Comments for Friends

Comments for Friends

April 15- I am so glad that I am pregnant. At first I was scared about having three kids, but I am fine now. I know that God is blessing my family and he is going to continue to bless my family. I was worried about finances because I love for my kids to have the best of everything. Now I am not worried because I just recently finished my nursing degree and my husband started his landscaping business, so we will be fine. A litlle about me. My husband and I were childhood lovers. We have been together since I was in middle school. We broke up for a year in a half and I got pregnant with my daughter Jahyra 11. We have been back together since she was a a few weeks old. We have a very good marriage and very loving family. I thank God for this union. We have a Son Robert (RJ) 3. He is real excited about the new baby. Everyday he ask "when is the baby coming out" I think it's cute, but it is nerve reckon sometimes because I have along way to go. I am a very outgoing person, but I love to have control, and I am working on that. My husband is laid back so I tend to take charge alot of the times, I am getting better. I am very in to church and I come from a really close family. We are all looking forward to this little surprise, and know this was not a planned pregnancy, but God knows best.

May 1, 2007-Well today was not a good day. I was sick all day. I was cramping really bad, so I decided to go to the hospital. They told me that everything was ok, and I was able to hear the baby's heartbeat 170's., I was so excited. They didn't do a US, but the Dr. said that I am farther alone than I thin k I am. I have my OB appointment on May 7, 2007 so hopefully she will find out the correct date of delivery and the sex. The Dr. said no sex for two weeks, well that waouldn't work in this household. Just keep me in prayer, until next time.

May 3, 2007- Since I went to the ER on the 2nd my Dr. was able to get me in earlier than the 7th. I went today and I allowed my daughter and son to come so that they can here the baby's heartbeat. I also thought that I would be able to get my u/s but I didn't, I will get it on the 8th. My baby was kicking so hard when the Dr. put the doppler on my stomach, must not have liked that at all. It was so cute, the Dr. even smiled. I just feel so blessed, being that I went through so much with this pregnancy. God has brought me to 16 weeks, I am so grateful, I count it all joy! I will continue to keep an update on my story, ofh I got my DR. to write a restrain from sex note for 4 weeks, so my husband can back off some LOL. Until next time ladies.

May5-2007 Well today has been kinda not good, i have been having pain again, like cramps. I have vicodin but I don't want to keep taking that because it is spo strong. I know that I tld you all about the note that I got from the DR. about no sex for 4 weeks, well that didn't last not even for one day. It is so hard because he and I are so attracted to eachother and it is so weird because it's been a many many years and the fire is still buring. I think that that is good but Dr. orders are Dr. orders. I told my husband maybe we should sleep in seperate rooms for awhile, but then I wil be lonely. I guess we will figure something out. Other than that I am maintaining, and trying to keep this pregnancy going. To you all have a blessed weekend.

May 8, 2007- Well today I went for my US and they think that it is a boy. I am not happy about that news, but God knows best. We are going to have a 3d US to make sure in a couple weeks. Will keep you posted

May 26, 2007- Well I have already been experiencing braxton hicks. I haven't had another US yet but it will be soon. They told me they thought it was a boy but it was so early so my fingers are still crossed for my girl. If it is a boy rwe have a name, RoMeko, that is part of my husband's Robert name and my name Tameka, so it's final now we just need a middle name, if anyone have any suggestions let me know. Talk back later.

May 29, 2007- Well I just got out of the hospital. I am only 19 weeks and I went into labor. It was horrible. I was so scared. I went into the DR, after I was contracting on night, they sent me straight to the the hospital. When I got there I was in active labor. They started me on terbutaline ( a medication that stops contractions). Thanks to God that it worked. My water didn't break or anything, but the pains were terrible. I am taking medication every six hours to stop my contractions. I have faith that everything is going to be ok. I will go back to the DR next week. I will keep you all informed.

