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This is my first baby..IT'S A BOY!! I didnt think i would be so excited cuz i thought it was a girl...but im so happy it's a boy!!...The doc has given me three due dates..sept 11, sept 7, and aug 20...im starting to wonder if they know what they are talking about!!! either way im expecting a late summer birth due dates are hardly ever right anyway! Ive already gained 15 lbs I do know that and none of my jeans fit me anymore! i bought my first maternity pants the other day (march16) i wanted to cry..but i guess its a good thing! I havent got to wear them yet tho bc i work so much..good thing i have work pants from before i lost 30 lbs!! i'm abck in my "fat"clothes!

Tuesday, 1 AprWent to the doc today...babies heartbeat was in the 160 `s..everything looks good..they want to do another u/s at the end of april..i wont complain! I asked her how she knew the difference between my heartbeat and the babies and she let me hear mine on the doppler and BIG DIFF!! She was so nice though she took the time and explained every little thing to me it was actually the longest revisit i `ve had so far! Can `t wait til April 29th!!!

thursday apr 10 I switched to a real doctor from the clinic yesterday, and I went to get my medical records..the EDD from my frist u/s says sept 5th thats number 4!! i hope they can really tell at my u/s at the end of the month..i haev an older sister that died because my mom carried her like a month too long and since they dont know my due date im kind of scared they wont take it in time if he doesnt come on his own...hopefulyl he'll be ready to come a little early (not too early) but before october!!!!

April 25----Went to the doc today..got to see my little boy..he was flippin around like crazy wouldnt sit still for two seconds i was loving it!! he was 15 oz and heartrate was 143..this doc was soooooo much better and mroe in depth than the last one...they actually scheduled antoher u/s for next month becasue of something with the heart and ahving to do with down syndrome..the doc said its probably nothing and i prob ahev like a 1 in 3000 chance but it doesnt hurt to check..he freaked me out at first but then he said its nothing to be worried about most of the time its fine but they have to mention it and give you options of genetic testing and waht not..he said if i was older he might be more concerned but everyhitn else is normal and im young so its nto as big a risk factor...but we decide to go ahead and do antoher u/s just to make sure...now i really think i have to do the 3d ultrasound in june! ill love my baby no matter what thats why i didnt do the afp tests i didnt care what the results were..but i guess with the 3d they will be able to tell jsut in case i need special care or something for delivery...only time will tell tho...i jsut pray everynight my little boy will make it here safe and sound

went to the doc on may 23 and had another u/s doc said everyhting is fine so i feel better...and i had my baby shower on the 25th and got soooo much stuff it's unreal..my brother is in the navy so he got to come home and wanted to do soemting for the baby since he wont be here when he's born and it's his first "F U" (lol thats what he calls him..it's what my aunts calle dhim and my brother instead of nephews lol htye are wierd i know) i wanted him to go to the u/s but he didnt know what an ultrasound was so he didnt go and then after he saw the pics and was so mad he didnt go..he didnt tgell me he didnt know what it was he jsut didnt call me back so i oculdnt even explain it to him..and his wife and my mom were mad he didnt go becasue they could have but he didnt tell anyone! but they did the baby shower and now my room is full of baby stuff and the living room has stuf feverywhere too and i still have another shower for my mom's side!!! ah i'm gonna have baby stuff coming out of my ears! but ig uess you can never have too much!!

July 27---i'm so ready for the baby to be here...i cnat get comfortable no matter what i do....4 1/2 weeks ago they gave me shots to stop contractions..i guess it worked because i'm still here!! but now i'm ready to get the little guy out! i havent been gaining much weight the past month and a half maybe only a pound or so and one week i even lost a couple..doc doesnt seem to think it matters though..but ive gained 40 throughout so maybe thats why....one month 4 days to do !! (or sooner hopefully) i cant believe time has passed so fast! seems like just yesterday the doctor made me cry a nd i told her to recheck her test lol!! but he'll be here before i know it and i cant wait!

