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preyoshi - Tuesday, 1 July
hi, u r nearing your due date...........all the best dear.......

zani0321 - Wednesday, 18 June
hello goggga
hoe gaan dit met jou en kleinding

het gou kom check wat op my profile aan gaan, maar nie veel nie..... jy kan seker nie meer wag nie.....

lekker aand en praat weer.....

Natos - Friday, 13 June
You are welcome. Maybe you cn also rub your jaw where u have the pain with a little vicks. (from the outside of ur cheek not directly inside the mouth).

Natos - Wednesday, 11 June
Gargle with warm salt water. It works wonderz for me. Tell me if it works for you.

CarrieE - Wednesday, 4 June
Hi! Just wanted to comment on the sex thing. Don't feel bad and DON'T listen to your friend. My husband and I haven't BD'd in sooooooo long...probably since January or so. It's hard for both of us. My hubby says he doesn't want to cause any problems like preterm labor or anything and I agree. I know sex is safe when you aren't high-risk (which I'm not), but I guess we'd rather be safe than sorry. Everyone is different. I'm sure your fiance is NOT cheating on you. He probably even finds you more attractive now than ever before since you are glowing and carrying his child!! I'm sure he just doesn't want anything to go wrong. I think you should tell him EXACTLY how you feel and maybe give him hints about what he could do for you (without having full on sex) that would be fun and tide you over until the baby born. Good luck and hang in there...only like 5 1/2 weeks to go!!!!!!

Licah - Wednesday, 4 June
I feel you girl.....I can't get my husband to have sex with me either!! He says that he feel scared about hurting me or the baby. I try to explain to him that my cervix is closed and will protect the baby....but nooo, that doesn't work. At first I thought he was cheating but learned later that he is just worried. Hope you get lucky soon ;o) it's been a while for me. -Lica

ggfirsttime - Wednesday, 4 June
My husband feels the same way as your fiancee does...he says it won't feel right at all...and he is not comfortable with the idea and I'm fine with it.

tracylouella - Wednesday, 4 June
He's not cheating on you hun. Men do find it weird. Just imagine them thining about sticking their weiners up there and they are afraid of poking baby in the head. Men are stupid about that, and we all kow that. The only reason I get some still is cuz I bitched about it... a LOT! and now he does me whenever I want it. lol!!! Men really do find it comcomfortable and strange. The only thing is, SOME MEN if they watch the birth cant have sex with their ladies after cuz it grosses them out so badly. I wont let my hubby look cuz I know he wouldnt want to do me after seeing a baby come outta there. LOL. But he isn't cheating. Your friend is JUST pregnant and she is going through the horomone thing, she should never have said that to you. Don't worry about it. Just talk to him, express your concerns and suggest another position tha tis more favorable and comfortable to him . Explain that you need it to still feel connected to him as his wife and mother to his child. Cuz right now Im sure you are feeling pretty isolated and fat like the rest of us!

lia741 - Wednesday, 4 June
ok, maybe tmi but here goes, oral sex! Guys don't turn it down! Once they're in the mood you can get more out of them! It always works for me, lol!

katya - Wednesday, 4 June
Hi there Tanya... It isnt unusual for some men not wanting to be sexually active when there partner is preggers.. ( I know its not fun ) but things will come back to normal. This may be bit TMI however my Hub has a super high sex drive we were at it 2 times a day however since I concieved ( 8 mths now ) we havent had sex once .. he just feels uncomfortable.. and Im all cool with it.. I just have to except that.. doesnt mean he is looking for it elsewhere,...!! Some men just feel uneasy with sex and pregnancy !!

ooheather - Wednesday, 4 June
You shouldn't worry at all.....my husband won't have sex with me either...he's afraid of poking the baby. I also think he's afraid I'll go into labor and he's not quite ready.....they never really are ready but he doesn't want to be the one to set things off. I would never think that he's cheating, I might feel a little insecure sometimes in my "whale-like" state....lol...but I truly believe he can't even get it up knowing his little girl is in there. You should express your concerns to him and I'm sure he'll make you feel better. Let him know the things he can do other than sex that would make you feel good about things!

oopspregnantagain - Tuesday, 3 June
I have had a C-section and I am heing one this time, it is not that bad it will be ok just remember that that cut and scar is bring your bundle of JOY into this world so it is Well worth it, best wishes

froggy - Tuesday, 3 June
i told my husband that the dr said to have lots of sex and walk with thats what my doc said to do to bribg on labor

klm - Tuesday, 3 June
hi! was just reading your comment about the c section. i had one with my son 6 years ago and i am scheduled for june 18th. it really is not that bad. yes...you will have some pain afterwards but you would also have pain with a vaginal delivery. i was like you when i had my first one...scared of it because ive never had anything done to me...but it was not bad at all. my scar is sooo small and right on the bikini line so its not noticable in a bikini! (not that ill be able to get back into one of those lol). but really...dont worry. you will be fine.

zani0321 - Tuesday, 27 May
more gog, gaan nou dokter toe - het baie seer vanoggend....

so ek sal later met jou praat en jou laat weet wat die doc se.. Hoop nie dis te ernstig nie.

My email addy - zani.beytell@gmail.com

lekker dag en praat nou nou weer.

zani0321 - Monday, 26 May
Nee ek het nog nie my doc gebel nie, ek dink nie dus nodig nie. Ek sien hom tog oor more so dis nie so bad nie... En as ek kleinding net elke dag voel dan is als mos ok. Dan hoef ek nie te panick nie. Wel ek hoop eks reg.

Sal maar by hom hoor oor die snaakse eet gewoontes wat ek het of dit normaal is of nie. Anders moet hy vir my iets gee om genoeg voedingstowwe in te kry vir baba dan.

Gaan ook sommer bye se en praat more dan weer. Stuur my bietjie jou email addy!

Lekker aand
XOXOX

zani0321 - Monday, 26 May
My dag is baie kak gewees, was besig en ek haat Maandae!!! Maar dankie tog dis amper verby...

Eks bly om te hoor dat jy beter voel ;) Weet jy wat van saterdag kry ek hierdie braxton contractions so baie, ek wens nou dit was al woensdag, sodat ek net kan weet wat aangaan. En ek glad nie meer honger nie, sodra ek kos sien of ruik wil ek opgooi :( Hopelik is dit nou nie meer lank nie dans my seuntjie hier ek sal so by wees.....

zani0321 - Monday, 26 May
Sorry man ek reply nou eers, was so bietjie besig gewees!!!

My dokter het gese ek moet myne op 39weke doen, so maar ek hoop baba kom op so 37weke. Ag dis maar wat ek hoop, maar of dit nou wel gaan gebeur is nou maar up to him :) Jy moet vir haar se sy kan enige tyd vanaf 37weke dit doen. Dis dan veiliger!!!

Hoe is jou dag so ver?

zani0321 - Monday, 26 May
Ek het my baby shower vroeg gehad (28weke) want met die hele ding dat my ma hulle trek.. So sy het dit vroeg gereel :) Myne was baie lekker en het baie goedtjies gekry.

En ek gaan ook die week doc toe, woensdag (35weke) hoop hy kan dan vir my se wat is die pyn wat ek het!! Michael se ma het die naweek kom kuier en sy se van die laaste keer wat sy my gesien het - dit was 2weke terug!!! Het ek BAIE GESAK, en sy se sy dink ek gaan nog net so 2weke loop op die langste. Ek hoop sy is reg ..

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