Ttc after loss

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    BECKY- Yay for an *o time*!!!!! And yeah, my IBS has been pretty much gone since conception of my last pregnancy. But now its back. I normally control it with my own diet…which isnt changing. So, I guess maybe this pregnancy will be no fun when it comes to my IBS. Im going to check that site out though…thanks

    #6971117

    em2stewartswife
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    Jen, I am sorry sweety… I know it seems that your DH doesnt care but for men it is hard… they deal with a similar pain to ours and also the pain of not being able to fix it or to help you… he is helpless and men hate that feeling… hopefully you two will heal physically and emotionally from this soon. I know it is hard but you can do it. Go easy on your DH and talk to him about how you feel. Tell him you want to know how he feels but dont expect him to say much… it took my DH almost a year and after losing 4 to finally talk about it!

    #6971373

    belebr
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    Hello Ladies! I have been reading everyone’s messages but I cannot post from my blackberry! I am CD13 today and although my cycles are usually 42 days and so usually I ovulate later I am noticing signs of ovulation! (CM) DH and I are on opposite shifts so we can BD from Fri-Sun only. I have not received my OPK strips yet and I have never been consistent with BBT. Have a Great Day all! on my way to work! babydust to all! xoxo

    #6971629

    em2stewartswife
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    K ladies, nighty night! I am determined to get on track tomorrow! And dont worry, not testing tomorrw… rememeber, I have my 4 day plan LMAO! Love you guys!

    #6971885

    min41
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    MRSW – I am not giving up on you yet, your chart could still be a day or two out with ovulation even with the +opk, so I think it is still too early. As long as your temps are still up just keep testing. Good luck.

    #6972141

    Redheadmama
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    QOTD: WHAT KIND OF TOOTHPASTE DO YOU USE?? AND DO YOU SHARE IT WITH DH OR DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN??

    #6972397

    Redheadmama
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    AMK- are you armed with pee sticks? Maybe you should pee on some popsicle sticks like Em talked about one time, just to get that urge out of you. lol. 🙂 DANI- just so you know, I am rolling in the spray from the fire hose. It seemed pretty sticky, so I thought I oughtta. 🙂 CAZ- haha, AF being like a mother in law, lol. That’s pretty funny. But I actually love my mother in law. So I’d say she’s definitely like an aunt to me. 🙂 DEZZI- it is great to hear your story. I am so glad you have a beautiful little girl to help brighten some of these dark days! I hope your scan goes well, and shows that your body is ready to try again. (((hugs))) SARAH5- yes, the first day of real blood flow is CD1. If it’s just spotting, or if flow starts after 7pm, then the *next* day is CD1. (that is according to my specialists, so they oughtta know). 🙂 Remember to try being patient with your body (it’s SO hard!!), because cycles can be really screwy for a few months after a miscarriage. The waiting is so hard, I know. Today there is no wind- just gorgeous clear sky and sunshine. So DS and I are driving to the country to see my mom, and I will kidnap her sewing machine while they play all day. I’m excited. I’ll be watching the Food Network too – we don’t have tv so I love watching it at my parents. 🙂

    #6972653

    Just called…a technician will be doing my HSG. I am now terrified. My dr is going to have a very bad day today. My mom and I are going to the office to make him explain all of this rediculous nonsense. Are these things that a compassionate dr would do for someone with fertility issues?!?! I think not…Im done with him completely…ugh. I just hope this ‘technician’ knows wth their doing.

    #6972909

    MGmommy
    Member

    Thank you all so much for the sweet comments! MUAH!

    #6973165

    Redheadmama
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    HANNAH- hey girl, you get to head on over to the PGAL forum now. 🙂 They would love to welcome you and share this journey with you! If you haven’t visited it before, scroll down this page and you’ll find it on the right side listed between ‘Pregnancy After Weight Loss Surgery’ & ‘Potty Training.’ All the best to you! JAMIE- I’m thinking of you today. I’m so sorry you have to face people at work. Let us know how it goes. (((hugs))) I try to come up with trite answers like, ‘I’m not doing really well, our baby recently died, and I am not up to talking about it’ & spout it off to everyone who asks. But that’s just me and one of my coping mechanisms. I am so sorry, sweetie. I hope it does help pass the time for you. (((hugs))) MG- I’m sorry honey. I really am. As for the Christmas thing… DH & I used to care about that… not so much anymore. As long as it’s not born on the 25th (and I know you can only do so much to hinder that, lol), I think it’s golden. People say taking a month off isn’t a big deal, and I guess they’re right… but I don’t know. Taking a month off always breaks my heart to pieces. Love to you, honey. 2ANGELS- good morning, girl! Yay for the 2ww. Yeah, we didn’t bd last night either. Back aches, DH has a cold, and we were just so tired. We popped in a movie, but I fell asleep! lol. BERRY- I am glad you are managing okay. Just keep being gentle with yourself this weekend. And get psyched up for some romance in two weeks. 🙂 🙂

    #6973421

    Emma31
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    Sruth – I’m glad you’ve got some answers, and I hope u can move on and TTC again soon xx

    #6973677

    annie40
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    af is here, just waiting on a phone call from the ivf clinic now, hopefully with good news xxx

    #6973933

    Jamie86
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    MRSW- Its ok, this will be my first AF since my m/c so now we can really start trying. I was just really hoping it would be the same as it was with my son. I hope you have a great time on your trip, I would love to go some where nice and warm. DANI- thanks, I know it will happen soon, just not as soon as I would like.

    #6974189

    2bBlessedw2
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    Thanks Jess for the fingers crossed-if your boobs are burning I say yes. That has always been a sure sign for me. Mine are not burning yet….just really really sore. They get a little sore before AF but not this early on. They have been sore since 5 DPO. I wish you lived by me cuz if you did then I would test your blood at work and give you a true yes or no!!!! I love working in a lab! I’ll be doing my blood on tues when I am in that department. Was tempted to do it yesterday but at 7 DPO I didn’t want to see the negative.

    #6974445

    AMK – oh no! I hope I didn’t miss O 🙁

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