Ttc after loss

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  • #6990076

    Mishaan
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    Caniacmom how are u been checking in here sometime and just find new pple, hope things will work out 4 u real soon, well am almost i don’t know the gender is a suprise i will recieve when i have my child. Hope the all the ladies stay will be shorter with positive results

    #6956797

    bluestar
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    Hi ladies, just wondering if your gp or specialists havedone anything different for you with ttc or in early weeks of pregnancy after having experiancing a loss? my gp said there was nothing she could do but i am pretty sure my specialist may disagree. has any had maybe weekly blood test for hcg, early scans, been given shots or medicine? i have pcos and i was thinking maybe my progesterone is a problem? any advice? thanks!!

    #6957053

    em2stewartswife
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    lol… mommy, My AF I guess should be due on the 8th or so… Since thats when I lost this last one and people usually get their next AF 3-8 weeks later. I am so scared that it will be possitive because I still dont know why I keep losing them. I have a feeling I have sticky blood or something and I want to start an asprin regimin asap but I cant until I do the testing (asprin would compramise the testing so I have to wait) But if I am prego now I want to take the asprin to ensure my blood is thin enough. Man, I hate catch 22’s! Prehaps we can test together… I have a feeling I am just psyching myself out but it would be good to just know since I wont be seeing a dr for 2 weeks. And the hubby leaves again this week so I will have to deal with all the disappointments alone. Good luck with the move…. I edited my comment because I thought… ‘hey wait I thought it was that Halifax person…’ lol

    #6957309

    Obscurette
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    roosa- that’s great that the babysitting went well, you r a strong and brave person and I’m proud of you! it’s like we fear the possibilities of what might happen when we have to face these hurdles and we build our own anxiety and aprehension up sooo high that when the moment comes it in reality is sooo much more maneagable than the fantasy in our heads. Here’s to jumping each hurdle one at a time! 🙂

    #6957565

    Obscurette
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    renee I’m so glad your levels are still rising! I really hope it all goes well, I shall be thinking of you! take care. x

    #6957821

    Nikkinu1
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    Aww, Shee – BFN 🙁 I will keep my fingers crossed that you’ll get your BFP before the end of the month! I get BCP prevent preg and that’s what dr.’s want to prevent right after m/c, but can they really help regulate after just one month? Maybe the first month, but the ones after that? Hmmm…. Shee, the reasoning that drs want to better date the pregnancy and that’s part of the reason they tell you to wait is what I have a hard time with. Adrienne, you’ll learn that I’m not waiting…I’m emotionally ready and that’s a reason dr.s tell you to wait too. I have yet to receive concrete information that the uterus is not ready…just antedotal info and recommendation to be cautious….I know that it can be and I’m hoping mine will be.

    #6958077

    em2stewartswife
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    Canadian, I am really hoping we can be BFP buddies… I will need someone to worry with me! 😀 and thanks Girl, I think I might just start taking it now… I mean I go to the dr on Wednesday but I am so paranoid that I worry better safe than sorry…

    #6958333

    aussiegirl80
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    Now I am worried that there might be something wrong with my egg since it’s 3 days later than usual, does anyone know if later ovulation that usual is a bad sign for ttc – terrible, only gearing up to BD tonight and I am already worried about miscarrying again 🙁 Or could the late O be because I think my last AF was a chemical preg which was straight after a m/c…. maybe my cycle is still a bit screwy??? WHY DOES TTC HAVE TO DRIVE US SO CRAZZY!!!!!!!! Maybe I should just wait until next cycle, but I will drive myself crazy no matter how long I wait!

    #6958589

    firsttimer
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    Hee hee, I like bloobies!!! So anyway, update on my bloobies, they are still sore! And today (7dpo) I have crampy feelings in my lower belly! Hmmm, I’m not saying a word. I’m quite sure they are there and I’m not just making it up. But it could be all the rubbish I was eating yesterday, because I am famished all the time at the moment!!! I’ve just had my toast, and I’m trying to control myself a bit better today with the eating. Going to see a miscarriage counsellor this morning, hopefully this will go well. Go Canadian with your 4500 HCG levels!!! Well done, all sounds very healthy!

    #6958845

    em2stewartswife
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    HOLY SHIT!!! I just got home and got my state taxes back… $838!!!!! Maybe now I can convince DH to let me get the doppler I want! 😀 This is so cool… we only ever get like $300 tops back form state so $800 is like a miracle… I cant wait to get back federal!!! I hope everyone is doing well!

    #6959101

    RES
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    livelaughlove- So sorry to hear that. You need to go to your doc and have your hcg levels checked. When I had my chemical pregnancy last June, I knew something was wrong before I miscarried, because when I should have been 5 weeks, the pregnancy indicator said 2 weeks. It never went up to 3-4 weeks.

