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This is my first baby..IT'S A BOY!! I didnt think i would be so excited cuz i thought it was a girl...but im so happy it's a boy!!...The doc has given me three due dates..sept 11, sept 7, and aug 20...im starting to wonder if they know what they are talking about!!! either way im expecting a late summer birth due dates are hardly ever right anyway! Ive already gained 15 lbs I do know that and none of my jeans fit me anymore! i bought my first maternity pants the other day (march16) i wanted to cry..but i guess its a good thing! I havent got to wear them yet tho bc i work so much..good thing i have work pants from before i lost 30 lbs!! i'm abck in my "fat"clothes!
thursday apr 10 I switched to a real doctor from the clinic yesterday, and I went to get my medical records..the EDD from my frist u/s says sept 5th thats number 4!! i hope they can really tell at my u/s at the end of the month..i haev an older sister that died because my mom carried her like a month too long and since they dont know my due date im kind of scared they wont take it in time if he doesnt come on his own...hopefulyl he'll be ready to come a little early (not too early) but before october!!!!
April 25----Went to the doc today..got to see my little boy..he was flippin around like crazy wouldnt sit still for two seconds i was loving it!! he was 15 oz and heartrate was 143..this doc was soooooo much better and mroe in depth than the last one...they actually scheduled antoher u/s for next month becasue of something with the heart and ahving to do with down syndrome..the doc said its probably nothing and i prob ahev like a 1 in 3000 chance but it doesnt hurt to check..he freaked me out at first but then he said its nothing to be worried about most of the time its fine but they have to mention it and give you options of genetic testing and waht not..he said if i was older he might be more concerned but everyhitn else is normal and im young so its nto as big a risk factor...but we decide to go ahead and do antoher u/s just to make sure...now i really think i have to do the 3d ultrasound in june! ill love my baby no matter what thats why i didnt do the afp tests i didnt care what the results were..but i guess with the 3d they will be able to tell jsut in case i need special care or something for delivery...only time will tell tho...i jsut pray everynight my little boy will make it here safe and sound
went to the doc on may 23 and had another u/s doc said everyhting is fine so i feel better...and i had my baby shower on the 25th and got soooo much stuff it's unreal..my brother is in the navy so he got to come home and wanted to do soemting for the baby since he wont be here when he's born and it's his first "F U" (lol thats what he calls him..it's what my aunts calle dhim and my brother instead of nephews lol htye are wierd i know) i wanted him to go to the u/s but he didnt know what an ultrasound was so he didnt go and then after he saw the pics and was so mad he didnt go..he didnt tgell me he didnt know what it was he jsut didnt call me back so i oculdnt even explain it to him..and his wife and my mom were mad he didnt go becasue they could have but he didnt tell anyone! but they did the baby shower and now my room is full of baby stuff and the living room has stuf feverywhere too and i still have another shower for my mom's side!!! ah i'm gonna have baby stuff coming out of my ears! but ig uess you can never have too much!!
July 27---i'm so ready for the baby to be here...i cnat get comfortable no matter what i do....4 1/2 weeks ago they gave me shots to stop contractions..i guess it worked because i'm still here!! but now i'm ready to get the little guy out! i havent been gaining much weight the past month and a half maybe only a pound or so and one week i even lost a couple..doc doesnt seem to think it matters though..but ive gained 40 throughout so maybe thats why....one month 4 days to do !! (or sooner hopefully) i cant believe time has passed so fast! seems like just yesterday the doctor made me cry a nd i told her to recheck her test lol!! but he'll be here before i know it and i cant wait!
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Snugglebug - Wednesday, 30 July
I'm sorry to hear that. :( And if she's denying him visitations, that's a violation of parental guidelines and he could make HER pay for court costs if he wins. That's the way it was where I come from, anyway. Your state may be different. I'd find out, that's his son, regardless of the cost. She can't keep him from his son. What a pathetic mother, bleh, she can't even call herself that, if she's being so immature.
3rdboymom - Wednesday, 30 July
You can always change the name later or hyphen it.
MELINDA73072 - Wednesday, 30 July
I was going to take the Zoloft to help me be able to deal with my 14 year old daughter that has Oppositional Defiant Disorder which there is no cure or medicine for. I'm constantly fussing and getting upset with her for doing things deliberately. I just don't want to be yelling and screaming around my baby.
adriennella - Wednesday, 30 July
Awww, very sweet. I love your bedding and froggy rug! Your little boy will love it, too. sc00by1432 - Wednesday, 30 July
you cant blame yourself, maybe hes afraid to be a dad.Who knows y guys do what they do...I cant wait to go back to work myself ya hes paying all the bills but I got no money for myself and it sux! I lived with my mom my 1st child 10 years ago and let me tell you it was very convenient I had plenty of money and freedom whenever I needed it LOL...I really hope everything works out for you!
eastern-Canadian-Lady - Wednesday, 30 July
It's still a cute belly, no matter how far along! I love many names but HATE the shortened versions. Collin is nice, but there really is no shorter version, is there?
I always loved Andrew, even if h says no. Andy isn't as nice. I like Malcolm, but hate Mack.
