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April 10, 2008

On Monday, February 25th, we lost our baby girl at 19 weeks. The autopsy report said I had an infection, although they do not know what kind of infection it was.

We nicknamed her Pinto Bean because at 7 weeks, I had an ultrasound and that is exactly what she looked like at the time...a little pinto bean...

My heart goes out to all who have experienced a loss. I know my life will never be the same after this. Not a day goes by that I don't think about her. I never imagined this could happen - I was so naive about the pregnancy and didn't know I could ever lose the baby like this!

I can only hope that God will bless us with a healthy pregnancy and a full term healthy baby someday.

What I've learned from this is that no matter how much we want to be in control - we are not. God has a plan for each of us. We are here to love Him and serve Him. God lends us His children. Even if only for a brief moment in time.

"I'll lend you for a little while, a child of mine," He said.
"For you to love while it lives, and give it a warm bed.

"It may be six or seven years, or eighty two or three.
But, will you 'til I call it back, take care of it for me?

"It will bring it's charms to gladden you, and it's stay will be brief.
You'll have it's lovely memories for years beyond belief.

"I cannot promise it will stay, as all from earth return.
But there are lessons taught down there, I want this child to learn.

"I've looked wide world over in my search for teachers true.
And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes, I've selected you.

"Now you will give it all your love - not think the labor vain.
Nor hate me when I come to call to take it back again.

"I fancied that I heard it say 'Dear Lord, thy will be done'
For all the joy this child shall bring, the risk of grief we'll run.

"We'll shower it with tenderness, and love it while we may.
And for the happiness we've known, forever grateful stay.

"And should the angel call for him to go it on it's own someday,
We'll brave the bitter grief that comes, those times it is away.


God bless.





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chips - 14 hours ago
......Hope you had a wonderful 4th of july!!
I know how you must of felt......it is very hard
I am the same when I see little ones!............It does slowly get better:sweetheart.........but you will always love your angel!!
we are trying again..........but I think my AF is visiting soon, so I am feeling down today
Lots of love sweetie
god bless


chips - Wednesday, 2 July
thuy sweetheart!
how are you??
It has been ages, since we have wrote!
lots of love
god bless


roosa - Monday, 30 June
Thanks for your happy birthday wishes

Oh, it must be so hard for you to be approaching the baby's due date. I try not to think of it yet. Things are hard enough as it is. If I get pregnant this month then the baby's due date will most likely be the day that Kathleen passed away, March 27. That will both be good and sad. Don't really know how I feel about that. But only God knows what will happen.

June 20-21 I went to a women's conference called 'an encounter with the King'. It was one of the hardest things I have ever done, but it was good and necessary. I don't think I have ever cried so much in my whole life before. It was very healing and I am glad I went.

I am seeing my hematologist today to get my final test results and then I will also ask her about the clots and find out what to do next.

Do you have your results yet on the pap test and other testing?

Sending you a big hug!
Love,
Karin


roosa - Thursday, 26 June
Hi sweetie, just checking in on you to see how you are doing? I have been thinking of you. Are your cycles getting more normal?

It wasn't my month so I am dissapointed, but I need to keep believing it will happen at the right time. My last cycle (the third after the loss) has been a real mess with mid cycle bleeding and passing large clots etc. I will talk to a doctor about it on Monday.

I hope you are well.

All my love,
Karin


2angelbabies - Monday, 16 June
Hi, I am just writing to see how you are doing? Take care.


2angelbabies - Monday, 16 June
Automatic update: 2angelbabies added a new blog: Would have been his Due Date


prettypreggo - Monday, 16 June
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Although we know everything is in God's hands, it still hurts. It does help to know that he will work it out. I read you question on the miscarriage forum. I had a miscarriage/D&C in March. My doctor told me it would take a few cycles for my system to reset itself. Most people get their first period about 5 weeks after the MC, but everyone is different. Hope this helps.


Leta - Friday, 13 June
Thanx for the kind message!


annan617 - Thursday, 12 June
I am really sorry to hear about your loss, I saw your question on the m/c website, I had a m/c last Dec and had a D/C. Before I was pregnant my periods were 28 day cycle dead on every month then after the D/C the next period came 35 days later and then my cycle was 31 days dead on until I got pregnant again, I hope this helps, it takes a few cycles to get back to knowing what you body is doing, take care and thinking of you.


Leta - Thursday, 12 June
Automatic update: Leta added a new blog: I am so sad today


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