Hello, forum visitors! I need your advice.
Well, I am going to turn to IVF. I am 42 and it is the only way for me to have a baby. I really want to make my family full and big. My spouse wants it too. But I am a little afraid of the procedure. So it is so helpful not only for me! I am sure that this information is needed by the other women too. Thank you for it. I am worried a bit. Hope that it will be worth of it. Of course I try to believe in myself. Choosing the clinic is very responsible and serious step. I completely understand it. And I know that I should to start with it. I hope that my first attempt will not be a failure. I know that it depends on doctors and your health. I don’t know what clinic to choose. How to make the right choice? Is there any sense to visit different clinics? I know that IVF program is the same all over the world, so I am going to pass tests not in one clinic. Now I try to learn as much information as I can. I want to do all that I can to achieve my goal. So, maybe you can tell me something useful? Maybe something about clinics? Or about the procedure in general? Hope you will help me. Thank you so much.
I can tell you by personal example how to do IVF with donor eggs.
My husband and I tried to conceive for more than 6 years but to no avail. I had several miscarriages, which brought a huge upset to our family.
In 2014, I had a cyst on both large ovaries. I had to undergo an operation, during which doctors completely removed my ovaries. Since then, there was no question of pregnancy.
Then my doctor suggested that I learn more about IVF with donor eggs.
It was the only way out for us. In 2016 we decided to do the procedure. We had a good donor.
Now I am the mother of a wonderful daughter, for which I am grateful to fate!
Hi there, I believe the desire to become parents and start a family can be anyone’s wishes irrespective of the age. Yes, with the age the reproductive vitality does deplete and it’s possible that you can no longer conceive or have a full-term gestation naturally. However, with advanced fertility aid that doesn’t really mean you’ll be deprived of having children of your own and start a family. What does your diagnostic report say? You didn’t mention your DH’s age so in case he is over 35 you’ll need to run a full sperm analysis on him to be sure of which path you should take on your fertility journey. If your AMH is still within the stipulated limit and you’re still getting your AF you might as well try IVF with own-eggs and see if that works. If the vagaries of the menstrual cycle is on, the donor conception gives more hope than own-eggs IVF. But make sure you do talk to your ER about whether your uterian lining and aspect associated with it seem fine to be able to support a full-term gestation? If not, then you’ll have to explore the option of surrogacy. Well, all the processes are high-end and naturally expensive but then you can try to seek financial aid or reproductive tourism to help you have a miracle within affordable expense. Wish you luck!
Hi, dear!
You know, I will be very glad to help you. First of all, I want to say, that the clinic I turned helped to find my best friend. Well, before that I visited some other clinics. You know, I liked them. But their prices were pretty high. First we wanted to turn to several of those clinics. But them my friend of my spouse told us a story about her cousin. His wife had the same problem. They also chose IVF and visited a Ukrainian clinic. Fortunately, this woman became a mother after the first try. He said, that the clinic is good enough. So we decided that we should try to turn to it too. We were thinking about it for a long time. Finally, we turned to BioTexCom. When were came there, we have questioned the doctors about all the points. We find out that the clinic is really good. Moreover, it is considered to be one of the best. The percentage of success is pretty high. So I pass some tests. That is why we decide to start the procedure. When I knew, that everything was fine, I told it to my husband. He was so glad. I may say that the doctors are great specialists. They are very friendly and always ready to help. The conditions are good enough too. As for the prices, I may say that they are not so high as in the other clinics. IVF is pretty expensive procedure, but some clinics make it even more expensive. I think that you may turn to it. Maybe you will like it too. I am sure, they can help you. Hope that you will be fine. Be happy!
Hi Amily, don’t be scared… everything will go smoothly! Remember you might need more than one transfer for success and it’s even better if you go for ICSI+IVF presuming your husband will also be around your age. You need to choose a clinic that specialises in premenopausal women to give it the best shot. Also, please get a through sperm analysis for your DH and consult the viability of your eggs based on the hormonal level reports. Women at your age might have egg quality problems, sometimes it can be helped with supplements like DHEA etc sometime doesn’t. I understand the need for being the biological mom but in case the chance looks slim with OE, it’s best to consider donor conception IVF. Yes, you’ll probably have to compromise being the biological mother but then you’ll experience both gestation and motherhood. Good Luck!