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firstbaby4lisa - Saturday, 23 August
Hi! They don't necessarily stop moving before labour starts, but they apparently do slow down quite a bit to conserve energy. My baby does the same thing too, the feet are permanently wedged on the right side of my belly, if I touch them they will move and then come back out again, I think it's the cutest thing though, like a little game we share.

eastern-Canadian-Lady - Tuesday, 19 August
Hopefully your sister knows how to take care of kids. Is there a sleeping and eating plan? She sounds too immature to make one. I would try to make sure to send Kraft dinner and hot dogs. It's the easiest thing to cook, LOL.

eastern-Canadian-Lady - Tuesday, 19 August
he probably has no clue that you are still upset about old things. Guys don't think like girls. They think the slate should automatically be wiped clean. It can't be unless we resolve what started the conflict. Sometimes it's better to wait until the heat of the moment has passed to talk. otherwise, we may say things we'll regret.

He's still pissy bc you went out without him. oh well, he can get good and mad, and then he can get good and over it! being a new mom, to somebody else's kid is tough. You had the right to get out.

maybe he is feeling a lot of pressure to provide for four people all of a sudden, whereas before, it was only himself. Guys go weird just before their gf/wives have a new baby. It's kind of normal, but not nice. he sounds REALLY immature, like I said, maybe 19. (and that is a generous figure!)She is really lucky to have somebody to turn to and trust. It sounds like she is very lacking in the security department. No wonder she acts up. My step son was the same way, a lot worse than my step-daughter was, until just the last three years.

Does your mom treat your sister like that bc of guilt? That sister of yours needs a wake up call. People in the real world don't put up with spoiled brats. They need to learn young that they don't always get what they want. My daughter knows that at 7. At your sister's age it should've been very concrete in her mind that the world doesn't revolve around her. She is in for a hard ride until she learns her lesson. The people that teach it to her may not be so nice about it.

I meant the same thing you said. It's not sad tears, it's tears of frustration and anger. My step son was violent. He use to get kicked out of elementary school almost daily bc of it. Then he started doing it at home, which is why I moved out for 4 yrs with my daughter. He punched walls too, they are all over his room. Before he moves out, I will make him patch every freakin one of them. His room looked really good when he moved in there. Now it looks like a hurricane hit it, and a tornado blew a garbage heap in it, and big rocks hit the walls. It smells really bad too. The doc refused to give the boy meds, even on advice of a child psychologist. He said that he worried about giving it to people under 18 bc their brains are still growing and it could inhibit some kind of chemical from doing what it would naturally do if it was given more time. In other words, hormones are all over the place, he may need meds but we'll wait for the hormones to be more regulated, go away and deal with it. OUCH CONTRACTION!!!.......

ok I'm back. I would love to have a vacation like that, even just once. We always stay with his parents. Just about his entire family lives in one place, mine lives near us. So it makes no sense to stay at a hotel to be able to visit people, especially since his parents have a house with three empty bedrooms. I can't believe that your siblings didn't pay your aunt back. I suppose they were young then, so they didn't think about it, but it sounds more like the me me me syndrom again.

LOL, I tried to ask his opinion for a girl's name today. he said he already told me a name, and that his opinion didn't matter. He wants Abigail. I don't everyone and there dog is naming their kids Abigail or Hannah or Maddison lately. I want a three syllable name that sounds good with Stephanie Marie and Allyson Rebecca.

I can see why you would be aggivated with him. I don't know how he can feel like you're on a vacation. You're a full time mom, and housekeeper and growing his baby. He has a very strange opinion. Buy one of those strap on bellies that add 30 lbs. I'd make him wear it for months!

Gosh, if he thinks yours are bad, he should see mine. My stretch marks are still very visible from my daughter. My belly looks like a street map!

Sorry things aren't going well. I would seriously try to ask, maybe after his daughter is in bed why he has been acting differently lately. Maybe it's lack of sleep? Everyone is grumpy when they aren't sleeping well. It could be because of stress from having so many changes in his life lately.

i should go too. I think I need sleep. I have to go to the ob tomorrow morning. have a good night.

scorpgrl20 - Monday, 18 August
The Charley horses will go away soon ..I used to get them all the time in the middle of my pregnancy, but for some reason since I had to take more vitamins they stopped. Anyway i learned the quickest way to get rid of the pain was to jump out of bed and stand up.

mrcleanswife - Monday, 18 August
I have had really bad cramps in the legs both of them. I think it's where the baby lays on the nerves in your legs. Try putting 2 pillows between your legs when you sleep at night. One near your whoo-ha and one between your knees and feet. Also try drinking extra orange juice it has more potas. then a bannana does. Good luck you don't have much longer.

eastern-Canadian-Lady - Sunday, 17 August
So, your BF does the same frustrating thing that mine does, eh? I hate beign late, so when I say I want to be somewhere I get really annoyed if he doesn't get ready on time, bc then I am late. He KNOWS that HATE being late.
H did the same thing to me last weekend when we were getting ready to go to his co-workers retirement party.

