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starby - Wednesday, 26 Mar
Thanks for the comment :) I definately do notice that I wake up a lot during the night on my back so hopefully I'm never laying there too long like that...I will have to talk to my doc at my next visit.

septmommy - Tuesday, 11 Mar
Hey, thank you for letting me know I have noticed that this baby is taking my brains away. lol. Everythnig is ok, I am a little nervous I have my doctor appointment on Monday and he is going to be upset that I keep losing weight and I am still getting sick. I was given until week 14 then he said I will have to be on some pump that regularly pumps medicine into me to keep my food down. I don't like to take medicine so hopefully I will start feeling better.

AmandaBaker - Sunday, 9 Mar
Hey Tina, I read yout question about Zolft, I took Zolft threw out my Pregnancy with my 1st born baby he is 2 1/2 now and there is nothing wrong with him I also took with my now 10 month old son I never took it with my Daughter when I was pregnant with her. Im hoping that I am pregnant now i been feeling wezzy every single night for the past 3 week's now. But I won't know anything until morning... Congrat's on your little one. I bet you are excited... Well I talk to you whenever take care

Amanda

AnOddBatch - Sunday, 9 Mar
Well...we've only actually had sex twice since I got pregnant...and I can't remember when the last time was. Granted he'd be willing...but I don't have much of a belly yet so I'm not sure how he'll react to that when the time comes. But I definitely know what you mean about feeling lonely. And yes, pregnancy is so much crappier than most women let on. I was like pissed off when I realized that being pregnant is not this great beautiful happy experience. What a rip-off, right? There was one girl that I work with who, when she found out I was pregnant way at the beginning, just looked at me and said, 'Oh you are going to HATE this...' I laughed, but she was totally right. When I'm just focusing on the baby growing inside of me, it does feel like a very magical time...but it's hard to keep that focus when I'm sitting up at 1am waiting for my boyfriend to come home from the bar even though I don't even actually want to see him because I know he'll be drunk when he gets in...

AnOddBatch - Sunday, 9 Mar
Yeah it gets super frustrating...plus drunk people are so much more annoying when you're sober, so now he'll totally get on my nerves when he's had even just a little too much. Plus it's killing our sex life because I just do not like being intimate with him when he's drunk and I'm sober. Not only does it just totally weird me out because it's like he's only half there with me, but it also takes him WAY too long to finish and I get tired and bored. On the bright side, he has assured me that he will stop drinking when I get close to the due date (in case he needs to drive me to the hospital in the middle of the night) and that he will limit his drinking once the baby is here. And MOST of the time I do actually believe that he's capable of it...

Utopianite - Monday, 25 Feb
Glad to know I'm not the only one. The last time my husband and I did anything, was when I got pregnant. :-) I've decided that men are completely clueless when it comes to our needs. I don't know why they all have this idea that they're going to be poking their kid in the eye. I assure you there's a large barrier between us and the baby. Oh well... And if you're depressed now, it does tend to get worse, especially starting 2 or 3 days after the baby comes. So take care of yourself, and don't be afraid to ask the doctor for something to help if you need it.

rob - Sunday, 24 Feb
Hey Tina.. i was just reading your message about your partner and sex. Mine is the same way with me! he read up that when women get orgasms while they are pregnant that the baby gets a 'sensation' and that really freaks him out.. we havent had sex in i think 2 months.. it really sucks but i know its not me. Its kind of nice to know that he cares about the baby so much... by the looks of the messages on your page it dosent look like we are alone!!!! seems that alot of guys are bothered by it... males and females are so different its crazy.. its nice to know that other people are going through the same thing!! Hang in there!!!

cjlal - Sunday, 24 Feb
My finace does not like to touch me. He gets kind of freaked out that there is a baby in there. He knows it will not hurt the baby but something about it just creeps him out. I feel the same way some times though.

Beautiful_Bump - Sunday, 24 Feb
Hi hunni we cant have sex cos of myproblem ie mty waters leaking... but even if we coudl we wouldnt terrys is repulsed byt the fact that i have a ababy in their is loves his child and jsut think its horid to think about doing the dead when she's in thier. Sum men jus dont like it i guess he jus see's me as the mummy rite now and will do until after our lil one is bionr then things wil return to normal. Hope ur not too down about this hunni ;) x

AlyEwing-Ball - Sunday, 24 Feb
hiya, i have no restrictions when it comes to sex only that my partner doesn't feel comfortable with it. He's scared of hurting me and/or the baby.

I know that it does nothing to help you at all but I just try to think that at least he is thinking about us both before the baby even gets here. Only when I hit a wee emotional stage in the pregnancy does it start to bother me and I end up feeling rejected or unattractive. We just talk that bit through and he always makes me feel better.

I hope you get through it - it'll all be worth it in the end...

Congrats on your pregnancy and baby girl!!!

xxx

Wendy678 - Sunday, 24 Feb
hi i read your message on 25 weeks and my doctor said no sex b/c i have partial placenta previa, but my husband says even if we were allowed he feels weird about it b/c he thinks i am too fragile. i know how you feel. just talk it out with your man and i hope he listens, good luck and congrats on your baby girl! :)

septmommy - Friday, 22 Feb
Well I can not say that I have any advice. After having a long talk with my boyfriend (who I also have gone from catering him to being nasty for no reason), I explained how I felt. He said for me to try to be positive and then I told him that it is hard to forget when you are uncomfotable 24-7. I did say that maybe even though I am uncomfortable if he can take the time out to massage my back or just hold me that at least something can feel better for a bit. I do know that excersise and sun helps. I am not ready to excersise but I did go out for 10 min today to get some fresh air and I did feel better. Someone also gave me some bath salts that had Epsom salt, sea salt, dedritic salt and a pleasant rose scent in it and WOW what a difference. We can not take a bath over 100 degrees so I filled the bath at 97 and sat in it for an hour. I really felt great all night long. It also helped when my boyfriend came over and gave me a back rub after I was feeling comfortable. I was told that Epsom salt is a miracle and I believe it now! Try it let me know if this helps. Thank you for letting me know that I am not alone, I appreciate it.

Rozzipozzi - Wednesday, 20 Feb
Hey just read your comment about your belly going hard. Its just braxton hicks contractions. They are perfectly normal! If the started to get frequent and very painful then see your gp.

rozzipozzi - Wednesday, 20 Feb
i have been on the meds before and i know it is a common pill and it has low side effects, i really dont want to harm the baby but at the same time i really dont want post natal depression this time, it is the hardest thing i have ever had to deal with in my life and with my son only being 2 i dont feel i can risk extreme mood swings!! hope your pregnancy is going well! thanks for the message!

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kristyandoliver - Wednesday, 20 Feb
a huge blood vessel behind your uterus can get cut off (because your uterus weighs more than before) and you can die. Although I MUST SAY I think it's not that big of a deal until the end of pregnancy when your uterus weighs like 9 lbs but everything I've ever read says stop sleeping on your back at 5 or 6 months.

You should see a picture of this blood vessel it's freaking gnarley and you will be too scared to sleep on your back. Cause every night I'm always super tempted to lay on my back and then I'm like 'lay on back and die or lay on my side and not die' haha.

But I of course would do my own research if you want to know the more technical reasons.


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