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tabathan
Age: 25
Country: US
Province/region: Virginia
City: Chincoteague
Partner: Jeff
Children: Yes, 1
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3/ 26/ 08

6 months!

It's hard to believe that my little joy has been here with me for 6 whole months! It feels like yesterday when I first looked upon his beautiful face.

My son is very healthy. He is 27 inches long and 24.5 lbs at the last dr's appointment. Hes such a happy boy and I am so happy to be his mommy!

It's a boy. Gio' vanni Bonerhes

pronounced: Ben ear as

June 8, 2007

Hello, I am Tabatha, 25, I am married to the most wonderful man, Jeff. We live in Hampton Roads Virginia and our expecting our first baby. Our little boy is due September 18, 2007. As the time draws closer I get scared for I have never held a baby, changed a diaper, or had anything to do with a baby before. So far I have had 2 ultrasounds and everything looked good. I have declined all the testing to see if the baby had anything to this point. I don’t want to know I am going to love my son regardless, so I don’t want to spend the rest of my pregnancy worrying about downs or c.f. or anything. Jeff and I had tried for years to get pregnant, but the doctors told me that I don’t ovulate so I could never get pregnant. Last year I choose to start using birth control because I was in Iraq and sleeping in a tent with 13 other females really throws your cycle off, so I wanted to regulate. I ended up pregnant! At first I was scared and upset because it really wasn’t the time nor place but now I am very excited. I didn’t allow myself to think about it at all till later in the pregnancy since I’ve been pregnant twice before, in 2005 we lost a set of twins and a few years before I had lost another angel. Sometimes I get so scared about being a mommy, I feel so young and so unprepared for all of this. I know a lot of younger women do it but this happened at a really bad time for us. We are making it all work though and I know in the end it will be worth it. We had names chosen for a boy and for a girl the last ultrasound said it was a boy so Gio’ vanni Bonerhes is his name. We choose Bonerhes because that was the hubby’s late fathers name. We live in Va, my choice, but right now it stinks, I am kind of lonely I have no family near me, I don’t know but 2 people, and my husband works a ton. I spend all day everyday with my two dogs Fate (Boston Terrier) and Nadia (Pittbull).

June 11, 2007

This weekend was really great, Jeff had Sunday off and we went to the beach to collect sea glass for the baby's lamp. We don't have enough yet but we still have a few more months to get there. Then we laid on the sofa and watched Law and Order most of the day, he cooked dinner, and we went for another walk. My back hurts so bad now, I've found that walking helps to relieve the pressure. While we were walking the beach I was thinking there is so little time left before my baby comes. This pregnancy has been progressing so quickly, it really don't feel like I've come this far. I start getting scared about the baby maybe coming early and such. I know they are premature unwarrented worries. I can't believe I am having my own baby. Man he has been moving like crazy lately. I hope he's a good boy. They say your kids are worse than you were- that scares the crap out of me! lol. I can't wait to see my little angel but part of me just wants to stay pregnant forever.

19 June 2007

So today is my first day of week 27 most of the websites say this is also my first day of my 3rd trimester- this site don't though? Hmm wonder which is right. It's really scary knowing I am this far and so not ready for bub to make his appearance yet. I am rather excited about him but still very scared. My next dr's appointment is on Thursday the 21 I hope all is still well in there. I am going to start calling around to figure out where I want to do my 3d/ 4d u/s I want one I just wanted to wait until at least 28 weeks- the baby's I saw at 28 weeks looked so good so I decided I wanted there or after. They are kind of expensive so I only plan on one. I've had 2 us's to this point and 2 more coming with my dr. us's are one thing my insurance dosen't cover period so I have to pay for each one of them. But that isn't so bad, I am rather happy with my insurance I can't believe how great they are. I wonder what my baby will look like, will he have blonde hair and blue eyes like me, black hair and dark skin like daddy, or a mix somewhere in the middle? It's silly but it feels so weird not knowing what you baby is going to look like, not seeing him, yet knowing he is there. I did some work in the nursery over the weekend the only thing left really is to clean it up- and if we can put new carpet in before he gets here. I am very happy with the nursery we could have went with one of the ones that have all the stuff done for it but we choose finding nemo and they don't really have much for a nursery in that scheme so we made due and boy does it look awesome. I hope bub enjoys the ocean and outdoors as much as daddy and I do.

I am feeling pretty good, lately I've been so low on energy then I feel really sore on top of that it don't make me very eager to get any housework or anything else done for that matter. All I want to do is sleep. I need to force myself to be productive. My back and rib cage are still killing me. The maternity belt helps my lower back a ton. My butt hurts and so do my upper thighs I think it's from sleeping on my side but I feel so stiff it is hard to walk at times. hmm. lol I hope everyone else is doing well.