The party started at 7, we live a half hour away from where it was, plus we had to go 15 minutes in the other direction TWICE, one to get there and one to get back. he didn't START getting ready until 6:50, and then he couldn't find his shoes. He looked forever, and then accused me of putting them somewhere. I don't wear his shoes. Why would I move them, other than to put the away to vacuum? then we dropped Ally off, then he looked at used cars, then went to the post office, then McDonlalds, the we got on the road for the party. we were over an hour late! I never get out, so I really wanted to go see people and have fun. I know how frustrating that can be. Your BF was probably just sulking cuz you went out and he didn't.

the only difference with h is that he won't just walk out on me in a store. He will at least try to explain what he is thinking. I would be really fumed if he did that!

I'm glad Ally follows my example for MOST things. Sometimes I wish she would follow other people's example, especially when she is frustrated. My example is to shut down. Other people talk.

I understand about not putting the other parent down, but after she started saying things about h, and h and I, and me, I felt the need to defend myself a lot. One time she told the kids a story about h setting his cat on fire! WTF!!! Anyway, h had told me what happened before, so I quickly told them the difference. He was lighting a match to get candles going for a cake, the cat ran by, got a tiny flame on it's tale, that it didn't even notice. h and his friend were trying to chase the cat, it got scared and took off running. Hsi ex didn't bother to tell the kids the rest of the story. She just wanted to make him look bad. How pathetic!

I hope that things will work out with his son. I hope things go much better than you expect. How can she try to make him hate you. It's him that she should hate. You didn't know they were together. He DID and he made the choice to lie to you.

You can't stand her? I had to live with her! she didn't even have her license, or permit, or a job to pay for gas or insurance. But she had them totally convinced that it was her car. Maybe she was jealous bc her bf's mom gave her bf a car. She makes much more money than us, and needed a new car. She knew she couldn't get much for her old clunker, so instead of selling, she kept it and gave it to her son on his 16th birthday. It wasn't much, but I can see her being jealous and lying to make herself sound good. I can't understand how she would think I would never know. She knows that her ex bf's mother and I get along!

The girl knows that her mom is crazy now, bc a few weeks after she moved in there, she called here crying to her dad. Her mother had fallen somewhere and was on crutches. The girl was (probably pretending to be) being nice. She offered (in her words) to take the laundry down the stairs. Her mother said not to bother, and started yelling at her saying that she would probably rather have her mother fall down the stairs and get hurt again. She said "I can't stand living with mom. She is F'n crazy!" nwo she (says that she) goes from one friend's couch to another. i think that really she just stays at her boyfriend's house all the time.

I cry when things don't go right, bc I get frustrated and can't talk about what I am thinking. I am pretty shy most of the time, in that I don't like talking to strangers much. I am better now than I use to be, bc I use to work in a call centre, so it helped. But if someone is not listening to what I want to say, I get frustrated, then shut down, I can't talk at all. When I try to talk usually all that happens is that I cry. i can't relate to watning a gma. I never had one. I am shocked that you want everyone there. Who will be responsible for the little girl? Your best friend and cousin?

I don't really like most of the hospitals here bc they are so small and get so little funding that they can't save lives. They just stabilize long enough to take you by ambulance to the next nearest place.

Yup, everyone does know pretty much everyone else. I don't mind most of the time. i wish more nice people would move in sometimes. I can't go in public EVER without seeing at least 10 people that I know. It's awful when you look like crap bc you are about to deliver. I feel like everyone talks about it, LOL.

Our vacations mainly consist of going camping with family, or using a friend's cottage, or packing to go visit and stay with family. Not really expensive things, and not luxurious either. We don't stay in hotels, or fly anywhere. Nobody here can afford that.

i can understand about not wanting to wait another year for school. It's expensive for a babysitter all bc of a few days. I would definately talk to my doc about it if I were you. H doesn't want the baby on that day. He says it will be way too complicated bc of school. He wants baby earlier than that, by about a week. I should give him my uterus, and let him decide!

