Mothers in law

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    mross615
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    why does it seem all mother in laws are evil. Mine i do not talk to and do not allow to see my children. and for good reason. Her husband molested my daughter and she totally stuck up for him calling my daughter, her own granddaughter a b*tch and a liar. My daughter was 5 years old!!!! I am so glad she is out of my life and i just hope that none of you end up with a monster in law like i got

    #6936428

    minibump
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    my soon to be mil is lovely abit dipsy but lovely shes gettin 2 grandkids in 1 year so she is super excited

    #6936684

    Wonderland
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    mine is just a selfish person who expects free stuff from all. we drove 1 hour to help her clean out her garage and then she says she needs us to fill up her gas can to pay her neighbor back some gas and she cna’t cause she only has 30 cents in her checkbook til payday. Then, when it’s time for us to go, she’s like, hurry up, i have to go to Wendy’s to buy a Frosty? / What? / #1. you’re diabetic and don’t need a frosty #2. I thought you onyl had 30 cents to your name and no frosty I know costs 30 cents. #3. I’m sick and tired of you ‘borrowing’ money all the time…and no, usually it’s way more than 5 dollars, put a couple extra digits on there. / I’m just about to tell her cheap and dishonest and greedy little disgusting self off. It’s just her, grow up, get another job, budget your money. I have a family to take care of, your grandchild. She doesn’t care, she’ll take food out of the mouth of her grandkid if it means she gets what she wants. And yes, she does ride around on a broomstick….witch!

    #6936940

    Lila2cute
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    I hate my sister’s mother in law 🙁

    #6936429

    ItsChelle
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    my mil,actually came over for my sons bday, my hubby did not get around to inviting her, she showed up on her own,i was confused and had thought she knew..but she didnt..i said were having some people over and dinner and i asked her to come back and eat..and she did! my mom and sisters, neighbors were here too,half in the dining room and my half in living room,so i was back and forth, my mil asked me to sit down by her, but i couldnt sit for long as i wasnt going to leave my family sitting without me..it was rough, but i made it through..she also bought me an estee lauder makeup case..i dont use anything but the lipgloss, but its the thought that counts..lol and she asked if i changed my mind about having them for christmas, but of course not,things are looking up finally!!! so there is hope out there!!!

    #6936685

    krystalnf
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    wonderland….your MIL sounds like a true bitch. i am so sorry. but the way i see, i don’t have to deal with mine on a regular basis. but to take food out of the mouth of her own grandchild, i’d be going off. good luck with her. my step-mother is the same way. she rides on a broom too. she’s been that way all the time i’ve known her tho. BEK, my step mom did that with my dad with me one day. he thought i was making the stuff up. for 13 years, how can i make that up? but he finally saw it one day because i told her i don’t want my child calling her grandma. i said any other name is fine but my mom and my husband’s mom are going to be grandma. she went off. just like my dad is going to be grandpa, my step dad said he wants to go by g-pa (lol) but he didn’t have the least bit thing wrong with it. he said he understood. my step-mom didn’t.

    #6936941

    Lila2cute
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    Baby-saty away from her!!! Its her responsiblity as the adult to try to make things work… just think about what kind of grandmother you are going to be and how if you didn’t see your grandchild for 3 weeks you would have done everything in your power to see her/him. Forget her!!! Danm b****!!! mross615-good for you, dont ever talk to that evil B****!!!

    #6936430

    stargazer530
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    jenna – I can sympathize with you. While this is my first child, my MIL is a crazy drunk and I see how she acts with her other grandchildren. If your MIL is anything like mine, the grabbing and holding the child is a way for her to get attention since everyone is always paying extra attention to the baby. When she is supposed to be babysitting her grandchildren she is always trying to pawn them off on someone else or asking someone to watch them while she goes and does this or that but if someone else is holding or paying attention to the child, she has to run up and grab them. I am truly dreading her having anything to do with my child. In the end, she may be the grandparent, but you are the mother and gave birth to the child, and can and should decide who spends time with your children. I am sure many people have opposing ideas, but unless you walk in someone else’s shoes you truly have no idea what they go thru. My baby isn’t even here yet and I am already dreading and fearing for my child when she will be around the inlaws. I don’t want my child exposed to the crazy drunkeness that is my MIL. DH and I have already agreed as well that MIL will not ever be keeping the baby or around her without our supervision.

    #6936686

    I’m going to rant a little bit because I really need to get some of my frustration with my MIL out. I know that there are quite a few things that we do not see eye to eye about, but I am to the point that I just cringe and get knots in my stomach whenever she is mentioned. I just don’t understand why she treats our family the way she does. She is a stranger to my children, and then with my SIL’s she has their kids All the time! It’s hard when you’re 5 year old begs his grandmother to spend time with him and she says no, but then whenever we go over she has all of the other grandchildren around her and wont spend any time with yours. I guess I’m to the point that I’m finished. I don’t want to try and include her, because we are always told no. I’m still upset that when I miscarried, I had 2 kids (age 4years and 10m) and was helping my SIL by watching her son (age 3m) and they refused to help me out at all. Or this last one where my 2 girls (age 2y and 5m) had croup and another resp infec. and I just found out I’m preg again and I had been up almost every night for 3 weeks taking care of my girls, I called and begged my MIL to help me because I was at the breaking point and she told me no. I could handle that, but then she didn’t even call to see how me and the kids were after that. I’m just so frustrated with it all!

