Ttc after loss

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  • #6968335

    Redheadmama
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    DANI- oh my gosh, talk about ruining it! I can’t wait to tell DH that one. he’ll flip. lol. fa la la la la…. lol And as for the other things, I think you worded it exactly right. (((hugs))) you’re lovely. and you know if you need support, you’ve got it here in aces. EM- are you counting in hours yet? do you have your outfit planned? do you have a nice bottle of wine to uncork? 🙂 As for the house and yard stuff, you’re insane. end of story. 😉 SARA- did your doc tell you to take all that stuff?? I’m just curious, because I’ve wondered about taking extra folic acid myself. I haven’t yet… but I think I might start. And EM what does the B6 do? Is it something I should add into my cocktail?? All I take is prescription prenatals, calcium + D, and flax seed oil. Am I missing some basic component somehow? BECKY- yes you will!!!!!! and I still think you’ll get two, not just one. but maybe not at the same time, lol. chin up, love. it sucks and it’s hard, I know. but I seriously think you’ve got game. and I think it’s about showtime for you. (((hugs)))

    #6968591

    em2stewartswife
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    Morning girlies! Yesterday was WONDERFUL! DH and I were supposed to have a bunch of people but we ended up just eating alone and then having people over for desert and wine. It was so romantic and intimate! But DH has duty today which means he works for 24 hours starting at 9am. I just got back from dropping him off. So today I just need to clean up a little….. we did some partying after dinner….. partying that involved having to wash the dog bed! How was everyones turkey day?

    #6968847

    RED — I am with you on the feelings. I think they are totally normal. I feel even more resentment when people tell me and they don’t have any ‘problems’ conceiving and it just happens so easy! That really ticks me off and I am then standoffish with them. I can’t help but be like that – I don’t like it, but that is what I need right now and how you are feeling is what you need right now. Do NOT feel bad about it in anyway!

    #6969103

    Redheadmama
    Member

    SILLY- you crack me up. 🙂 we’ll be excited to hear your news *whenever*. 🙂 AKERR- you need (((((HUGS)))))

    #6969359

    As for wrapping presents – I use paper – many different rolls. I love curly ribbons and fancy name tags. I love for my presents to look like they belong on the cover a magazine!!! But, it does take me FOR EVER to wrap!!! I also keep one special roll of paper for the presents from Santa. With kids, my presents no longer go under the tree early – we put them all out on the 24th after the kids are in bed. We love seeing their faces when they come downstairs on Christmas morning!! We wrap them all at once – one evening after the kids are in bed. Now speaking of wrapping – I have to kick myself in the butt and get it done – I haven’t even started yet!!!

    #6969615

    2bBlessedw2
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    NewMama-I’ve had several transvaginal ultrasounds that all showed I have fibroids….small…but they are always there. Since I’m not getting pregnant and staying pregnant I also will be going through all of those other tests to check on the flow of things and my tubes. Of course it will be with a specialist not my OBGYN and I’m hoping my health insurance covers it! Well EVERYONE AF is completely here on CD 29 and though she is late for me, I am kind of happy because we are going to try even harder this time! Hubby and I work totally different hours…me eve/nights and he works days…but I’m going start doing the morning BD instead of the really late, waking him BD that we have been doing. Of course it will be in the middle of my sleep….but hey….something has got to change and it’s only fair since I have been waking him during his sleep in the middle of the night! LOL Okay…gotta get ready for work soon….hope everyone has a great weekend!

    #6969871

    RED – Hi beautiful! How are you? I’ve missed you so much!! I need a baby update!! Love ya

    #6970127

    em2stewartswife
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    Blessed, please dont worry about having a child who is not as healthy as your two boys that you have now. My Aunt had my cousin Robby 24 years ago when she was 43 and my cousin Nikki 21 years ago. Nikki is perfectly healthy but living at home mooching off of his parents and Robby who has downsyndrom is going to college, has worked at Applebees for 4 years now and lives with a roommate a whole state away! We all have a point where we say enough is enough. I dont think you should give up yet though. I will say I think you should do what you think is right for you. It is your life and I know as hard as it is I know you would and can make it through anything! And dont worry too much about that dip on 10DPO… you did go back up a little! And you can test with me if you want… idk if I will even be testing… lets see what these temps do!