June 1-2007 Well last night was not to good for me. The contractions are still coming and the medication is not working well at all. I am not scared but I'm alittle bit disappointed. My DR. is not to good. She is too quick and she is not attentative at all. I think that I am going to change DRs soon. It kinda saddens me that all of omy OB appointments have been sudden and quick. This is not how I envisioned my last pregnancy. Even when I took my US it was so quiick and they didn't want anyone in the room but me and the technician. She acted like it wasn't a big deal about finding out the sex of the baby, well it was to me and my mommy because we like to get things prepared. Hopefully in two more weeks I will know and I will let you all know if it is really a boy or not which I truly think that it is.

June4-2007 Well today I went to the Dr. I called this morning because I was having contractions again. I was hurting so bad, so I called and told the nurse all about it. She went to tell the Dr. and her response was "tell her to come in tommorrow." I was pissed! My response to her was "What the heck am I suppose to do for pain and misery until tommorrow." I heard the Dr say, tell her to come in today. I thought that was the logical thing anyways. I told you all that she is a shity Dr. excuse the language but it is the darn truth. I went into the Dr. and I took my 3 yr old with me. What a freakin experience that was. He was so off the hook. He was able to hear all of the kicking and the heartbeat from the baby, he was annoyed by this. I really thought that he would have enjoyed it, but I was wrong. The HB was pretty high 160-170s which don't mean anything, and I see that now. The Dr ordered a US for tommorow at 2:00 so I am going to take my cousin with me for this visit, I am excited. Dr. ordered weekly injections for my contractions so she is starting to try to do better I guess. I will inform you all to let you know if it really a boy or not. God bless you all.

June 5- Well ladies today was the day that I found out the sex of the baby and it is indeed a BOY! I was not to upset because I kinda figured that anyways, but its ok, this one will be loved no matter what. I guess now I can relax and try to enjoy the rest of the pregnancy and get prepared for RoMeko. I just hope that he will be healthy. I thank God that he even allowed me to have children because there are women that can not have them and here I am worried about this boy girl thang when I should be focused on gratefullness and healthyness. I just had to let everyone know since you all knew how much I wanted a girl. I will talk back soon.

June 8- IT:S MY ANNIVERSARY, WE ARE GOING AWAY FOR THE WEEKEND, WISH ME LUCK GUYS.

June 18, 2007- Well guys the new injections that the Dr prescribed for me is working. The contractins has slowed down a great deal abnd I am able to relax more now. I go to get the shoots every week. I am due for one on Thursday. I am really glad to see the the Dr. did something right. I feel so much better, oh my husband brough me a new car for my anniversary present. I needed a bigger vehicle since I will be having three kids now, can't wait to see the litlle guy. Talk to you guys later.

JUNE 21, 2007- WELL TODAY GUYS I WENT TO THE DR FOR MY INJECTION, AND THEY WERE SO FAST. I HAVEN'T MENTIONED TO ANY OF THEM THAT I WAS A NURSE BECAUSE I WANTED TO BE TREATED JUST LIKE ANYONE ELSE, SO I DIDN'T THINK IT WAS IMPORTANT TO BROADCAST. IT IS SO AMAZING AT WHAT PEOPLE WILL DO AND SAY TO YOU IF THEY THINK YOU DON'T KNOW THINGS. EVERYTIME I GO THERE THE NURSE GIVE ME A FAKE BLOOD PRESSURE READING. I HAVE TAKING SO MANY BLOOD PRESSURES THAT I CAN TELL JUST ABOUT WHAT IT IS JUST BY LOOKING AT THE CUFF. IT IS SO FUNNY WHEN I SAY "HOW WAS IT" SHE WILL JUST GIVE ME A QUICK NUMBER OFF THE TOP OF HER HEAD, AMAZING. I ASKED THE PHYSICIAN ASSISTANT WHEN THEY WERE GOING TO START ME ON INJECTIONS FOR THE BABY THE LUNGS JUST IN CASE I DO DELIVER EARLY, AND SHE WAS WALKING OUT OF THE ROOM SAYING WE WON'T. I GOT MY INJECTION AND SHE JUST JABBED THE NEEDLE INTO MY BUTT, AND I JUST ABOUT SCREAMED. I SAID TO MYSELF THIS IS IT. SO JUST TO LET YOU GUYS KNOW, I HAVE A NEW DR. NOW AND I SEE HIM THE FIRST WEEK OF JULY, AND THEY ARE GOING TO SEND ME TO A SPECIALIST, THAT IS WHAT SHOULD HAVE HAPPENED BEFORE. I JUST HOPE AND PRAY TO GOD THAT THINGS GO BETTER FOR ME AND MY FAMILY, BECAUSE THIS PREGNANCY EXPERIENCE HAS BEEN CRAZY. I WILL KEEP YOU ALL POSTED.