    #6936942

    mross615
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    Oh believe me i wont. My husband took it very hard but i am very happy he stood by my side and my daughters side and realized that his mom is not a good person. I never wanted to take him away from his mom cuz he was a mommas boy but she did it to herself. The sad thing about it is the grandfather got away with molesting my daughter so my mother in law throws it in our face like ‘see your daughter is a liar’ when really i believe my little girl and even the detectives believe her. they just didnt feel that they had a strong enough case to prosecute him. =( its devistating. I just hope he doesnt molest or rape any other child. The justice system is corrupt and people like my mother in law and her husband should be in prison. My mother in law should be in trouble for endangering a child and well her husband for what he did to my little girl

    #6936431

    Bek30
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    I just went to our small town light up the christmas tree thing. Anyway, My in-laws were their, the mum, dad, brother, wife and their baby. Well anyway when I am walking down the street with my kids, my mil either bolts across the road, or throws insults in my face. So they walked around, but kept an eye on my family and all the friends we were sitting with, so about 2hrs later all of them except my MIL came over ( Mil bolted to the other side of the road, gutless wonder will not say anything when I am with ppl, she will only do when I am byself), so they come up and my bil says to hubby this is my baby, come and have a look, hubby tells me to come and have a look, and I couldn’t help myself, I said naaa they didn’t ask me, so I’m not looking ( prehaps a bit childish), they just look at my daughter ( they have never seen her) and says god poor thing looks like her mum, bloody nasty bastards, I wish the lot of them would just go fall off the face of the earth!!!!!! Talk about trying to ruin my good night, but I must admit I didn’t let them, but none of us could not help but laugh our ass’s off at the fact that MIL ran away. Hubby ended up telling his family to get out of our faces, but the funny thing was, my sister and bil were their cuddling my daughter and covering her in kisses….lol.

    #6936687

    Bek30
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    Linz, I would just tell ure mil that since she can’t treat ure kids as grandchildren and the way she treats the other kids, that u have an easy solution to it, don’t bother with her anymore, don’t go c her… thats what I ended up doing. I just said to hubby one day, that it is not fair on our son to be treated this way, and I refuses for him to believe this is the way u treat family either… so we walked away. He knows who they r, what they look like ( ogres is putting it nicely…lol), and he will point to them and say their is dad’s mummy. I got my back up when my son kept asking me why they were so nasty to him when we visited, but if the extended family were their she would treat him like a grandchild…. 2 faced bastards, I can’t stand them, and refuse to tolerate them.

    #6936943

    CdnBabyLuv
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    latest…..My MIL has been calling and telling us she is having withdrawl from her grandson and the not yet born baby, trying to make us feel guilty. So my husband calls them last night, and his Mom is too busy to talk to her Grandson!!! WTF!!!??? then when he reminds them of taking our son to the local zoo on saturday for a few hours (not a big zoo, you could do the whole place in an hour) they are too busy getting the house ready JUST IN CASE they decide to list it for sale, and we told them about it lat week and the week before!!!! Ok…did I hear you right???You have been bitching for weeks that you have not seen your grandson, then you can’t take 5 minutes to talk to him last night and can’t take 2 hours on Saturday to see him. But we are expected to leave work early or cancel plans for them!!!! aaargh!!! I am so sick of it!!!

    #6936432

    Bek 30- my BIL has never seen our newest baby. He is 12 weeks. And when I had my oldest son, they didnt call or anything to tell my husband congrats. Well, when Jason ( husbands brother) had their baby 5 months after we had our first son, he called and wanted to tell Phillip ( my husband) all about it but my husband just said, ‘oh really. thats nice. I am busy I have to go.’ lol… My husbands brother and wife dont like me because we had the first grand baby. Jason ( BIL) has seen my oldest son on occasion but never says a word to him and doesn’t even acknowledge him. And, last fathers day my inlaws had my oldest son and jason (BIL) called them and wanted to know if they would come over sp he could cook for his dad and my FIL said, ‘well, we have Parker I hope thats okay.’ My BIL said ‘no never mind . I’d rather not deal with that.’ OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOoo I wanted to punch him in the head! lol

    #6936688

    3blessings
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    krystalnf: I am quite literally in the same position you are in. The only exception being that my SIL is not my MIL’s daughter…it’s her son’s wife. But she is due one week before me. They all live 1 1/2 hours away and my MIL lives with my BIL + SIL. So of course if we are in labor at the same time (which is kinda unlikely but still possible) I know she’ll be there and not out here with us. Which is FINE with me!!!! We used to get along but she hasn’t really shown any interest in our daughters life so I’m kinda bitter about that. But not so much anymore bc I shouldn’t have to force someone to be in my daughters life. I used to care,,,but not anymore. Then she calls up the other day (mind you the only time she ever calls the house, any other time she calls my DH’s cell phone) to see if I want to drive out there with Mackenzie to go to a mothers day dinner her church is having. I’ll prob go to be nice, but I really don’t want to go

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