographer is a good friend so he was able to drop off all the photos to me so I would have them. I haven't been able to change my name legally which makes me so sad. HG'ers have a tough time...we will get through this though:)


MommyJewels - Friday, 8 Feb
Hi you! I saw your post in the HG forum. I am so sorry. I am almost 24 weeks and still have HG after six medications, Zofran pump, home IV's and a pICC line. I do hope that you feel better. I am here if you need anything!


cgmomtobe - Saturday, 2 Feb
im having the same problem with medications not working-phenergan did seem to work the best though made it so i was only sick about 5 times a day. the thing that worked best for me was last week i was admitted into the hospital for 5 days of iv treatment with phenergan added to the iv. after the 5 days of that, the pills are seeming to stay down better at home! hospital stays are no fun... but if it works it may be something you want to try. good luck!


bebebump - Tuesday, 22 Jan
ITS A GIRL!!


wmpgurl8604 - Monday, 21 Jan
Congratz on your pregnancy.


thebigtomato - Sunday, 6 Jan
Congrats on finding out it's a boy! I wish you the best! :)


bebebump - Sunday, 6 Jan
Congrats! i think im having a boy too. i dunno why i just do.


bebebump - Sunday, 6 Jan
Congrats! i think im having a boy too. i dunno why i just do.


teenMOMMIE - Thursday, 20 Dec
i was in and out of the hospital for dehydration and throwing up. not much fun. they gave me shots in my butt, but it was strong enough so i had to get more. kinda sucked


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