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tabathan
Age: 25
Country: US
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City: Chincoteague
Partner: Jeff
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3/ 26/ 08

6 months!

It's hard to believe that my little joy has been here with me for 6 whole months! It feels like yesterday when I first looked upon his beautiful face.

My son is very healthy. He is 27 inches long and 24.5 lbs at the last dr's appointment. Hes such a happy boy and I am so happy to be his mommy!

It's a boy. Gio' vanni Bonerhes

pronounced: Ben ear as

June 8, 2007

Hello, I am Tabatha, 25, I am married to the most wonderful man, Jeff. We live in Hampton Roads Virginia and our expecting our first baby. Our little boy is due September 18, 2007. As the time draws closer I get scared for I have never held a baby, changed a diaper, or had anything to do with a baby before. So far I have had 2 ultrasounds and everything looked good. I have declined all the testing to see if the baby had anything to this point. I don’t want to know I am going to love my son regardless, so I don’t want to spend the rest of my pregnancy worrying about downs or c.f. or anything. Jeff and I had tried for years to get pregnant, but the doctors told me that I don’t ovulate so I could never get pregnant. Last year I choose to start using birth control because I was in Iraq and sleeping in a tent with 13 other females really throws your cycle off, so I wanted to regulate. I ended up pregnant! At first I was scared and upset because it really wasn’t the time nor place but now I am very excited. I didn’t allow myself to think about it at all till later in the pregnancy since I’ve been pregnant twice before, in 2005 we lost a set of twins and a few years before I had lost another angel. Sometimes I get so scared about being a mommy, I feel so young and so unprepared for all of this. I know a lot of younger women do it but this happened at a really bad time for us. We are making it all work though and I know in the end it will be worth it. We had names chosen for a boy and for a girl the last ultrasound said it was a boy so Gio’ vanni Bonerhes is his name. We choose Bonerhes because that was the hubby’s late fathers name. We live in Va, my choice, but right now it stinks, I am kind of lonely I have no family near me, I don’t know but 2 people, and my husband works a ton. I spend all day everyday with my two dogs Fate (Boston Terrier) and Nadia (Pittbull).

June 11, 2007

This weekend was really great, Jeff had Sunday off and we went to the beach to collect sea glass for the baby's lamp. We don't have enough yet but we still have a few more months to get there. Then we laid on the sofa and watched Law and Order most of the day, he cooked dinner, and we went for another walk. My back hurts so bad now, I've found that walking helps to relieve the pressure. While we were walking the beach I was thinking there is so little time left before my baby comes. This pregnancy has been progressing so quickly, it really don't feel like I've come this far. I start getting scared about the baby maybe coming early and such. I know they are premature unwarrented worries. I can't believe I am having my own baby. Man he has been moving like crazy lately. I hope he's a good boy. They say your kids are worse than you were- that scares the crap out of me! lol. I can't wait to see my little angel but part of me just wants to stay pregnant forever.

19 June 2007

So today is my first day of week 27 most of the websites say this is also my first day of my 3rd trimester- this site don't though? Hmm wonder which is right. It's really scary knowing I am this far and so not ready for bub to make his appearance yet. I am rather excited about him but still very scared. My next dr's appointment is on Thursday the 21 I hope all is still well in there. I am going to start calling around to figure out where I want to do my 3d/ 4d u/s I want one I just wanted to wait until at least 28 weeks- the baby's I saw at 28 weeks looked so good so I decided I wanted there or after. They are kind of expensive so I only plan on one. I've had 2 us's to this point and 2 more coming with my dr. us's are one thing my insurance dosen't cover period so I have to pay for each one of them. But that isn't so bad, I am rather happy with my insurance I can't believe how great they are. I wonder what my baby will look like, will he have blonde hair and blue eyes like me, black hair and dark skin like daddy, or a mix somewhere in the middle? It's silly but it feels so weird not knowing what you baby is going to look like, not seeing him, yet knowing he is there. I did some work in the nursery over the weekend the only thing left really is to clean it up- and if we can put new carpet in before he gets here. I am very happy with the nursery we could have went with one of the ones that have all the stuff done for it but we choose finding nemo and they don't really have much for a nursery in that scheme so we made due and boy does it look awesome. I hope bub enjoys the ocean and outdoors as much as daddy and I do.

I am feeling pretty good, lately I've been so low on energy then I feel really sore on top of that it don't make me very eager to get any housework or anything else done for that matter. All I want to do is sleep. I need to force myself to be productive. My back and rib cage are still killing me. The maternity belt helps my lower back a ton. My butt hurts and so do my upper thighs I think it's from sleeping on my side but I feel so stiff it is hard to walk at times. hmm. lol I hope everyone else is doing well.