June 21, 2007

Dr.'s appt. went well today, the dr. said I gained to much weight (big surprise lol), belly still measures well, the heartbeat is 156 bpm. I was supposed to have the gestitational diabeties test today but I had asked for an afternoon appointment and they didn't relieze it but it was about time to close so I am waiting till 29 weeks for it.

July 3, 2007

Well yesterday was another day spent with the dr. lol. hb was between the 150-160 he was moving a lot. I can't really feel it inside anymore but you could hear it on the doppler and the dr said he was just a pushing back on her hands. I find it to be funny cause I didn't feel any of it at all. I know that he was because when I put my hand down there I can feel it but it makes me so nervous cause a couple weeks ago I could feel every movement inside my belly. hmm. I took the test for the gestational diabetes the drink was actually pretty good. I guess because I was scared to drink it thinking it would be awful. It tasted sort of like crystal light would with a cherry sort of taste. It wasn't bad and my belly never hurt or anything.. Let ya know the results in 2 weeks.

July 19, 2007

Well, today was great, we had our 3d/4d ultrasound. It was AMAZING we could see Gio' Vanni sucking his thumb, sticking out his tongue, chewing, pointing at us, flexing his arm, and he kept showing us his "boy parts". We got wonderful pictures I posted here. Than, we had our dr's appointment and I don't have gestational diabetes, thank god we were very worried! His heart beat was 136 oh on the u/s we could see the blood flowing through the heart! The dr said we had a very large healthy baby.

August 02,2007

Today we went to the dr. Lil' G's hb was in the 150's, I weighed 185 lbs (man I put on a ton of weight) , and everything seemed good. Next appt 2 weeks then we move to every week. Man there is so much to do and my baby will be here so soon!

August 16, 2006

Dr. yesterday hb was in the 140's, I weighed 191 lbs (200 here I come!), did the strep b test. Next appointment 1 week. Swelling is awful my feet are huge and hurt... I've dropped some... I am huge having lots of new discomforts.... take care..

35 weeks/ august 14None pregnancy related really...

Things that make you sick:

steak, & scrambled eggs

Boy or girl:

boy

Babys name:

Gio'vanni Bonerhes

Advice for other pregnant women:

Don't focus on the aches and pains enjoy the pleasures..

Baby Daddy:

Jeff

His reaction:

Initallly shock and disbelief

Greatest memory so far:

How great Jeff is with the pregnancy

Biggest fear:

Labor & Delivery

Strange symptoms:

Advantages of being pregnant:

Umm.. you don't need to worry about how you look or that extra pound.

Weird dreams:

Some

Emotional outbursts:

Nope not really been pretty stable. I was "lonely" for a little while

Breast changes:

Sore stayed same size etc..

Waist changes:

waist? I have one?? I can't see it anyway...

Things you quit for baby:

Smoking & diet pepsi..

Most uncomfortable time:

nights

Worst part of being pregnant:

Best place for maternity clothes: ?????

being ugly... lol.. Being big and there really isn't cute clothes and I do not feel sexy at all! I haven't found a good place. Burlington is the best but even they are lacking.

Taking parenting classes:

Yes Wends & Thurs

Pregnancy necessities:

Extra Pillows, foot soak, a great partner

Grandparents reaction:

All of our family was happy

Aunts? Uncles?:

1 uncle my side, 1 aunt & 2 uncles hubbys side

Godparents:

undecided

Where will you deliver:

Mary View Med. Cntr

When:

When he decides to come... due date is 9/18

Will you breastfeed:

yes

Will you use cloth diapers:

going to try them in conjunction with disposables.. if not they will be burp clothes.

How far along are you:

Cravings so far:


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Araldia - Thursday, 14 Jun
Thanks for asking about baby, they did the big scan yesterday (It's a boy) and they looked really carefully at his heart, they couldn't see any problems with it thankfully, so fingers crossed.


myabigkitty25 - Thursday, 14 Jun
Thank you so much! COngratulations to you as well. You look great!


jeaniebeanie - Thursday, 14 Jun
Hey I am not to far away. You hanging in there?? I hope the back aches ease up a little for you. Congrats on your baby boy!


angelia2012 - Wednesday, 13 Jun
Congrats! Its very excitng! I hope everything is going well for you!


yellowrosebunny - Wednesday, 13 Jun
Mine gave me a hard time also. There are no Midwifes in-network, but they do cover out of network. Also my policy has a gap waver I can request to have this birth covered in-network, since they have not contracted with any midwifes around here. But they did give me a huge run around and declined the 1st request and I had to go to my company HR to make them follow both the policy and the Federal Law btw they were braking. If you want to know more. I will be happy to help. Good luck. Emily


beebs - Wednesday, 13 Jun


exp*mommy*18 - Wednesday, 13 Jun
thanxs for the comment...and congrats to you...


ashlie - Wednesday, 13 Jun
thanks for the comment, congrats to you too.


