Mothers in law

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    Neeni86
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    Lol I’m so glad I found this forum bc I dont feel so alone anymore when it comes to the MIL. I told my husband that when the baby gets here that we will not being going over to his mom’s house everytime she invites us. For one, his family is so unpredictable and there is always drama going on over there. My MIL and I have a better relationship now than we did before but I don’t think she cared too mucb for me since I’m black and her son is white. After I had my first daughter she always wanted us to go over to her house and my husband would get pissed off if I didn’t want to go. Honestly I didn’t really have too but I did not feel like arguing with him. My MIL would always whine and complain that we dony go see her that much when she never even comes over to our house. So I said with this baby if they want to see him/ her we will not be jumping to our feet to go over there even if they are cooking dinner, they need to come to OUR place if they wanna see the baby. My SIL that lives with her has a bossy attitude and wants to just sit there and hold the baby like it’s hers…like when we went out to eat when my daughter was a few months, she like held her the whole time like she was her baby..ugh!! I dont even wanna reminense about. I just hope with this baby I have things will be different in a good way.

    #6936571

    Izziebo
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    ARHH andrews mothers just come over and is taking over HELP ME i hate her so much she does my tits in she just invites herself round

    HELP!!!!

    #6936827

    Lila2cute
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    Okay so I need to vent!!! Me and my bfs mother had always got along untill a few months ago when we had a blow out…. well now she is a total bitch!!! She use to talk all kinds of crap about her other sons gf and now they are best of friends! When she use to talk shit I wouldnt say anything, just try to change the subject. Well I know that my bfs brother’s gf has/will talk shit about me. So now when I talk to my bfs mom its so painful…all she talks about is how cute their baby is and how she see’s their baby twice a week…. she has not seen my baby for a few months and I don’t know why she even calls. I have a wonderful family and I don’t need to sit on the phone and listen to what a great baby they have… she doesn’t even mention my son. We are having our second baby together and my bf joked about not telling his mom until we deliver but now he wants to tell her…. I don’t, I really don’t care for any of his family as they don’t care about my sons so its whatever. I try to be nice but it is not even worth it! Thats my vent…. What should I do guys?

    #6936572

    Izziebo
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    ergh shes so annoyign she just left n she just KEPT calling me fat ugly stupid lazy anything n i got called it

    im fed up of her

    n then when i said no id rather sort myletter out and post it myself thankyou she got all arsey and insulted i just wanna do it so i know tis done n when its done n what not

    #6936828

    I can’t stand my MIL. And now it seems the feeling is mutual. On my hen night she was kind enough to take the time to tell me this her exact words so please excuse the language ‘I don’t want you as a daughter in-law, your not good enough for my son and I’m not coming to your fucking wedding!’ She did come to the wedding unfortunately and has the cheek to ask my husband why I am being so distant with her!

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    19Sarah87
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    omg my mil was murder telling me what to do with my baby, she was like i did it with mine and i exploded tellin her well hes mine not hers, almost broke me and my hubbi to be up so i told her daint want to see her any more as she was the main cause for my post natal depression, and she was making my life hell so she onli come down when i decided to go out which is great for me life wud be so easi wiv out a mil than i start to realise im going to be one in the future lol hopfulli i wont be that bad lol

    #6936829

    JessieZC
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    So We’re in the middle of planning the menu for Thanksgiving… which for me was always fantastic until last year when MIL joined. She is not here this year (as far as I know…fingers crossed). May all of you lovely ladies have a wonderful holiday season with little stress. Anyone have any good stories about weird dishes you discovered when you first dined with the ILs?

    #6936574

    JessieZC
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    mellow – that reminds me of my uncle’s (mom’s brother’s) funeral. He died in 03 of complications due to AIDS. One of my second cousin’s from my father’s side (named D) showed up and tried to kick out my uncle’s best friends (who’d been by his side for several months and when he died) because they were gay. My other uncle stepped up and asked her to leave instead and that not only did she have no right to tell them anything, but that they were welcome anytime and she was not. She huffed and walked out. She’s the matriarch’s daughter on my father’s side, so when invites went out for my wedding a few months later and I refused to invite her, my mother was shocked and tried to tell me that I had to invite her. D yelled at me when I was 16, while at a wedding, saying really nasty stuff about me having never really gotten to know me. My father pulled me away before I was able to say anything (he didn’t know what she said to me). The fact that she disrespected my uncle and his friends sealed the deal for me.

    #6936830

    teampink
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    well my othe halfs mother is a really nice lady n genuilly means no harm… but she is doing my heead in, me and y bf r waiting for our own place and so for the forseable future are living here with her… and asthankful i am to her she MUST stop trying to take over my babies life… i am 19 weeks pregnant and she already has everything sorted in her head she is going to be the mother of this baby! doing night feeds, looking after her all day! and if i have anything to do with it we will not be living here when the little one arrives! or i will end up being like a big sister to this baby not her mother!! i just laff smile and grit my teethtogether untilll we do eventaly move out!! it annoys me just talking about it!

    #6936575

    JessieZC
    Member

    Mellow- Sad to hear about your DH’s uncle. I’ll keep them in my thoughts. I’m glad that your MIL is just cracked up enough to piss off and skip it. Just remember that Karma is a B*#&# and she’ll get what’s coming to her sooner or later.

    #6936831

    dsday19
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    My MIL got in a big fight with my DH and in a fit of rage said she wasn’t doing thanksgiving or christmas dinner now, and it was my DH fault. We planned to go there for dinner so we had no plans; so I called my twin sister right up and now we are going there. The other day she had the nerve to call MY phone and and ask if there was anything special we wanted for thanksgiving since she was at the store. She acted liking nothing happened. After she hurt my DH and made him very upset. Needless to say they got into another fight becuase my DH told her if you don’t mean it don’t say it and we have other plans. Thank goodness he stood his ground. I refuse to dissapoint my sister who is now looking forward to us coming because she had a ‘mood swing’. This women will be the end to our marriage if there was one. She drives my insane!

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