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cruzinbelle - Thursday, 28 Feb
I know exactly how you feel! I had my baby 2 months ago, and I'm still healing after having to have my stitches removed and re opened so they could sew me back together again the right way. Since them I'm constantly contipated as I'm to scared to go to the toilet in case I tear them again and I'm terrified each time I look in the mirror in case something has gone wrong. Sex?? Well I normally have a high libido, but it has disappeared cause I just feel that my partner won't like it... I definately want a c/s next time if I have more children!!

bonnieheather - Wednesday, 27 Feb
hi there i had problems for a long long time after a badly stitched fantoosh!

keep on at your docs and change if necessary i have now been offered reconstruction as they have finally admitted after 7 years that something is not quite right.. do not wait this long!!! if you are not happy just keep going back check with a mirror, note on a day to day basis any problems it helps when at the docs office (i usually just burst into tears!!) i promise it will get better for you. i was advised to put a few drops of lavender oil in the bath to help me heal its also very good for the pain, i hopt you feel better soon. x

susie123 - Wednesday, 27 Feb
I had episiotomy done during my labor. It has been six weeks and I was wondering why my butt still hurts at times when I sit. I went back to my oby/gyn and she told me she sewed on the skin of my vagina by mistake, so I had to wait to heal for another two weeks. It is very painful to have sex, and now I kind of have a phobia when my husband asked me for sex. After more than two months, I had the courage to touch the stitches part and my butt, I discovered that there is a peanut-size thing sticking at the perineum. I asked my doctor and she said it is hemorrhoids and that the hemorrhoids will always be there. I knew that my hemorrhoids already healed, and I knew that this peanut-size flesh is not part of the anus, and is not hemorrhoids, so I went to my provider, and have her inspect it, she said I still have some inflammation on the part that got stitched, and that the peanut size flesh is a submucosa. When the oby/gyn doctor stitched me up, that part was kind of like a left over piece. That part has been tender, and sensitive, and I really do not know if I need a get a second opinion and have that part fixed. I am so afraid of surgery, but that submucosa sticking out really worries me a lot. I don't know if that submucosa is part of what is causing the pain during sex. I am still observing and will go back to my provider after one month. I wonder if I should have asked for a caesarean so I did not have to deal with all these things - the oby/gyn screwing up with the stithces, hemorrhoids, and that submucosa sticking out from the perineum. I wonder if there is anybody who has the same experience as I have. I wanted to have a second child, but now I am so afraid to get pregnant again because of this experience.

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