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NO3MOM2BE - Saturday, 6 Oct
i had my daughter at 15 she is 8 this december an is like my best friend. i completed my gcse's and went on to get good jobs i am married to her father and we have another daughter aged 3 and one more on way i wish u all the best x lauze x

NO3MOM2BE - Saturday, 6 Oct
i had my daughter at 15 she is 8 this december an is like my best friend. i completed my gcse's and went on to get good jobs i am married to her father and we have another daughter aged 3 and one more on way i wish u all the best x lauze x

NO3MOM2BE - Saturday, 6 Oct
i had my daughter at 15 she is 8 this december an is like my best friend. i completed my gcse's and went on to get good jobs i am married to her father and we have another daughter aged 3 and one more on way i wish u all the best x lauze x

mummy-tummy - Saturday, 6 Oct
15 is pretty young to have a bubba! Im 21 and pregnant...and still am not sure if i am really ready! i think you should wait until u hav at least finished school....because if u and ur bf are going to be 2getha 4eva....u sitll will b in 3 years time...! but then in the end the decision is completely yours! Just make sure you take everything into consideration!

mummy-tummy - Saturday, 6 Oct
15 is pretty young to have a bubba! Im 21 and pregnant...and still am not sure if i am really ready! i think you should wait until u hav at least finished school....because if u and ur bf are going to be 2getha 4eva....u sitll will b in 3 years time...! but then in the end the decision is completely yours! Just make sure you take everything into consideration!

mummy-tummy - Saturday, 6 Oct
15 is pretty young to have a bubba! Im 21 and pregnant...and still am not sure if i am really ready! i think you should wait until u hav at least finished school....because if u and ur bf are going to be 2getha 4eva....u sitll will b in 3 years time...! but then in the end the decision is completely yours! Just make sure you take everything into consideration!

threeangelsofmine - Saturday, 6 Oct
hi vanessa, i'm just going to tell you a little bit of my story -k-! i was with my b.f. for a yr. when we got pregnant i was 16 at the time we got married when i was 4 1/2 months along. i wouldn't trade my son for anything in this world. but i would have loved to finish school i was an honor student and had a full scholarship to any school in ohio of my choice. i am still with the dad and we are expecting our 3rd child. i know you may think hey i'll get my ged after i have the baby, but hon time escapes you when are expecting and being as a new parent. i'm not saying you shouldn't have a baby but maybe you should wait till after school! i think having children young is a great thing cause then you can be more involved in their childhood. i hope this helped some. feel free to comment anytime.

brittanynskye - Saturday, 6 Oct
your welcome girl.


amac428 - Friday, 5 Oct
I might get a lot of crap for this, but I would at least wait until you are out of high school. Then at least you'll have a few years to really think it over and if you want to go to college that option will be one you can consider. Plus if you choose to have a baby after high school you can always take college courses online and there are jobs available that you don't necessarily need a degree for.

momofangels - Friday, 5 Oct
Vanessa I would definetly wait. 15 is too young to have a baby. When you are a mom you want to give your child all of the best and you cant give a child that at 15. I would talk to my parents if I was you. Please please think long and hard about this. Having a baby is not all fun and games. I love my children very very much but I can't imagine ever being able to give them what they need at 15. When you have children your life revolves around them and only them. Finish school, have fun and then have a baby. I wish you all of the best and will be praying for you.

brittanynskye - Friday, 5 Oct
im probably going to get a lot of crap for this, but if its what you both want, then you should.
i always wanted a baby too.
and its not until now, im only 19, but still.
the only thing i know to say is that be sure you have plenty of support from family first.
without mine, i wouldnt make it.
good luck.

AprilLovesWes - Friday, 5 Oct
ya sure I'm always here. I'm the go to person in my family when it comes to advice, because I dont judge and I'll tell you how it is.

Anna Caponetti - Friday, 5 Oct
You also sound a little too idealistic about your desires for a child. You don't get to choose the sex of the baby, or even the number of babies. Also, what happens if the baby has--god forbid--disabilities? Children are already supremely expensive. Don't forgo your education, because that will limit you and your baby's life in the near future.

niseybear - Friday, 5 Oct
Slow down sweetie. There's no hurry at all! I'm 38 years old having my first and don't regret it one bit at all. I've got to have fun, party, vacation, sleep as late as I want, stay up as late as I want, and do what I want without being responsible for another. That all changes in 2 months and I'm glad that I'm the age I am having one! Take it easy babe...you've got plenty of time!

Anna Caponetti - Friday, 5 Oct
Hi! I'm pretty young--23--and I know what it's like to want a child young. However, there are so many stresses from pregnancy that you don't foresee, and it puts a lot of pressure on you and the father. You need to be self-supporting adults before you can really act appropriately in this very adult role as a parent. Please talk to your parents about this. This is something you cannot take back once it happens, and something that it is almost impossible to balance with schooling. Think also about the quality of life you will be giving your child, too. Best of luck!

LolaBean08 - Friday, 5 Oct
hmmm...i dont think i could possible answer your ? because if i said something you didnt want to hear your would do what you wanted anyway. When i was 17 i thought i wanted a baby...'accidently' missed a couple days of b/c and wound up preggo. I was paniked. I had graduated high school early and was starting college when i had here. ANd now am still in college, i can only take very limited credit hours...i would have been done now, and on top of that i have to study while my 2 kids are screaming. I have gotten used to it now but it has been so difficult. I have lost so many friends bc we were'nt on the same page. Just think everything through...what would be best for your future baby? I stuggle month to month and my husband makes really good money...please understand i love my children and would never trade them for anything, but i cry sometimes because i cannot give them the things i wish i could!!!

missyc - Friday, 5 Oct
to b honest with you at 15 your still a baby yourself, in 21 and dnt know if im ready for this baby. a baby isnt something you can have and pass off to ur parents cause your sick of it crying. u need to smack yourself in the side of your head n ask yourself if you want your whole life to change at 15 when you havent even lived your life yet

aprilloveswes - Friday, 5 Oct
I would if I was you, but the thing is I'm not you. Just know that raising a kid is so much harder than I thought, not physically, but mentally. I mean they drive you nuts sometimes, its alot of stress to deal with.. sometimes I dont even feel like me anymore because most of my friends are out doing whatever they want and i feel out of place because I need to be responsible but I dont want to hang around with 40 year old women either lol. But on the other hand when I look into my sons eyes I can almost cry because I love him so much. Are you financially stable? If not I would at least save up a good amount of money before trying, working while pregnant sucks a#* and money is a big fight starter once your a mom, you want to know where every penny is going so your kid is never without. Have you talked to your parents about it?

aprilloveswes - Friday, 5 Oct
Hey there so I'm not going to preach about young people having kids (I planned my first at 19) but I do have to say maybe you should wait a little longer. After you have kids theres no more you and him time and everything revolves around the baby. I wouldnt change my son for the world but I sometimes wish I had spent more time as a couple before getting pregnant. Your life completely changes and just getting time to sit and talk with each other can be hard. It puts alot of stress on a relationship and can cause people to break up. So just be careful and really think it though before jumping in. It will bring you closer together but in a way further apart because there will be three of you not just the two. Well good luck whatever your decision :)

Armarrie - Friday, 5 Oct
I think you should talk to your parents first cause they support you. I didn't and now im hiding my pregnancy from them and Im 19!

Armarrie - Friday, 5 Oct
I think you should talk to your parents first cause they support you. I didn't and now im hiding my pregnancy from them and Im 19!



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