I am 16. I might be pregnant. When i told my bf that i was a weeks late he dumped me. Now im 15 days late. I get light headed,head achs,boobs KILLLING ME and i have blue veins showin in my boobs, my abs hurt( now im not skiny but i do work out. I wear A size 14 ) my ancles look swollen my lower back hurts. I have been peeing more i have been craveing mexkcan food. Does it sound like im pregnant?? And my dad is a preacher so i dont know what to do…. I have nobody helping me threw this. Please help. And im not a lil kod makein this up! Im scaered to death. I have been cryimg every night because i dont know what to do??? Help pleasse!!!!
Were you using protection? If not it takes two to make a baby and your boyfriend (ex) is a moron for dumping you if he willingly had sex with you without protection. You will eventually have to tell your parents, pregnancy is one of those things you can’t hide for too long. How can you not get a test? They sell them at the dollar store they are affordable and easy to get. There’s also planned parenthood, they will help you out. If you are pregnant you’ll want to get prenatal care right away starting with prenatal vitamins and folic acid.
Congrats!!!! One thing at a time. Think of what YOU really want and let your parents know. You need to start pre-natal care asap. It’s not the end of the world. Just be honest with them and most likely they will be by your side. Mind you, they may get very upset but your still there daughter and they love you unconditionally. Time to grow up. You need to let baby daddy know too so he can help out. Your parents come first though. We are all here for support and advice!!! GL
Sweetie, he’s a preacher. Violence is NEVER the answer. Plus your pregnant. I can’t imagine him laying a hand on you. He is probably going to be mad for a while. It sounds like your mom is helping and some what supportive. The fault is your own. You were scared to begin with and now this is what is happening. But your brave and being honest and the truth will always prevail. Give your dad some time. He’s a man sweetie and men are not like women at all. Hear him out and make sure he hears you out as well. DO NOT YELL OR GET DEFENSIVE… That will just make things worse. KEEP IN TOUCH… A lot of us are worried about you and want to support you so don’t keep us in the dark. Good Luck!!!
Your father is completely wrong!!! He helped raise you as well. He is probably hurt and angry that his little girl isn’t so little anymore. Let your mom handle him. It’s going to take time but you are carrying his grandchild. Give him some time and he may continue to say things that hurt, but that is what men do when they can’t control the situation. Keep us all posted.
Have your mom help you tell your dad. She may help soften the blow. It’s awesome that you told your mom so soon. When you say the health department, do you mean your Dr.? Also, do you know the first day of your last menstral period? That will tell you when your due. I hope everything works out for you… GL
I told my cousin, she didnt belive me. So she made me take another one so i took it and it was a clear blue and it said pregnant. I told my mammy (grandma) than i sat down with my mom. Shes going to take me up to the health department tomorrow. So i only gotta tell me dad. Im soooo scared!!!! Still have questions about my pregnancy!!!!
well not knowing is not going to make it disappear and if you are you need to get setup for a doctor….and if you are think about the baby and not how your dad will react because he probably will be upset at first cause pregancy will make him see you in a different way, not so much his lil girl anymore, but as a preacher and parent he will never stop loving you and will accept it!!
I want to keep it
But im to scared to tell my da i dont want to let him down im suppose to be his lil angel. But im not… My bf dumped me and i dont know what to do. My mom she is the middle child out of her sisters and she got pregnant at 16 too. Cpuld it be a tradition. But they told my sister that she cant have kids. An i have never missed my period before. And i have been haveing thes BAD mood swings. I just need help
Is it true u fart more when ur pregnant??? I herd this is it true???
i had my daughter just before i turned 16, so i know what you’re going through. i’m 19 now – she’s 3, and i gave her a little brother last year. i can help if you decide to keep the baby – planned parenthood is a great idea, and i definitely agree – you have to be honest with your parents and let them know what you want to do and why. first and foremost – you’ve got to test and find out, because if you’re not – there’s obviously no sense in worrying
Planned parenthood can help with a HPT. Be honest with your parents. It sucks I know but that will do you good in the long run. Do you have a plan? Like do you want to keep it or give it up for adoption? Have a plan and what YOU want to do, before you speak to anyone. BUT FIRST YOU NEED TO FIND OUT IF YOU ARE!!! Good luck and great big HUGS to you….
All of us here will be honest with you and are or have expierenced what you are going through. Some are married, some are just BF/GF, some are or getting divorced, but we all have one thing in common. We have kids…. Or trying. First you need to find out if you are pregnant. Then just take one step at a time. Remember we are here to help the best we can.