What is everyone`s sex life like after having a baby?? Before I got pregnant, and even while I was preggo, hubby and I had sex at least once a week. Our daughter is now 9 months old and we`re lucky if we have sex once every 3 weeks! Life is just so different now then it used to be. My husband works construction so he doesnt usually get home until 6:30-7pm, when I get home from work Im cooking dinner, feeding the baby, cleaning up after dinner, bathing baby, bottle and bed for her, sometimes laundry…its exhausting. It`s hard to be in the mood when you`re so tired and my husband has been the same way, we`re just drained. Has anyone else experienced a lack in sexual desire after having a baby?? What can I do?