    #6970383

    DANI- woohooo. What fab news! Are you able to breathe a little easier now?? Hope so! Butterball is going great!! (funny how those 2 words butter &ball, go so nicely together 😉 )

    #6970639

    em2stewartswife
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    Can, about the Ex thing. I would say that you should not change you life for someone that you arent 100% sure about. I know how tough that can be because I know that you love him (just not sure if its the ‘in’ love thing) You are in a great place right now… a better place than I have ever seen you in (in the whole year and a half almost that I have known you!) Maybe meet for dinner sometime (if you can) and see where it goes from there… if you see that he is everything that you need and you are willing to and want to change your life for him, again… then do what you feel is right… obviously no rushing into things (I know you wouldnt) but see where it takes you and see how it feels… if yu see him and hang with him for a little and realize that, no, you really dont need him in your life then keep on like you are. But we all know that love is a funny thing. Who knows, you may see him again and think, ‘I just cant be with out this person in my life’ To my recolection, he didnt crush you too much and you guys were good while you were together… it was just the baby thing that you guys couldnt get through… people grow. You have come a long way and maybe he has too. DH and I broke up once (we were only 14 and 15 at the time and it was only for 3 months) and I think we needed that time to grow and figure out what we really needed and wanted in life. When I saw Brian again that first time I just knew. I knew he was the one and I knew we needed that time apart to grow. He got a job, his licence and was just so grown and different than when we had been together at first. So idk… follow your heart… if it points to Ex then go there… if not you will be no worse for the wear. Love you!

    #6970895

    em2stewartswife
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    Red, I know exactly what Brian will say, absolutely not…. he will mail the cards (and check for $100) right back when he gets home tomorrow. 2 years ago (can I just say I can not believe it has been that long! OMG??) he and my father got into it pretty good because my dad made me cry because he told me that I ruined being a grandfather for him… not sure what I did wrong but what ever… long story short Brian told my dad to grow up (in maybe not so nice words) Then we moved on, no worries and then this year, bam…. its like he is good for a few months and then back to his old self again. Its just not fair because there was a time where he was a great father and a great man and I want so much for him to just be that person again but I am not sure if that was ever really him… I mean who really was he? The drug addict who acted like a good guy or a good guy who screwed up (a couple hundred times) Its just so frustrating…. and dont get jealous yet… I may have some watery CM but I doubt O is close yet… I havent Oed before CD 15 in my whole life!

    #6971151

    Redheadmama
    Member

    BUTTER- messaged you, hun. (((hug)))

    #6971407

    Hi Ladies. Hope you are all well. Not sure if anyone remembers me. I haven’t been on in a while. Was doing some testing and had to take a break from ttc. I have a quick question. I am now doing progesterone supp. 2x a day starting on CD12. I have done the supp before but only after I got my BFP. So my question is when do you BD while taking this ..I mean like if I insert one in the am do I BD later that night and then insert the other after or before BDing ..I mean isn’t it messy? And isn’t my DH going to get it on him? Really confused..any response would be helpful..started supps. this morning.

    #6971663

    Emma31
    Member

    Finlays – I LOVE Cadbury’s chocolate. I live about 15 mins away from the factory, and we go there about twice a year. They load you up with free choccie bars as you walk in the building and then you get given free bars as you walk around – YUM! It’s definately the best chocolate in the world.

    #6971919

    2bBlessedw2
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    Quiet in here today!!! I’m home with a blizzard going on but right now it’s the calm before the worst part starts! I’m going to start a very simple QOTD! LOL What is your favorite color???? Mine is Periwinkle. I actually love all shades of purple and blue. Periwinkle is the perfect shade of both. :o)

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