shannong - Wednesday, 13 Jun
I am glad that I have this website, but I understand, I feel like it moves slowly too! I am glad that I will only be four months preggers at mid-August. The months where I'll get big it will be cooler! Which will be nice. But I just feel like I will never get there!! I still have until 6/26/07 for my first OB appt! I found out my regular dr no longer delivers babies so I had to go somewhere else. But it's closer to our house, so that is good! But I was bummed out because she delivered our last one. I thought I was going to cry! They even cancelled my appointment for this Friday! So now I have to wait for two more weeks!!!


sha - Wednesday, 13 Jun


audenn - Wednesday, 13 Jun
lol...thanks for the message!! Hope all is well with you=)


yellowrosebunny - Wednesday, 13 Jun
A month before David was born, I did not know my husband was ill I just thought he was selfess and going thou a stage of being afraid of the baby, until a 1 1/2 yrs later, we found out he was mentaly ill. The first 2 or 3 years I pretty much took care of me and David and a stranger. :-) God helped me thur that. I could have never done it by myself that's for sure. Take care, Emily


westvgrl - Wednesday, 13 Jun
well i'll be sure to post some photos, cause my sister in law has been there its so beautiful! yea, i agree with your husband about the too big to camp thing - i had to go for that excuse this year too - cause we thought about it! we are actually going camping in PA in sept with the kids and new baby, but we are renting a cabin - so it should be lots of fun - meeting lots of family there for a full weekend! well i better get my day started... talk to you soon!


shannong - Wednesday, 13 Jun
I was supposed to go into the Army when I was 18, but got preggers with our first 2 months before, so I never got to go. Then 2 years later got preggers with our second. And now, 10 years later, we've got #3 on the way! It just seems like it's taken so long because I've known since I was 4 weeks! So I feel like I'll never make it to the 2nd trimester! July 23 seems so far away!


rachel alexandra - Wednesday, 13 Jun
aww thank you and congratulations to you also.Rachel xx


westvgrl - Tuesday, 12 Jun
well i am so looking forward to visiting there - i have only ever driven thru on family trips else where! chicoteaque (not sure on spelling) we are staying on the bay in a nice big house, i'm so excited - first big family vaca, besides camping trips and such - which, don't get me wrong are totally the best... but will be neat to do something different! anyway, how have you been feeling? can't believe how fast time is going... we are already into summer now! geez... well feel good!


yellowrosebunny - Tuesday, 12 Jun
Congratulations on your baby boy. I was 24 when I have David. I had no experiance with babies at all. But God made us with an instant on button to know what to do at the right time. My son is loved by everyone, even people who don't like kids. :-) I also chose not to take any of the test to determin if there was something wrong or not. What's the point. I'm keeping this little one no matter what. All the worry for nothing. Besides the false positive are to high, I don't need that kind of stress. LOL September is a great month. My sister, brother and husband were born in that month. And Sept 16th will be my parents 38th anniversary. Best wishes to you and your family. TTYL, Emily


koko - Tuesday, 12 Jun
I hope you are feeling ok. Congrats to you on your baby. I hope you have a healthy and blessed pregnancy


avbentley - Tuesday, 12 Jun
Free Glitter Graphics


kathleen - Tuesday, 12 Jun
congrats to u to, how has your pregnancy been so far?


jovi - Tuesday, 12 Jun
Congrats to you too. Hows pregnancy????


shannong - Tuesday, 12 Jun
Thanks! I can't wait to be where you are, congrats to you too! It seems like once you know, it takes forever for you to get to 12 weeks! I found out at 4 weeks and I am only 7 weeks now! It goes sooo slow and I am really nervous to make it through the next 5 weeks! Every little cramp or twing scares me! I can't wait to tell everyone!!


Mommiex2 - Tuesday, 12 Jun
Congrats to u as well!! I am also having a boy due Sept 27th-29th. I also live in VA. I hope things are going well. I loved looking at your slideshow. Hope all is well!


eightsenuff - Tuesday, 12 Jun
Lol yea, well i am kinda bored with the pregnancy thing =P nah i love it and this is my last. FINALLY lol. congrats on your little boy


liz82 - Tuesday, 12 Jun




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34 wks gross... (2007, 08, 14) My little angel (2007, 07, 20) Is there any lap left? (2007, 09, 06) Big Belly! (2007, 08, 14) 38 weeks (2007, 09, 06) 28 weeks with my other baby  (2007, 06, 29) Jeff & I 33 weeks (2007, 08, 02) 38 weeks (2007, 09, 06) SLIGHTLY SWOLLEN FEET (2007, 09, 06) It`s a boy (2007, 07, 20) Gio` Vanni (2007, 09, 19) Gio` Vanni and Mommy (2007, 09, 19) 35 Weeks (2007, 08, 16) Baby Gio`vanni (2007, 07, 20) 33 Weeks (2007, 08, 02) Big Foot!! (2007, 07, 20) 31 weeks... (2007, 07, 31) Click here to see all TabathaN`s photos

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