June 21, 2007

Dr.'s appt. went well today, the dr. said I gained to much weight (big surprise lol), belly still measures well, the heartbeat is 156 bpm. I was supposed to have the gestitational diabeties test today but I had asked for an afternoon appointment and they didn't relieze it but it was about time to close so I am waiting till 29 weeks for it.

July 3, 2007

Well yesterday was another day spent with the dr. lol. hb was between the 150-160 he was moving a lot. I can't really feel it inside anymore but you could hear it on the doppler and the dr said he was just a pushing back on her hands. I find it to be funny cause I didn't feel any of it at all. I know that he was because when I put my hand down there I can feel it but it makes me so nervous cause a couple weeks ago I could feel every movement inside my belly. hmm. I took the test for the gestational diabetes the drink was actually pretty good. I guess because I was scared to drink it thinking it would be awful. It tasted sort of like crystal light would with a cherry sort of taste. It wasn't bad and my belly never hurt or anything.. Let ya know the results in 2 weeks.

July 19, 2007

Well, today was great, we had our 3d/4d ultrasound. It was AMAZING we could see Gio' Vanni sucking his thumb, sticking out his tongue, chewing, pointing at us, flexing his arm, and he kept showing us his "boy parts". We got wonderful pictures I posted here. Than, we had our dr's appointment and I don't have gestational diabetes, thank god we were very worried! His heart beat was 136 oh on the u/s we could see the blood flowing through the heart! The dr said we had a very large healthy baby.

August 02,2007

Today we went to the dr. Lil' G's hb was in the 150's, I weighed 185 lbs (man I put on a ton of weight) , and everything seemed good. Next appt 2 weeks then we move to every week. Man there is so much to do and my baby will be here so soon!

August 16, 2006

Dr. yesterday hb was in the 140's, I weighed 191 lbs (200 here I come!), did the strep b test. Next appointment 1 week. Swelling is awful my feet are huge and hurt... I've dropped some... I am huge having lots of new discomforts.... take care..

35 weeks/ august 14None pregnancy related really...

Things that make you sick:

steak, & scrambled eggs

Boy or girl:

boy

Babys name:

Gio'vanni Bonerhes

Advice for other pregnant women:

Don't focus on the aches and pains enjoy the pleasures..

Baby Daddy:

Jeff

His reaction:

Initallly shock and disbelief

Greatest memory so far:

How great Jeff is with the pregnancy

Biggest fear:

Labor & Delivery

Strange symptoms:

Advantages of being pregnant:

Umm.. you don't need to worry about how you look or that extra pound.

Weird dreams:

Some

Emotional outbursts:

Nope not really been pretty stable. I was "lonely" for a little while

Breast changes:

Sore stayed same size etc..

Waist changes:

waist? I have one?? I can't see it anyway...

Things you quit for baby:

Smoking & diet pepsi..

Most uncomfortable time:

nights

Worst part of being pregnant:

Best place for maternity clothes: ?????

being ugly... lol.. Being big and there really isn't cute clothes and I do not feel sexy at all! I haven't found a good place. Burlington is the best but even they are lacking.

Taking parenting classes:

Yes Wends & Thurs

Pregnancy necessities:

Extra Pillows, foot soak, a great partner

Grandparents reaction:

All of our family was happy

Aunts? Uncles?:

1 uncle my side, 1 aunt & 2 uncles hubbys side

Godparents:

undecided

Where will you deliver:

Mary View Med. Cntr

When:

When he decides to come... due date is 9/18

Will you breastfeed:

yes

Will you use cloth diapers:

going to try them in conjunction with disposables.. if not they will be burp clothes.

How far along are you:

Cravings so far:


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surprisemom - Wednesday, 1 Aug
Tabatha, Saw your new pics. I hope I get to have a 3D ultrasound. How are you feeling? Anything more happen with the preterm labor? Think you will go early or hang on til the end?


niki - Monday, 30 Jul
Oh you only have 8 weeks to go... hows it going with you and the little one? take care x


surprisemom - Tuesday, 24 Jul
Preterm labor, wow. Does that scare you? I was in WalMart the other day and just felt my stomach contract so tight, we had to leave the store. I wanted to use one of those wheelchair scooters to get to the car but managed to walk out. It was so embarassing! Doc thinks the baby may have been turning and got stuck in a weird position. Healthwise though i am feeling pretty good. Lost 2 lbs so far on the diabetic diet even though it feels like i am eating all the time. We move into our new place in a week. Can't wait! You hang in there and lie on your left side as much as possible.


shannong - Monday, 23 Jul
I was freaked out - but the dr. said that it was okay because they don't always find it from the outside at this point, so she took us to ultrasound and it was in there, totally fine! Which was good! 42 weeks?! No way!! I usually put myself into labor at least one week prior to my due date. Get that baby outta there!!


