Hi Lillian, how are you? I hope this message finds you in good spirits. I realize the current time seems very trying to you. It really is. But please, stay optimistic. See, the child is your husband and yours. No one else should have a say in the matter. Neither should they be able to disapprove or boss you around. If you wish to go for surrogacy, it is a decision that lies solely with you and your husband. Do not let others manipulate you into thinking otherwise. Moreover, if your husband does love you, which he surely does, he won’t leave you over such a thing. Just keep calm and hold your ground. Everything will work out perfectly. I have you in my prayers.