    #6959357

    Redheadmama
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    oh and have I mentioned two bits of good news? my husband (who had been laid off for a month) has been re-hired by his old company, because they are overloaded with work. duh: you lay off half your company but still have the same amount of work. hm. anyway, we are so happy that he has work now!! *confetti* 🙂 also: I think I am officially in the 2ww now. not keeping my hopes too high, but definitely praying for a miracle baby.

    #6959613

    Prettyrose
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    I am so mad with my younger sister. So mad, I don’t know where to begin. Why are some ppl so ……arrrgghhhh!!!!!!

    #6959869

    beckybear
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    Hogi, I’m really hoping that you just Oed much later than you thought. When I got PG the first time, it was 4/14 when I got my BFP, but my LMP was 2/13. So by LMP, I should have been over 8 weeks, but I was really only just under 5 weeks, because I didn’t O until around 3/28 (I get copious EWCM, I know when it’s time). My doctor did an exam and agreed that I was right, and had me come back in a few weeks for U/S and sure enough, I measured just under 8 weeks then. So I’m crossing my fingers for you that everything’s OK.

    #6960125

    Redheadmama
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    AVERYS- thanks for crying happy tears with me. I have plenty of them today. 🙂 So sorry stupid AF is here. grrr. but does that mean you’re still on a 28 day cycle? that’s pretty incredible, isn’t it? would your doc consider that a good sign? 🙂 JRL- yay yay yay!! two in one day is pretty impressive. 🙂 kudos to us. or maybe kudos to our babies! or heck wait, kudos to our hubby’s swimmers! woot woot! 😉 don’t worry about faint lines. with my son, it was so faint. so faint! different tests are different too. stop poasing now though. you’re pregnant and that’s all that matters. and yes, I believe that some cramping is normal. implantation and all that jazz. (((big jugs))) GARCES- hahaha, don’t worry I won’t spread any piggy germs in here (hoping I don’t get it… don’t want a fever now!) but I will sprinkle as much baby dust in here as I can. ***************************** That’s your dose for today, okie doke? 🙂 HARDY & HEIDS- thanks!! so happy. 🙂 baby dust to you too, okay? ******************** CAN- I know, I know, I know!!! absolutely positively craaaaazy, huh? 🙂 DH thinks pregnancy hormones is what made me so extra terrified on all our flights. and oh yeah, btw, yesterday’s 8 hours of flying were turbulent the whole way too. good grief. seriously?! thankfully it was only ‘moderate’ and not ‘severe’ but *still* I was in tears and white-knuckled. yes, for 8 hours. just lovely. and now I know I sent all those freaking stress hormones for my baby!!! ack!! never again. 🙂 thanks for the love and hugs and woots. 🙂 but you know you aren’t getting rid of me, okay?? oh and also, the cape is going to be in *high demand* now, fyi. 😉 MRSW- thanks for the congrats and jugs!! I hope the jugs don’t tarry too long, lol. 😉 I want em! hehe. I am excited that your surgery is getting so close now!! and that means that soon you can be back to getting your very own personal bfp!! so exciting. I know the days must be absolutely crawling by. but it’s almost here! 🙂 BUTTER- you are darling. Thank you for the tears and joy and hugs and jugs and all the rest of it. you’re just wonderful. my shoulder is still here for you, though, k? SOON2- thank you so much. I really want it to give you hope. I’ve lost two babies already this year, and I know how hard it is — going through all the testing and waiting and junk. but I want to give you encouragement and hope. and I’m really praying that my healthy baby will arrive perfectly in June, and can be an even better encouragement then! but of course, hopefully everyone in here now won’t even be here then because we’ll *all* be in the pg-after-loss forum!! 🙂 LISA- oh dearie, I am so incredibly sorry. it’s so hard and just excruciating! but I am so encouraged for you that your AF returned already. I think that’s really good. and as far as the 3 month thing, my reproductive endocrinologist said we didn’t even have to wait until a new cycle if we didn’t want. we did anyway though, since we were undergoing so much testing. but I figure he knows best. at any rate, you need to do what is best for you & your DH. for your hearts. also for your body, but if your body seems ‘normal’ now then it’s just your heart. and for me personally, there’s no better balm after losing my baby than to try making another. (((hugs))) and best wishes to you. DEDE- thanks for popping in! so good to see you here again! we are always here for you whenever you need us. and we totally ‘get it’ about needing to deal and process stuff on your own too. (((hugs))) thanks for the congrats and all. you’re just lovely, and we’re so glad to have you back! don’t you dare give up hope!!

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