yellowrosebunny - Monday, 23 Jul
Hi, I just got back from Hawaii Thursday and while I was there my computer crashed. I just received it Saturday. I'm doing great. I over did it on vacation. I was on antibiotics and in the sun and walked a lot. Of Course I got sick. LOL. We still had fun. I'm finaly gaining weight and my tummy is getting big. Oh yea I found out last week that my sister is pregnant. She is due March 1st. I'm finaly going to be an Aunt. Everything is good here. How have you been doing? How exciting to see Gio;Vanni on the 3d. My appt is Aug 18 my b-day. Hopefully he will show us as much charater as yours. :-> I'm glad everything worked out good for you. Have fun, Emily


shannong - Monday, 23 Jul
Yeah, I am feeling good and I had my dr. appt. and everything is fine. They couldn't find the hb, but then did an us and I saw it. It was good. So I am going to try not to worry so much. I can't believe I am 13 weeks already! It's nuts! How fun that you are going to maybe go early, that is great!


gennyfer - Saturday, 21 Jul
Hello, How are you doing? Im doing good babies doing good, Oh but they have me on bed rest now im tottally bummed. Its because my BP test came back too close to call. Oh how i can't stand it.When are they thinking about delivery the baby? Im suppose to have a ultra sound in 6 weeks or so and they pretty much told me the same thing. If the baby is to big that i would have to deliver at about 37 weeks.Its like as soon as i stepped into my third trimester everything just started up. Goodness! hope all is well, ttyl


liz82 - Friday, 20 Jul
congrats on you baby boy . best wishes . i bet he is going to handsome .


surprisemom - Thursday, 19 Jul
Hey girl, it's been a bit, as i have been very busy getting ready to move. We will be moving the last week of July and i have been buying furniture, decorations, arranging utilities, you name it! But all this has had a positive effect. Doc also discovered I had low iron count and since i hve been on iron, my funk has definitely lifted. Iron and i have been following a diabetic diet which also seems to be helping with my moods. (I failed the 1 hr. glucose, but was scared to drink all that sugar for the 3 hour, so they just went ahead and started treating me for Gestational Diabetes.)ANyway, hope this finds you well and happy. Getting close, isn't it?! Only 2 mons. to go. We're in the homestretch.


gennyfer - Friday, 13 Jul
Hey there just thought i'd stop by to see how you and the baby where doing. Hope all is well God bless


shannong - Friday, 13 Jul
Thanks! They are our angels and we love them to death! But that is why we want a boy! Two girls is a handful - believe me! So did your symptoms disappear? I only have the going to the potty all of the time going on. Other than that, I am feeling oddly great. It's weird. Do you think I should call the dr?


andreag - Thursday, 12 Jul
I like your tat's going down your leg.


andreag - Thursday, 12 Jul
I'm glad that it helped you... I was worried because I drink 1 32 oz fountain diet dr pepper a day sometimes two (depends on my mood)...I talked with the docs and they said that little of that nutrasweet gets to the baby so it is safe to drink.


surprisemom - Thursday, 12 Jul
Well I couldn't believe it but my sugar test results were elevated. They wanted to do the 3 hour test, but in order to do it they wanted me to eat a ton of sugar and carbs for 3 days straight. Doc said it was to condition my body for processing a high amount of sugar but it freaked me out so I said NO WAY. Doc said ok then we are gonna treat you like a gestational diabetic, so I said sure why not. (I was not gonna eat all that sugar after I had worked really hard to keep my weight gain for the month to just 4 pounds. Seemed unusual to me.) Long story short, I got my glucometer yesterday and turns out my routine sugars are too LOW, not too high. That may account for why I had been feeling so depressed, confused, etc. So now I am following the diet plan for GD but it is actually increasing the carbs I was eating which is making me feel better and I can finally sleep again. Yeah! Oh, and hubby and I found an apartment. We are so excited. Move in day is August 1. Yesterday, we got a new bedroom suite, a set of tables for the living room and a new dining set, too. I am decorating in my head until Aug. 1 comes. Our prenatal classes start Aug. 4. By then though, my hubby will be on 3rd shift so that'll probably mess up our schedule too! Can't believe you are in week 30. I had thought I was a bit further along, but I'm 2 weeks behind you. Keep me posted on your progress. And be sure and get good rest!