I wasn't trying to lose either. I was working in a kindergarten class since Sept. I started getting sick within a week. There were so many germs, and I couldn't fight them. I kept getting one thing after another. I started throwing up on Oct 3rd, and found out I had an infection in my sinuses. Then about two weeks later I was sicker than before. I thought the meds should have kicked in by then, so I went to the hospital. They said I didn't have a sinus infection, but a really bad double lung infection. I was on the wrong med, so it wasn't working at all to help cure the real problem. I started testing for pregnancy in Nov., I think in total i took 7 test, all were negative. I felt like I had never really gotten over it, bc in Jan I was still throwing up. ( 3 months was a long time.) I made an appointment in Jan, I was told then that I was pregnant. They said about 9 weeks. I couldn't figure out exactly when I had conceived bc my last period was at the beginning of Nov......so anyway, I was just so sick that I couldn't eat, so my body started to use energy from stored fat. Once fat was gone my muscles start deteriorating. I was very very weak. It hurt just to walk. I had to move my microwave to clean the counter, and my muscles ached for about a week. I can usually lift about 100 lbs no problem. My microwave was about 15 lbs.
I probably would have planned it differently than how it started, but either way the end result is the same.
Moving out?? why would he do that? You have gone through so much of this pregnancy together. Is he just freaking out at becoming a dad? That happens, but usually it is in the beginning from what I understand. I wouldn't invite him either, or at least that is how I would feel. I probably would end up feeling guilted into it though. He probably will be fine as soon as he first set eyes on the little bundle. Sex, um.....I am so uncomfortable now....I don't want to be touched, unless it's a back rub, LOL.
Get a plastic toy if it comes to that, LOL. That would be the only advice I can give.
I have to run to the post office. I have to be back by my daughter's bed time, have a good night. ttyl.
Snugglebug - Wednesday, 30 July
Oooooh, I do like Caiden Christopher Lee! Those three have a nice ring to them! As far as the other woman, if you two are married, she can't keep him away from you. And if she's really trying, then it's obviously affecting his visitations and I'd take her to court. That's very immature and she's only hurting her son. He SHOULD know his brother and they SHOULD be close!
Snugglebug - Wednesday, 30 July
Oh, and I was going to flip-flop the middle names, if we went with Macsen, because it did seem to flow better - Gavin Timothy Macsen.
Snugglebug - Wednesday, 30 July
Yep, same mother and father, I guess that could make a little bit of a difference. I think I could see why you wouldn't want him to have the same name as 'the other woman's' baby, lol. I agree, we wanted something a little more unique or old world kind of, not something so common. Now, after choosing Gavin, I find out that name is apparently booming all of a sudden. Figures, lol! We actually chose the name Gavin before we were even married, let alone prego. Yeah, we're weird and talked about stuff like that WAY ahead of time, lol. Hmmm, that's a tough decision for you, though. If it weren't for the other woman, I'd probably not think twice about it, simply because I'm used to my brothers having the same middle name. I'm not much of a help. :( Maybe you can try to find a variance of it? I was considering the name Macsen, instead of Mac, just so it would still have hubby's grandpa's name in it, but not sound so plain. And Macsen is a variant of Maximus, which means 'the greatest', and I've NEVER heard it before, so definitely unique. So I thought it was cool. Hubby was pretty firm with just sticking with Mac because THAT was his grandpa's name. I was set on DEFINITELY naming him after grandpa, so I went along with it. :)
Snugglebug - Wednesday, 30 July
Thank you! :) If it makes you feel any better, both of my older brothers' middle names are the same, after our dad, even though it's not a tradition on my side of the family. I think it's all about meaning and how it will reflect the thought and meaning that YOU choose to put into it. :)
mumsie26 - Tuesday, 29 July
omg!! yes i opted for a new rug rather than a new carpet as i can`t manage to move items in my lounge at this stage..lol.
i am sure things can only get better.. you have aposotive attitude too..good luck and i hope you get back on your feet.. smile
adriennella - Tuesday, 29 July
I'd love to see your nursery when you do it! Did your mom buy your furniture for you?
kytti - Tuesday, 29 July
Aw, how disappointing. :( I am so sorry to hear all that...
adriennella - Tuesday, 29 July
what are you doing today?
sc00by1432 - Tuesday, 29 July
Im sorry! But look on the bright side hes not the only guy, maybe it will work out or maybe it wont we dont need any guys to take care of us! LOL
mumsie26 - Tuesday, 29 July
i am sure you`ll be fine, i left home at that age too just like you i couldn`t stand it then had to go back then met hubby adn moved out again.lol.. but i don`t get on with my mother she too controlling and moans too much.lol.. but i am sur eif you do and you can pay you way that helps ,it at least makes you feel better, and it would only be short term i expect.. good luck and better things are always around the corner.. blink
adriennella - Tuesday, 29 July
I get pains during the night, too, but it's worst when I walk up!
kytti - Tuesday, 29 July
I hope things get better for you -- I'll be thinking of you. :)
kytti - Tuesday, 29 July
:big hugs: I am sorry to hear what you are going through with the BF... if you ever need a gal to talk to feel free to message me! You don't need someone like that in you or your baby's life though..... if he can't shape up then I guess it is good he ships out. I am sure you'd both be better off (you and the baby) if all he is going to do is treat you poorly and cause you stress. I'm here for ya girlie!
angelancayden - Tuesday, 29 July
lol im serious i feel like a crazy person b/c in one second i fly so mad and then 3 hours later its like nothing happend.
sc00by1432 - Tuesday, 29 July
Aww Im sorry..I know what u mean I cant work either and the money situations create stress!!! My husband pays for everything right now but still complains about it.. Im the type that cant keep my mouth closed and hormones dont make it any better. This is common I think cause we all are fighting with our spouses at some point LOL
adriennella - Tuesday, 29 July
I don't think I could work any more. Actually, I know that I couldn't. I hate to admit it, but I'm kind of ready to get this part over with.
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