anyone with surrogacy experience

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    Delia07
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    Hi everyone! It happened so that there was rapture of the uterus during my first delivery. The uterus was removed. My husband and I want to have one more child. What options do we have? We are thinking about surrogacy and adoption. My dh inclines to surrogacy more. We are from France and this procedure is illegal here. Is there anyone who underwent surrogacy or adoption? What problems have you faced? Which agencies/clinics have you used? How much did you pay? I want to talk to someone who knows the process personally. Reading articles in the internet doesn’t bring much info. All of them are so controversial. And I want to know all aspects and sides, so we’d understand how and where to start. I’m almost 40 years and I don’t want to waste time. I’ll appreciate any information.

    #10786495

    reginagreen
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    Hello hun! I’m so sorry you faced infertility. A year ago I was approximately in the same situation. I wanted to have a child, but the condition of my health couldn’t allow me to accomplish my dream. I was diagnosed with PCOS in 2015. We’ve been ttc for 7 years before I got to know about my diagnosis. Treatment wasn’t working at all. I didn’t want to waste time. I was 32 already. And this wasn’t only about my age. I was just so tired of ttc like crazy and getting nothing instead. I was recommended by my doc to use donor eggs to gp. We’ve decided to go abroad. There were lots of proc of going abroad, plus we wanted anonymous donor. Girls on this forum helped a lot to understand the process and to choose where to go. We contacted clinics directly. No agencies, it’s just a waste of money. We found professional clinic and saved some money. I’ve got pregnant from the first try in July. I gave birth to a healthy and wonderful boy in April. I hope you will find the best option which will help you to become parents for a second time! Good luck!

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    Delia07
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    Thanks for reply! I’m so sorry about your diagnosis. I’m happy to know you found solution! My congratulations! Your story is so inspiring. I’m so happy for you! Thanks for advices. I’ll consider them for sure. I wish all the best to you and your family! Thank you so much for sharing your story with me. Now I really need to hear such words. They give me hope and strength to keep going. I really don’t want to lose time any more. I also feel so tired from being stressed all the time. I hope we’ll start our journey soon.

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    tracy67
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    emira
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    I learn something from this forum. In some countries don’t allow surrogacy and surrogacy politics is different from country to country. You must find a country that has the best law for you. I think that one of the countries is Ukraine. Don’t rush into decision. It’s a big decision and be sure that you are protected by the law and that you will not have a problems later.

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    denisaB
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    I agree with you Emira. Not every country has a friendly law about surrogacy. I don’t know what countries are against surrogacy but I am sure that Ukraine isn’t. There you will be protected like parents of the child which will surrogate mother bring to the world. You will have all necessary documents and no one can do anything to get in the way of your happiness.

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    friendlymum1
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    Hey Delia, how are you? I hope you’re doing well. There are quite a few clinics you can choose from for your treatment. Since it is illegal in your country, you need to research very well. Look into the laws as well. Many countries allow for loopholes for the clinics or the people involved to loot you through. You do not want to fall prey to that. Hence, do your research well before deciding on a place to get your treatment from.

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    dandelion1986
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    Hello to everyone!
    I went through it myself with my husband. We have been looking for a clinic and a surrogate mother for a long time. It is very important to study all the details of the legislation of the country to which you are going.
    Good luck to all and healthy babies!

    #10794210

    flovelive3
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    40 yo is a nice age to start surrogacy. I am older and we are in the middle of the surrogacy program. If you have any questions, feel free to ask. I am here to help you out to make the decision. Surrogacy has been nothing but the blessing for us. Especially because of the agency we have signed with. We did not expect such progress in such a short time.

    Good luck!

    #10794211

    flovelive3
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    Hi dandelion1986!
    If you are still looking for a clinic, I can advise you on some. There are a few great options in Ukraine. It is only if you are ready to go abroad. One of the options is World Center of Baby. It is the agency we have signed with. I know what they are like and can recommend them 100 per cent. If you want to know more about Ukraine as a surrogacy destination, do not hesitate to dm me 🙂

    #10794747

    Inkedmama9
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    @delia07 Sorry to hear about your hysterectomy. I’m sure that it is a problem when you want to extend your family later on but at least you have a baby to be blessed! I just mentioned that so you can see the bright side of your case and don’t get really bogged down by the situation. In your case, I guess both surrogacy and adoption just works fine. All you need is to decide what you want… another biological child or just want to make the life of a less fortunate one better. It’s all about priorities and of course. nonetheless, both require careful consideration and loads and loads of paperwork. The surrogacy process isn’t that hard really if you find a right clinic for it. Just make sure you consider the surrogate pool and waiting time and most importantly the legal bindings of the land to get your baby back home before proceeding with any clinic. I personally would go for adoption in this case though if I can.

    #10794748

    Inkedmama9
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    @Dandelion Yes, that is a very very important aspect one must consider and thoroughly look into before booking with any surrogacy clinic. Also, I guess sometimes it’s better to look for feedback for the same clinic from real people so it’s easier to understand the deal better. I forgot to add, it’s also very very important once you decide on any clinic to go through the contract draft very scrupulously as they tend to have a clause that can incur hidden costs and worth thousands. Any loss or failed attempt due to the surrogate’s part needs to be covered by the clinic and shouldn’t cost you a penny…. check for this clause. Also, if the surrogate cancels, the replacement should be a fix and not a fresh programme. Like @flovelive3 said Ukraine is really doing exemplary in terms of assisted fertility and you might look into the biotexcom brochure to find what they have to offer. I’ve been really seeing several personal blogs about infertility journey mentioning them… so assume they must have a good success rate to have such authentic feedback.

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