andreag - Tuesday, 10 Jul
Thanks for your comments, in response to drinking diet. I just read that it is save to drink. Here is what I found: Expert: Russell Turk, Russell Turk, M.D., OB/GYN and founder of the Riverside Obstetrics & Gynecology in Riverside, CT Diet sodas often contain both caffeine and an artificial sweetener. Aspartame (NutraSweet) -- the most common sweetener -- seems to be okay when consumed in moderation (the amount found in one or two 12-oz servings of soda per day). Certain other sweeteners, such as saccharin, have actually been found to cause birth defects when consumed in very high amounts by laboratory rats. Because the safety of this product in smaller amounts is hard to prove, I would advise avoiding it. Sucralose (Splenda), a modification of regular table sugar appears to be safe, but because this new sweetener hasn't been extensively studied, it's best used in moderation. AND Expert: Jeff Hampl, registered dietitian and professor, Arizona State University, Mesa, AZ Most diet sodas are made with aspartame (i.e., Nutrasweet or Equal), which is approved by the Food and Drug Association (FDA) as safe for pregnant women. There's a whole lot of buzz out there about the risks associated with aspartame, but not much documented fact. But the FDA weighed all the evidence and said pregnant women can safely consume aspartame and that it does not get through the placental barrier to the fetus. The one group of women who should not have aspartame is those with the disease phenylketonuria or PKU because they aren't able to digest it.....But I'm going to also talk with my doc tomorrow.


surprisemom - Sunday, 8 Jul
Hope this finds you well and happy. Sorry about your 4th. Mine was pretty good. Am feeling better. Have a doc appt on Monday. Keeping busy! that's the key.


yellowrosebunny - Saturday, 7 Jul
Hello. It's good to see your doing great. The glucose test is not so bad, just boring. 3 hours of nothing to do. Well aleast 12 years ago there was nothing to do. I guess now I can take my son's game boy or my computer with me. LOL Take care. Emily


shannong - Thursday, 5 Jul
Wow, sounds like you are a busy girl! That is a long trip for a shower! My goodness! That is funny that you are going to your suprise shower and you know about it!! Did she just tell you to act suprised? It's been so dry here that we haven't had to mow the lawn since like almost 2 weeks ago. And my hubby does that, so I am not a part of it at all. I am jealous b/c they are all at home (probably still sleeping!!) and I had to come to work today! I am exhausted!! I wish I was at home sleeping! Geez! I have exactly two weeks until my next appt. and I think in the beginning you want time to go faster and then towards the middle/end you freak out a bit. It will be great. You will be so glad once you have your little peanut. I feel awful wishing my life away and wanting it to be 2008! Sounds like adoption is a family thing for you guys, that is so great! I can't imagine giving my baby up for adoption, but there are so many great families out there that deserve to have kids and cannot. I have thought about being a surrogate mother before because I love being pregnant (well, not right now, but in general!) and my hubby says no. So that stinks. This will be the last time I am ever pregnant. He's getting a vasectomy while I am pregnant, we're just waiting to get past the first trimester to make sure everything sticks. Then, it's go time! Poor baby, he's so scared! We are in the process of looking for a house and we need a new car because ours are too small for three kids. So that is fun. Lots of expenses in the next few months! Hope you are feeling great (besides getting nervous for your delivery date!) I am doing okay, other than being tired. Talk to you soon!


surprisemom - Thursday, 5 Jul
With all the work you just described having done, girl you are in nesting mode big time! I am heading in that direction. Since we are living with my mom there will be no major remodeling, however, had a big discussion about moving things around in our part of the house and buying baby furniture and stuff. Our classes start soon too and today I'll be on the hunt for local La Leche League groups for breastfeeding information. Did you have a good 4th? We went and saw the local fireworks and had family over to eat.


shannong - Tuesday, 3 Jul
You are out of control! You have so much going on! I can't even stand to do anything right now! I love that you are so active and so passionate about kids. This will be #3 for us and we are DONE! Working full time and raising kids is too hard! I am feeling a lot better, I don't know if it's because I am past the naseau or what, but I am super excited that I am feeling better. It's totally raining here and I wish I were at home! I still have an hour left of work. Yuck! I have 17 days until my next appt and it's so hard to wait! I wish I could find a time machine and fast forward!!!




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34 wks gross... (2007, 08, 14) My little angel (2007, 07, 20) Is there any lap left? (2007, 09, 06) Big Belly! (2007, 08, 14) 38 weeks (2007, 09, 06) 28 weeks with my other baby  (2007, 06, 29) Jeff & I 33 weeks (2007, 08, 02) 38 weeks (2007, 09, 06) SLIGHTLY SWOLLEN FEET (2007, 09, 06) It`s a boy (2007, 07, 20) Gio` Vanni (2007, 09, 19) Gio` Vanni and Mommy (2007, 09, 19) 35 Weeks (2007, 08, 16) Baby Gio`vanni (2007, 07, 20) 33 Weeks (2007, 08, 02) Big Foot!! (2007, 07, 20) 31 weeks... (2007, 07, 31) Click here to see all TabathaN`s photos

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