June 25, 2007- Ok, ladies, just getting out of the hospital. I was bably dehydrated and in labor. I have been a very sick young lady. I don't think that I can put up with this to much longer with the pain and things like that, so I have decided at 27 weeks to stop the medications that are making me feel so bad. I know that this sounds selfish, but you don't understand the agony and pain that I encounter 24.7. I am so happy about my pregnancy, but I think that pregnancy should be a joy, and this sure has not been. I am on strick bedrest again. I can't do much of anything and that is driving me crazy. I have new pics to post and I will do that soon. Until next time ladies.

July 2, 2007- went to my new Dr. and it was excellent. I feel so blessed to have found this Dr. I have still been contracting, but it's better. I will keep yoll posted.

July 5, 2007- I was rather breif when I last wrote due to time. I have a really nice Dr. and Midwife that I am seeing now. I feel so good with the change that my husband and I made. When I told them the stories about why I changed Dr. they couldn't believe it. They were wondering what took so long to change. I feel so much better even though I am still dealing with the preterm labor. I am taking it easy though. I still take the medication for contractions and the pain, so I stay comfortable for the most part. You all know I will keep you posted, but I haven't been on that much because I just haven't felt like being on the computer lately, and plus my hubby thinks thatI spend to much time on here. Have a good weekend.

July 13- Well today is the man's made spooky day and it seemed so real. This has been one of the most craziest day of my life. I have had so much bad luck today. My contractions were coming really frequent also. I go to the DR. Monday and I will be able to see if dilation have started to occur. I feel so much pressure in my vaginal area and also it feels like something is pulling in between my thighs. I don't know what is going on, but I do know that my lil man is giving me the blues. I can't wait to tell him about what I went through to get him here. I can't wait to hold him and bring him home. It is so amazing all of the things a mother go through to get the child into the world, but then here is this wonderful gift and reward in the end of the 9 months, so amazing. I am so embarrassed about my bad luck today that I really don't want to say, but I will say a little about it. I got loss for 2 hours and I have been living here all of my life. I was trying to find one little stinky place and couldn't find it and I ended up out of my city. I was so scared, "I was on dirt roads and everything, very spooky. My contractions were coming even stronger. I now see that alot of times stress causes them, so I am going to relax all weekend. I will talk to you all later.

August 8- Well friends it has been a long while since I have written anything. Pretty much things are the same. I still have contractions alot and now I have decided to take myself off of the medications that were preventing me from having the baby early. I am letting nature take its course. I am 29 weeks so the baby is well formed, just the lung inmaturity bothers me, but I know things will be fine. I think that I have been a real trooper because of all that I have been going through with this pregnany. God is so awesome because he keeps giving more and more strenght daily. I promise I will keep you all posted when major things occur. God bless you all.

August 20- Well long time again with this busy schedule it's ahrd to be on here. I am doing good, I am dilated 1cm now so strict bedrest again. I started college today to finish up my bacholer degree in nursing, but the classes are all online, so I don't have to leave the house for class. Othere than that I am maintaining and still being evil. Will keep you updated.

THOUGHT OF THE WEEK: "God has not giving us the spirit of fear, but he has giving us power"

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