I had better run too. I am late making supper. ttyl

eastern-Canadian-Lady - Friday, 15 August
Well, that must be a relief. Free is the best price, LOL.
I hope all of the kids get counselling. It sounds like they would all need it. Will the kids be able to see each other much?

That girl tried to fight you? Wow, that's messed up! Especially considering she was pregnant.

I think it's funny that your not allowed to have a day at home. It's good that your following through on discipline with the little girl. She needs to learn to behave now, or it will just get worse. Your gpa sounds like quite the character!

Ok, so me not knowing my cousin doesn't seem that far fetched, that's good. I really don't know any of my cousins. I have 5 on my mom's side, and only 3 that I should know on my dad's side. My dad had a lot of siblings, but they were a lot older than him. The rest of his siblings and their kids mostly live around here, but they don't really talk to my dad. Even if they did, I don't talk to him, so it's no wonder that I don't know them.

I don't really like sex either. I use to be in really bad pain every time. Pain doesn't appeal to me, so naturally sex didn't either. I don't get pain the way I use to.
Ew, bleeding would gross my h out too. My h told me tonight that he is in "protection mode". He just wants to protect us and not hurt us. So nothing until December.

I don't think I could do labour without an epi. I sometimes get scared that the aneastetist will be too busy to see me this time. Last time I laboured hard from about 6:30 pm until 10:10 pm with no pain meds bc he was in the O.R. bc of an accident. He almost didn't make it. It ended up ok. He started marking at 10:10, then I fell asleep and woke up to my ob telling me to push at 10:40. I argued with him and promised to come back in the morning, bc I was tired, LOL. He said no, I had to do it then. After waking up a bit, I pushed. She was out at 10:50. I only pushed for two contractions for her. I was so glad to have the epidural!!!

3 cm? lucky. The first 4 or 5 can sometimes crawl by so slowly. As soon as you feel something go to the hospital bc you are likely to have a VERY quick delivery. Especially bc you have already dilated so much. My baby hardly moved today. I had contractions, but not much else. I think baby may be resting up for the big event, but I could be wrong.

good luck. I hope that the day is Saturday for you too. ttyl

mumsie26 - Wednesday, 13 August
just a note to say not long now and hope all you ladies are well ..yippee.not long now!! i know some of you are more along than others with pre labour symptoms so good luck and keep in touch . god bless..xx paula

eastern-Canadian-Lady - Wednesday, 13 August
Medical insurance is probably expensive there. I love our system in some ways. We don't need money to go to the doc or hospital, bc we pay for it out of our taxes. That's one reason why our taxes are so high, which isn't wonderful, but at least when somebody needs care they get it.
i hate social workers, I don't care if they come to my house either, but I hate when they get really nosey.

Most likely if she got counselling now it will help so she won't need as much later. They do a lot of play therapy with kids her age. It sounds like all they do it play, but I have SEEN how well it worked on my step kids, but more so with my step daughter when she was young. I would do it again for them in a heart beat.

It's sad that anybodies baby died, but it sounds like none of them learned a thing from it. How dumb is that!

It stands to reason that if you write every day, and you only write from there, that you must REALLY see your gma every day!! That is incredible! I think that would be wonderful. I can't beleive that you said that to her though, LOL!

It sounds like your kids, and your cousin's kids will be really close too. The last time I saw any of my cousins was when I was shopping about 5 yrs ago. I saw her for two minutes, but only bc she stopped me. I had no idea who she was. She was little older than me, like maybe 8 yrs. I only saw her about three times in my life up until then, once was a year earlier at her mother's (my sperm donor's sister's) funeral. I was pregnant, and there were so many people that I really woulnd't have remembered. Before that I was about 14 when I saw any other cousins. Most didn't live in my province.

I have felt the same way as you about not getting too excited!! I am just starting to feel excited a little bit. Get an epidural. People will say all kinds of things to try to scare you, but really, I looked very closely at the stats regarding epis, and it seems to me your chances of anything going wrong are close to the same as winning the lottery, TWICE!

No sex for me apparently until Dec, at the least. h doesn't want to now, and I won't be healed later. So I guess if you can, enjoy it now.

Well, I will probably blog about my appointment that I went to today. TTYL

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