Ciala Lauren Parham

Here's my story,

It was May 27th Sunday night and i kept going to the bathroom, at one point i noticed that i had a bloody show, but when i call the nurse she said that if i was having no cintractions it made no since for me to come in, that i should wait and so i did well.... around the 20th trip i felt like i was peeing on myself and the pain was becoming really annoying. looking at my pee i noticed not only did i have a bloody show by now but my water had broken and their was meconium in it (baby doo doo) so i said to my kids and i wanna go,i wanna go now. drove around the corner to my sis-n-law dropped off the two little ones and carried my behind to the hospital with my sis-law, and oldest daughter. it took the nurses about twenty min to set me up on the monitor and admit me, called my man at work and told him,he needed to come now, it's about 9:30am at this point and the pain is kickin my A**. laying there taking the pain like a trooper and my baby did something so painful it felt like someone stabbed me in the pelvis bone with a ridged knife. The doc strolls in asks how im doing by this time its not good but im holding, tells me i can have something for the pain, i said if you can put it in my I V, i'll take it, mind you i was trying to go all natural....NOT! sooo.... he gave me demorol. and baybay it did nothing for my pain but i did feel sleepy so the contractions are one min apart ,as if that's not good enough for the doctor, maybe i was still to calm, so he asked if i wanted some potoxin, and i under the influence of drugs :) LOL... said yeah,why did i do that cause about ten minutes later i had to PUSH! he checks me and goes no, no, your only 5cm, i wanted to die but didn't say a thing i just put my head back down and layed there. taken the pain which felt like forever and a little while later i felt my boyfriend holding my hand with the greatest of comfort and encouragement with my sister saying here comes another contraction and my daughter looking like she wanted to cry for me, never having seen me in such pain before , BAM! i had to push again and this time it was forceful, in runs the doc and says yes she's ready.....OMG i felt like crying i was never so happy and then he goes wait don't push yet. im like what the hell, he had to get dressed. but in no time flat they had my legs up and we was cooking with fire,LOL. after what seemed to be a life time of pushes out popped my beautiful bouncing 9lb 5.0z baby girl. and that's my story, GOD has truly been good to me. my oldest daughter-Amber

My middle-Essence (L) and Kenya (R)

my honey and me with essence and kenya