So on the topic of the appropriateness of this forum I want to add a bit. I feel sad that in our fun and moment of distraction we both neglected and offended a new comer. That being said, there have been times where I have posted in the regular TTC forum and my questions have gone unnoticed by the women in that forum. Some of us have been in here for such a long time. I think back to when I first joined and where I was in my life and all the feelings then and how much I needed the girls in here. Can, Becky, Girl, OBS, Shee and Shaw instantly became my sisters. Since that first day I posted in here we have had a few ups, oh so many downs and lots of inbetweens. It seems there is always a cycle of ok times, down times and up times… Since my first day in here so many new women have joined us, some of them came and went and some of then have stayed… we are a pretty big group now, it was only a matter of time before we got so big that we started to neglect our newbies. I realize that the topic over the last couple days was maybe a little more racey than normal, though I will say that we are all adults here lets not lie to ourselves and say that none of us are having sex. I will say though that the few days before the ‘raunchy’ topics we pretty generally down days for most of us. A few of our ‘verteran’members had been having rough times and a few newbies are suffering new, first time and recent losses. I know that we needed those few days of distraction… I know that I needed it! I am sad to say this but I worry that now we are going to head back into our down time… I hope that in the future we can accomidate everyone but unfortunately I worry that perhaps that is an impossibility. We will never be able please everyone all the time. I will always love the women, the sisters, I have met in here. You all have helped save me. I have needed you all… I am sad that a few will be leaving us because one person was displeased with the topics and conversations in here. I know that I will not leave this group because of how much I know I needed this place. I have been in this group for over a year and if I have helped even one person on here then I know that the one person who was disapointed with the topics for 2 days is not going to change the reason I am in this group. I have lost 4 children in only a year and the women in here helped me through that time… I will not leave because one person was unhappy with us. I hope they find the help they need. Love you girls!
WilliamsonBabies 3 years, 6 months ago.
